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can you get your cherry back after being popped
I'm a 15 year old female and my boyfriend has popped my cherry will this affect the way I have sex or get fingered again ? And will the cherry get back to normal .
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Everyones said what needs to be said, however i feel a good visual prop will help you understand what the hymen is like. So what the following video by You tube user Laci Green, and while you're at it, maybe check out more of hers geared at teaching teens/college age regarding sex, gender and relationship subjects
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Lets' get the definitions correct first.
Cherry Popping by definitions generally means you were a virgin and have had your first sexual intercourse. It has nothing to do with the rupturing of your Hymen.
Hymen thin membrane across the opening of the vagina which has a small hole in it for menstrual blood to drain through. The Hyman can be ruptured or detached through physical exercise, bike or horseback riding or even a fall. Tampon usage and fingering can also rupture a Hyman. Loss or rupturing of a woman's Hyman at one time meant the loss of her virginity. Today this is not true. By today's definition, for male or female, a person is a virgin until they have a penile to vagina penetration.
If your boyfriend managed to tear or rupture your Hyman while fingering you it will not affect your sex life now or later in life. You are still a virgin until you allow some male to penetrate your vagina with his penis. When that happens make sure he is wearing a condom; as contrary what he may tell you, a woman can get pregnant on her first sexual experience.
Also even if he says he will pull out before he ejaculates, comes, he emits a small amount of fluid that as a lubricant, which he does not feel or control during intercourse. This fluid contains enough sperm to impregnate you.
If you have not already experienced intercourse make sure your man always wears a condom, even if you are on birth control.
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'Popped my cherry' denotes a membrane (like a thin 'skin') within your vagina has been ruptured. It doesn't always remain intact even before having sex, sometimes physical excercise/activity can 'pop' it. Or fingering. It does not repair itself or grow back ('get back to normal') in any way. All sexual active women have 'lost their cherry' (to use the term) and by definition, once you are sexually active this IS of course 'normal'. You'll enjoy a perfectly normal and natural sex life with regard to fingering and penetrative intercourse. It's nothing at all for you to worry about, any ideas about your cherry going 'back to normal' are not really relevant then, are they? And your body is not damaged/less perfect or anything of that sort now you've 'lost your cherry'. It's worth pointing out that as you appear to be already sexually active at 15, it's absolutely essential that you and your boyfriend take proper precautions re. birth control. You must both understand why it's essential (NOT optional!) and that you're getting everything right every time. You don't need me to tell you that getting pregnant at 15 is NOT a great idea and it'll mess things up for you big time. I DO NOT want to see a post from you saying your boyfriend "has cum inside me a while ago and I've missed my period and I think I'm pregnant." OK??? Take care, but don't worry yourself about the 'cherry' thing. You can't have sex AND keep it. It's a minor biological fact, nothing more. X
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there is no "cherry" the only thing that happened was your vagina got stretched more then it has ever been before up until this point.
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