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its about being to young but i really love the guy and i want him back.


Question Posted Monday January 12 2015, 7:15 pm

The love of my life says I'm to young for him. How do I prove to him that I'm not to young? I'm really mature for my age and I don't see why he thinks I'm to young. I'm 15 and I am a female.

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missundersmock answered Tuesday January 13 2015, 10:35 pm:
Well how old IS he?? we cant really answer this question if we dont know how far apart in age you really are can we?

i'd say any more then 7 to 10 years and he is infact too old for you.

My now husband is 7 years older than me. i was 14 and he was 21 when we first met. We friends first then realized how much we felt the same things for each other and age just didnt matter after that.

He might be afraid that your age could get in the way and he could get charged with rape if things went wrong and you or your parents called the police.

He might want a woman who has her life together, isnt still living with a guardian, has a carrier of her own, a car, etc. so that he can begin a life together with her when HE and HER choose to, and dont have to wait until your at least 18 to do so.

There are so many reasons here and you gave us so little on him and your situation that its hard to gauge.

My husband waited for me because hes a big nerd and didnt have anyone else in his life quite like me, and i too have always been considered more mature then my actual age. You life together would all hinge on what HE wants to do because he would have to work to care for both of you until you could legally get a job and pay bills and so on.

try not to take it too personally when he says that to you, he might actually REALLY like you as a person but he might not be able to SEE himself with you realistically because of all of this. if you want to message me (because ive been there) feel free.

good luck ; )

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