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help...yeah. Help.


Posted Wednesday January 14 2015, 6:23 pm

I have been conflicted about my feelings for two girls for the longest time and I've officially admitted to myself that I like and care for them both a lot. I don't want to be with either one because I don't want a relationship but I care about them both and just want them to be happy. But I don't know how to tell them I care. I'm not the best with showing my emotions.

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How do I excercise and gain muscle without losing my jiggly butt?


Posted Wednesday January 14 2015, 5:32 pm

Hello! So i have a normal sized jiggly butt. I have seen a lot of women who do squats and get bigger, more toned butts. I decided to do lunges and squats but then realized that if the muscle builds up the fat that makes my butt jiggly will go away and my butt will be hard. My problem is that i like my butt's ''jiggliness'' and don't want to it to go away. However, I also want my butt to become a little bit more toned (without surgeries, creams etc.). Do you have an advice? Is there an exercise that won't burn the fat that makes my butt jiggly and will lift my butt?

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am I different? I like puppies and kittenbs but not human babies.


Posted Wednesday January 14 2015, 3:07 pm

Well I am a girl of 23 years. I am not that old to get married, I know. But I am in a relationship and my boyfriend and his family think that it is high time to get married. Personally I I used to feel excited to marry him but as days go by I feel myself losing interest in marriage but not in him. And onething more is that I don't like to have my own baby. I like puppies kittens but not human baby..do I really have any psychological issue?

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Can I mark my parents as dependents on my tax return?


Posted Wednesday January 14 2015, 12:13 pm

21/f

I know this question sounds funny. My family has been struggling financially for awhile and my mom has asked me if she could mark me as a dependent. But it turns out, my mom couldn't even afford any of the bills and my sister and I have been paying for them (including the mortgage), since she only makes $300/month. My dad is retired and he gets about $780/month in his retirement funds. My sister didn't have a job pretty much all year around and I spoke to my boss and his brother (who's in accounting) and they told me that since I make the most money in the household and they pretty much depend on me, I can mark them all as dependents.

Can I mark my parents as dependents if they're married? And I know I can...

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8 years old boy


Posted Wednesday January 14 2015, 10:01 am

I am turning here for advice or maybe someone is dealing with a similar situation. My son is 8. At 1 - 3 years old we were dealing with him not playing much with toys he'd walk or crawl down a hall way and bang his head against the wall. During pregnancy one concern was down syndrome which was negative. He has alternating esotropia in his eyes messing both eyes are good one a little strong then the other but he only uses one eye at a time. He wears bifocals. He also has the skin between his eyes is flat instead of tucking in. He is taller than normal kids but his dad is pretty tall my son is 4 '11 at last visit a few months ago. He is pretty smart in school. He still doesn't really play with toys he likes video games reading chapter books a...

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Please help, I'm scared...


Posted Tuesday January 13 2015, 11:53 pm

I Got A Random Message On Kik From A Girl. It Said "21/F from Vegas, I found your name in the online member directory, just looking for someone to chat with"... Um? I Told Her I Didn't Know Her Or Whatever And She Asked If We Knew Eachother. I Said No And She Said That My Username Seemed Familiar Or Something. Pleeeease Help, I Know It May Just Seem Like Someone With The Wrong Kik But I'm Scared. I Don't know What Directory Or Anything She's Talking About. Please Help, I Deleted My Account And Everything. She Said "Hmm okay, mind talking to a 24 y/o lonely single female?" Or Whatever. Ah I'm So Creeped Out

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Which Would Benefit More


Posted Tuesday January 13 2015, 10:04 pm

Hello, I am an eighteen year old female and am about to start my second semester in freshman year at college. The college I'm at specializes mostly in science and mathematics area - specially engineering. I started out in Geology during the first semester to see if science was TRULY where my strength laid, but I'm definitely more of an artsy person. Therefore I changed to English as a degree. I don't really know what I wish for my career to be... because I have a lot of things I like. In this college there isn't that much interest in arts, but out of the few degrees that do relate to something I like I have English and Plastic Arts. I don't know which one to pick (and I've been told that a double bachelor's is not really that beneficial reg...

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I sending tanning at a salon n got very burnt when should I go again. n for


Posted Tuesday January 13 2015, 8:42 pm

I went tanning for the first time in a salon but I got very red n burnt when should I go back n how long I have a skin con so the doctor recommended it but I am really red n hurting what should I do


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Black Converse


Posted Tuesday January 13 2015, 4:48 pm

I got all black converse {the ones with black shoelaces and black "soles" (if that's what there called)}, and I want to wear them but I don't want to have to wear strictly black or white when I wear them. So basically my question is: How to I wear different colors with all black converse and still match?

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Do i stay with my bf or listen to my parents?


Posted Tuesday January 13 2015, 3:50 pm

I grew up catholic born and raised my parents are crazy catholic. I broke their biggest rule I had sex I have been having sex for months with my boyfriend. They found out this past new years , and made me give him up. They said till he graduates (hes a year younger, I graduate this year). But until then no contact aloud no texting facebook ect. no in person contact. We talk and pass notes at school I can't seem to give him up. Do I go against my parents wishes and try to be happy or go with what they say and be miserable. Most people say oh hey you'll make it highschool relationships never last but I don't think that's true I think that as long as we both try it can work. But I cannot afford to move out so im stuck living under my parents r...

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Do I HAVE to have a gender?


Posted Monday January 12 2015, 11:24 pm

For starters im a 14 year old girl and my physical body is a female one. I feel like I'm in a male mindset but I have no desire to change my body. I want to be a boy but I want my girl body. Is there a word for this or am I just weird? I know that you can be bisexual and like men and women (Im bisexual by the way if that changes anything) but can you be big ended where you just dont have a gender or you're a mix of both? I'm not sure how to explain how I feel and can't talk to anyone because my friends wouldn't understand because they're all heterosexual and comfortable in their bodies and I don't think that I can talk to my parents because I'd likely be told "God made you this way for a reason" (which is my mothers response when...

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How do I handle two of my guy friends both liking me?


Posted Monday January 12 2015, 7:53 pm

Okay, so I'm a 15, almost 16 year old girl. I moved schools this year and I made multiple friends. There are both girls and guys in my group. So, in the beginning of december, two of my close guy friends started talking to me a lot more, lets call them Joe and Harry. So they would text me and we'd all skype pretty often and it was pretty good. I liked the fact that I had some close guy friends that I could turn to if need be. So after a bit I started liking one of them, Harry. I never told anyone about it, still to this day.

So, about a week ago, my friend told me to come over to her house because she need to talk to me. When I went over, she told me that our group is in a fight, and it was about me. So apparently Joe had lik...

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its about being to young but i really love the guy and i want him back.


Posted Monday January 12 2015, 7:15 pm

The love of my life says I'm to young for him. How do I prove to him that I'm not to young? I'm really mature for my age and I don't see why he thinks I'm to young. I'm 15 and I am a female.

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I told a guy I like him


Posted Sunday January 11 2015, 10:17 pm

Me and this guy have been talking and hanging out for 2 months. Yesterday I hung out with the guy and we went to the movies and held my hand. After the movie, I went home and received a text from him saying he had a fun time.I replied by saying me to. After that we started just having a regular conversation. I just had to get off my chest and I told him that I liked him. He said that he liked me to. Today i haven't received and any text from him which I find surprising cause we text-ed everyday sooo someone please explain to me what has happen.Did i make a mistake? By the way I think he is inexperienced with girls.

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Addition with decimal


Posted Sunday January 11 2015, 8:47 pm

What's 4.82+12.7=

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I screwed up with him,what do I do now?


Posted Sunday January 11 2015, 12:41 am

Hi there,boy Im in hot water.
This guy I like likes looking at other women.We followed each other on Instagram.And every time I log in,it shows me what people I follow liked pictures,and how many. Well,about 90% of his posts are all sexy and suggestive photos,I was sick of seeing crap! Especially when he has me to stare at.I have brought this up many times.So I told him I wasnt sending him anymore photos to his phone.
I said ''you get sexy photos for free,and see them all the time why should I bother? Just the last straw''
And he responded ''Oh my god...you're right.This is the last straw''
And then I said''Dont be upset'' And sent some other messages
And he said ''I'm not talking to you right now. Stop ...

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can you get your cherry back after being popped


Posted Saturday January 10 2015, 7:54 pm

I'm a 15 year old female and my boyfriend has popped my cherry will this affect the way I have sex or get fingered again ? And will the cherry get back to normal .

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Is he really that into me?


Posted Saturday January 10 2015, 1:40 pm

So I'm confused about my relationship. I've been dating this guy for about 2 months now, and I go back and forth on if he's truly that into me, or not. To begin with, he's older than me. I'm 18, he's 22, so there's automatically a lot of judgement that comes along with that, which might have to do with some of my concerns. Basically, he says he likes me, drives about a half hour both ways in order to see me, pays for everything when we go out, texts me almost daily, finds excuses to touch me, seems interested in learning about me, and came on a trip to Vermont with my family. However, he never asks to Skype or call anymore, hasn't told his parents about me, doesn't want to hang out at my house if my parents are there, I'm the one who asks t...

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Is this normal? (Mental Health Question)


Posted Saturday January 10 2015, 2:15 am

I'm a 14 year old female with depression and anxiety. I'm a freshman in high school, but I'm homeschooled due to the mental illnesses. Well, I have NO friends. The only interaction I really have is with my family. I probably only go outside once or twice a week. All I really do is play video games, read, surf the internet, do my schoolwork, or other little activities. I love going outside as long as it isn't hot, but I'm just too depressed and anxious. Is there something wrong with me? I go to a therapist every week. I just feel like I'm worthless and not going anywhere since I stay in my room 23 hours of the day, on the internet for like half of that time. I just feel worthless. It's not like I'm a lazy bum who doesn't do anything with the...

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Not eneough freedom in my relationship? Or is it me, help??


Posted Saturday January 10 2015, 12:43 am

I have been with my fiance since high school. We are both 22 yrs old now and have a beautiful 1yr old daughter. My problem with my relationship is I feel smothered. Not smothered by attention or affection, there actually isn't much of that because of me. He works hard for our family and our future while I staynat home. I love him so much and couldn't imagine my life without him...yet at times I want to escape. He is a very sensitive broody kind of guy. He was both physically and mentally abused by his parents most of his life and he has passive aggressive issues BIGTIME. I on the other hand keep all my stress and insecurity locked up and don't show are act like anything is wrong. His behavior sometimes makes me want to just run and disappea...

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