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help...yeah. Help.
I have been conflicted about my feelings for two girls for the longest time and I've officially admitted to myself that I like and care for them both a lot. I don't want to be with either one because I don't want a relationship but I care about them both and just want them to be happy. But I don't know how to tell them I care. I'm not the best with showing my emotions.
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Liking and caring for girls but not wanting a relationship like dating and official gf/bf? Well I would call that having female friends. And there is no limit to how many female friends you can have. I dont think you have to say anything. If You have been admiring them all from a distance and not interacting with them as a friend, then there is no way for them to know you'd like to be a friend.
The way to change this is to find reasons to be near them long enough to smile, say hello, and start talking. Once talking you can tell them you have admired them for some time and would like to be friends. Make it clear that you are not looking for a romance, no girlfriends to date, just friends.
If you already hang out with these girls all the time as friends, I don't think you have to say anything for them to officially know you like them as a friend, because they can pick up those kinds of things also by how you treat them.
I would say the only time to be needing to share how you feel is if you are going from feelings as friends to stronger feelings like feeling romance towards one. Then it is best to say something, before someone else comes along and snaps her up because she had no idea that one of her male friends had developed stronger feelings for her.
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One of them you don't even talk to really, the other one has a boyfriend, so just be friends with both of them. They both mean a great deal to you so, they should know you care. Talk to them, specifically do nice stuff for them occasionally no matter how hard it may seem. Check in on them and just be there for them. Ask them how they are, meet up with them, spend time with them. Just do little small things that you would want done for you. Respond!!!!
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