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my career at stake


Posted Wednesday September 30 2015, 2:50 pm

I am an Indian by nationality. from initial years of my schooling I have been a good learner and a great student at almost all subjects. I had an inclination in science and English language and wanted to work as a doctor or an editor as I grow up. I decided to go for medicine as a career but could not make it due to financial crisis and scarce seats in colleges. anyhow, I started with b.sc. in botany last year as it offered a safer landing to my career after JRF,M.Sc.Ph.D etc as a lecturer. but now it turns out to me that I can change my avenue by opting M.A. journalism or M.A. English and try to up bring my notion to be an editor or that sort of stuff. messed in my own dilemmas, I gave a sort of career test few days ago, it only added fuel...

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gassy all the time! what can I do?


Posted Tuesday September 29 2015, 12:34 pm

I am always gassy , a lot of you say to drink more water, i drink a gallon a day and i eat healthy and i am still extremely gassy,it is annoying. I have also tried beano and it works for a while and then it is back. There has to be something i can do. It is embarassing when i am at the gym. It all most makes me not want to go. HELP!!!!!!

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I feel extremely jealous of my bestfriend


Posted Tuesday September 29 2015, 9:54 am

I have a bestfriend and I feel he's slowly drifting away. We graduated and he told me we would be bestfriends forever, and he still checked up on me, and he still meets me regularly, but once i see him enjoying with his other friends, he feels so distant... I want our relationship to be kept... how

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How to very subtly frendzone him?


Posted Monday September 28 2015, 10:00 pm

So my best friend and I are always together. Because of this I tend to meet her otherfriends and make friends through her. About a year ago we started occasionally visiting her friend, lets call her Laura, and also Laura's boyfriend since ge lives with her. So a few days ago Lauras boyfriend told my friend he has a crush on me, I'm terribly shy and don't know how talk to people...let alone in those circumstances.... Buy anyway he messaged me on Facebook yesterday and I didnt know what to say... He had said hey and I left it for a few hourse until i was just like 'hola' and then he didnt say anything until this morning he said 'hit me up when your not buzy' its 8 at night and I still haven't opened it or responded and I don't know what to sa...

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is it normal to not like my expanded family ?


Posted Monday September 28 2015, 5:59 pm

Hey,so everytime im with my expanded family I feel like I'm not a part of them like most of them are loud and I find it weird I'm not a snob or something like when I'm with my friends I'm the loudest person ever but I just don't feel comfortable with them I don't even talk to some of my cousins I don't know if it's just weird for me to see them because I only see them twice a year but everytime we have a Family event I feel Anxiety and uncomfortable.most of time I don't even come to these family events but I don't want them to think that I don't like them. is it normal or I'm just being weird and should I try to go the my expanded family bbq ?

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Natural or coil


Posted Monday September 28 2015, 1:57 pm

I'm 23 I don't know what to do next.

Just over a year ago I had the copper coil fitted. About 3monrhs after every time I have a period I have the runs and can be rather bad, my periods have also become irregular again so buying Diarrhoea tablets is getting rather expensive. I never get period pains never have.

I'm not sure if this is something my coil is doing to me or it's a natural thing that's happening to me. Do I go back to the family planning clinic? I'm starting to get so frustrated with it all

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Debt.


Posted Monday September 28 2015, 1:49 pm

Today was the first time i thought about suicide. I have never been the type of person to spiral like this. But it seems my time has come. I recieved a check from a kijiji job posting and i cashed it and continued on my way. Waiting for the person to tell me where the job was. Well i just found out it was fraud and i now have to pay back 4000$ in two weeks. I do not have a job, and it will be impossible for me to pay this back. My account has been frozen. I cannot pay my rent or for food or anything until I pay back this full amount. I am so lost and alone and i have been crying for 3 days straight unable to think of what to do. I have no family and I live in a city where I dont no anyone. I feel like i should just end it because my life will never be livable again.

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Drama homework help?


Posted Monday September 28 2015, 12:31 pm

Hallow i need help for my drama Homework and actually i don't really know what i need to write about . The homework is :
To write about customer which has complained that the manager was rude to them .

This was my h.w. can you help me if you may.

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Older kids had to walk around the basketball court during recess?


Posted Monday September 28 2015, 2:05 am

This may sound strange, but this usually did not happen in this school. Years ago, I went to an elementary school, and this school was ran by an amazing principal and some of the greatest memories I've had was when he was principal.

Unfortunately, he retired and the new principal came in the beginning of my last year of elementary school. She changed everything (the appearance inside, the playground sets, etc.) But the strange thing about the one rule she enforced was that the older kids had to walk around the basketball court during recess. Not part of recess, but the whole recess. Every day for the whole year. And it wasn't all kids, it was just the older ones. Sixth graders and possibly fifth graders. I'm not sure what gr...

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I have friends but still feel alone?


Posted Sunday September 27 2015, 8:49 pm

I don't have a lot of friends andI know I should be grateful for the ones I do have but I feel alone. I don't have like a group of friends all my friends are from different groups. I used to have a group of friends but we're not really friends anymore but that's a story for another time. Anyways lets talk about the kinds of friends I have friend A is really judgemental and she's always called me ugly but with mixed signals I don't if she knows that I caught on but oh well but this is how she'd call me ugly in grade 8 she said that me and this guy would look cute together, the next day she said that same guy and this other girl would look cute together because they're both ugly. She just basically called me ugly without remembering what she ...

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Are my feelings toward him something that can turn into a relationship?


Posted Sunday September 27 2015, 6:20 pm

Okay, so there is this guy I really like. I've liked him since like October. We never really started talking until like January, but after that we became really close friends. Let's call him Derek. Then around easter time we were talking like all day every day, we never seemed to run out of things to talk about. But then for some reason we just kind of stopped texting. Like we are in the same friend group so we still hung out and stuff but we weren't a "thing" anymore. Then this other guy (let's call him George) started talking to me and stuff so that never helped either. Then in like the end of May Derek just started to completely ignoring and treating me like I never even existed. So I confronted him and we got into this huge ar...

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Which hairstyle???


Posted Sunday September 27 2015, 5:52 pm

http://kernunnas.tumblr.com

1 or 2????

Idc about which is easyer. Im just wondering about the style best???

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Narcissistic mother


Posted Sunday September 27 2015, 4:32 pm

I feel like my mom is using me. And has narcissistic tendencies. Things will be fine, we have our disagreements, like any mother daughter relationship. She gets mad when I don't answer right away, but its acceptable when she doesn't. She gets mad when I come to her with a problem and makes me feel like it doesn't matter. But gets angered when I don't come to her. For example, she has been really busy, but gets lovey dovey with me, asks for favors and then when I give in, she goes back to being distant. I talked to her about it, she got mad, denied it all, and pointed fingers at me saying I was pushing her away. He got even more distant, til last week when she needed help. She got her way, as it was easier not to fight over it. Then got dist...

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Am I making a good/right decision?


Posted Sunday September 27 2015, 3:38 pm

Hi,

I live in Canada and I am 18 years old. Throughout my life, I have come across many ups and downs. Things such as losing friends, not being able to find work, and etc., haven't bothered me as much as what I am about to tell you. I have grown up in a religious family of 6. My parents, my siblings and me. I always used to get beat up over the littlest things, and I used to cry, as every child would when their mother would beat them up, and I get that. I understand that in certain cultures/societies children get hurt over something little and their parents hurt them so the child doesn't make the same mistake over again. When I was in grade 7, my beliefs in religion changed and I stopped praying and practising my religion's w...

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Boyfriend won't walk to the door or call


Posted Sunday September 27 2015, 2:28 am

I'm a 20 year old female and have started dating my first (slightly younger) boyfriend. He's kind, patient and understanding. However he's told me that he refuses to be the one to call me or go to the door when he visits, and was vague when I asked why. My boyfriend is talkative and outgoing-not a shy guy at all. He also walks outside of the sidewalk when we're together, is polite to my family (who I'm living with for now), and is affectionate. I even told him I would make sure no one but me answered the phone or door, but he still said no. I'm not his first girlfriend either. Is this something I should be concerned about? This may sound naïve coming from someone my age, though I can't help but wonder what it could mean.
Thank you for reading this~

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how do i act normal around them?


Posted Saturday September 26 2015, 2:42 pm

Hi so i am 16 yrs...i am female.i rarely have friends that are girls... my closest friend is a guy, i will call him Mike. Mike hangs out with a guy(lets call him Sam) .The three of us have most of our classes together and on evenings we go to a public place to study. To be honest Sam and i had not be really close until a year ago. Before he would talk to this girl named Liah. It turn out though that liah had a bf and like Sam... Last week liah and her bf broke up and she had an arguement with Sam..so they dont talk as much.
I told Mike that i liked Sam and i was going to tell him in a year or so because i was afraid since Liah liked him. Then recently mike told sam that i liked him and he was friendzoning me. i didnt know all tha...

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Confused about my nationality


Posted Saturday September 26 2015, 2:34 pm

To begin with, I want to say three things:

1. This question is going have too long of a description.
2. I don't want to consult a psychiatrist. I want advice specifically from North Americans as it is a matter between them and me.
3. I am from India and I don't think that it should have been that way.

As I said, I was born in North India and that's where the problem really starts.

I am a male and I have been born into a Hindu family (Hinduism is a religion). I have been educated in a Roman Catholic school. It was a nice school but I didn't make friends there. I am 20 now. Right now I am pursuing Computer science in a random college in India. I have been open to few different culture...

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Lost earrings


Posted Friday September 25 2015, 8:26 pm

When I was little my aunt always gave me bracelets or some type of jewelry. I would always loose it though. Well for my 14th birthday she got me a necklace and it was super cute! And she told me to wear it everyday. But I play field hockey and we aren't allowed to wear jewlery so I took it off but now I can't find it and I'm pretty sure I've looked everywhere. And she hasn't had a chance to see it on me when I had it so whenever she sees me she'll ask where it is and I tell her it's at home (which I think it is I just don't know where). But anyways I don't know what to tell her. What should I do? (Btw I think it was a little pricey because she said it was real silver)

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I don't want to live anymore. I just need advice on what I should do.


Posted Friday September 25 2015, 6:22 pm

I am currently going through so much and I am only 18. Everything for me is falling apart, no one cares about me, no one tries to help, and I an so alone. All I can think about is taking my own life. I don't have anyone who will miss me, or anything. I don't have anything to look foward, I just feel like giving up. I've tried so hard to stop thinking about it, but I can't. It's like it's already stuck in my mind. I harm myself every night, in hopes of actually dying but it's not working. I just can't take anything anymore, it hurts to feel so alone, it hurts to be so alone. I want to give up, I want to be gone. I just wish I had someone who cared, someone who loved me. But I don't, and that's driving me towards actually doing what's been on...

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Supplementation


Posted Friday September 25 2015, 3:31 pm

Hey guys how's it going
I really need someone who's an expert in taking the right supplements on the right time with the right gym program.
It's true food is irreplaceable but I can't afford that much or even eat that much. A cup of shakes costing 50$ per month is all I can afford on a monthly basis.
Athleticism:
Cardio every week; basketball or football or sometimes randomly 2 hours of jogging and sprints with breaks in between.
I'm 19 years old
143 pounds(65kgs)
I once subscribed in a gym with a program called "periodized cycle" program from the bodybuilding website. Jim Stoppani's Shortcut to Size is what the program is called.. It was quite good for a month but I didn't tak...

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