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I told a guy I like him
Me and this guy have been talking and hanging out for 2 months. Yesterday I hung out with the guy and we went to the movies and held my hand. After the movie, I went home and received a text from him saying he had a fun time.I replied by saying me to. After that we started just having a regular conversation. I just had to get off my chest and I told him that I liked him. He said that he liked me to. Today i haven't received and any text from him which I find surprising cause we text-ed everyday sooo someone please explain to me what has happen.Did i make a mistake? By the way I think he is inexperienced with girls.
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Do you only text? Do you ever have a phone call? If not, surprise him with a phone call. Texting causes too much confusion, misunderstandings and worries over issues that may not even be existant.
Remember hon, he initiated the text regarding your date. If he didn't enjoy it or you, he wouldn't have contacted you to say so. He most certainly didn't contact you to say he liked it when he hated it. So if he's already likeing the date...its because the date was with you, not some other person, but because you are what made it so special. Its not as much the places we go or what we do that is important but who it s we are doing it with. So when you said you liked him, I'll bet he was already feeling that way about you and either had no idea how to say it or didnt have the courage yet to say it until you did. No, he wasn't copying you and just saying it because you did. Remember, he called you first.
Now if you walked up to a guy in school you'ved crushed on but never had any contact with and said 'I like you' to him. He could feel very awkward especially if he hadn't given you any thought before and had no idea if he would like you yet but says so just to keep face. You could not trust him when he said it.
So, the day following him saying he likes you, he doesn't text, and you think something is wrong. If I were a psychic, sure, I could explain to you what happened, like: His grandma died. He was upset and wasnt' thinking about anyone or anything else but his loss. too tragic, how about
his phone fell in the toilet and stopped working. You won't know why you didn't hear from him until you ask. Just don't interrogate him coming from a mind set that something must be wrong between you and him. And do not ask him if you freaked him out about saying you liked him. It makes you look unsure of yourself.
Ask something instead like this, "Hey I was worried when I didn't hear from you yesterday. Not that you have to text me every day but you have done that so far. So I wondered if you got sick or something bad happened in your family. When he explains what was up, or even that nothing happened. then let it go and say, "Good, well, I was already thinking about the next time we could do something together. How does .....sound? If he has indeed changed his mind about you and was lying, which is not his behavior, he'll keep coming up with excuses to never do so. Otherwise, other than a possible one time schedule conflict, he'll be sure to go out with you again. talk to him, thats the key to finding the answer to your question.
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Well then he probably doesn't know what to do next. So you might need to give him a little push, and make the next move. Unless something happened, I doubt you made a mistake. So you're going to need to try and make things happen at first, like make up a date for you two and make it happen, and if that doesn't work and he gets more distant or something, then you should confront him about it!
Hope this helps~
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