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how do i act normal around them?
Hi so i am 16 yrs...i am female.i rarely have friends that are girls... my closest friend is a guy, i will call him Mike. Mike hangs out with a guy(lets call him Sam) .The three of us have most of our classes together and on evenings we go to a public place to study. To be honest Sam and i had not be really close until a year ago. Before he would talk to this girl named Liah. It turn out though that liah had a bf and like Sam... Last week liah and her bf broke up and she had an arguement with Sam..so they dont talk as much.
I told Mike that i liked Sam and i was going to tell him in a year or so because i was afraid since Liah liked him. Then recently mike told sam that i liked him and he was friendzoning me. i didnt know all that had occurred because at school Sam talked to me normal but then he started talking to girls at school ,hugging them and acting like he is trying to get someone and i should step back. When Mike ,Sam and i are in a group he rarely talk to me sometimes but then he is his normal self.i am confused and i feel uncomfortable around him.i want to tell him that i didnt tell Mike to him and that i was just crushing on him and didnt want anything more but my brother said he thinks Sam likes me and he told Mike something but Mikd hasnt tell me.Also Mike said it was a good thing to tell Sam and he had to...
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
If you like someone and want to be clear about where you stand and signals you may or may not be getting from them you have to go to the source. Ask to speak to him about something and just do it. Don't think about it but actually do it and find out. Otherwise you are spinning your wheels and in turmoil in your mind all the time. All he say is he is or isn't interested. Unless he's a prick which I doubt life would go on believe me and a frienship that was already solidified arguments or not would continue and evolve. Not much risked for possible big gain.
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