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I feel I am a worthless individual


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 7:52 pm

I am a 40-yearl old female, married with no kids. My parents visit us often. They adore their son-in-law. Me, on the other hand can't do anything right. I have a kind heart that reaches out to one & all around me- which according to them is "me allowing them to become sponges". I am torn 'cos the conflicts have only become worse over the years. I try to have a fresh start & everytime it ends on a sour note. Can you please advice?

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Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 7:46 pm

What's the Age limit to Buy / purchase Condom's?

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breakup and confused on what to do!


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 6:20 pm

16/f : sorry its so long. i need help!

so over a week ago my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me. it was random because nothing was that wrong that week. normally things use to get really ugly because i use to get frustrate because we couldnt see each other during the week and i took it out on him.

once he broke up with me he texted me right after saying it was a break for now and i believed it because he had nationals this weekend and this is something he needs to focus on cause its do or die for getting in to college. but the next day after he broke up with me i texted him bugging him by what he had meant by the break and he said that we were done but then the next day he said we werent then again the nex...

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Why can't guys go back to being friends?


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 6:02 pm

Hi...

here's some context for what went on: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=581185

So me and this guy ended up making out three or four times after the first time... the one before the last went as far as i've ever gone in my life. he ended up putting me on his sofa (no one was there and for some reason i ended up going there!!!) and taking of my bra and shirt and kissing me there... a few mins later he pulled the same trick again and put my hands on his pants, this time i was okay thinking he was sincere about what he said about being "serious" last time.
Anyway so he ended up masturbating in front of me...
two days later he txts again and i end up being super later for a frien...

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My boyfriend and i have been on and off with for the last month


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 4:07 pm

my boyfriend i have been on and off with for the last month, he asked me out, and we dated and we broke up, we both found another person to have a relationship with... and then we coicidentally broke up with them on the same day.. and then a few daays later we start dating again... This guy has a reputation as a player, but i really love him. He cheated on me with some skank that i don't even really talk to, but she knows damn well we are dating.. i told him that i loved him and that it would hurt really bad if we broke up. We are still together, and i don't have a clue if it is going to last, what should i do?

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Why can't my girlfriend cum?


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 4:04 pm

Hello,

I am a male (18) and I've been having sex with my girlfriend for five months now. As the title says my girlfriend has trouble cumming. I am not sure why this is, the past five months she has never had an orgasm. I can however give her a clitorial orgasm, but not a vaginal one. I haven't yet tried fingering her to that point and she refuses to finger herself.

I wonder if there's anything I can do to make her get her orgasm. She is really getting frustrated during sex, she actually gets to the point when the orgasm should come, "but then everything disappears" she says. These frustrations occur multiple times during sex, followed by an emotional breakdown(on her side).

I real feel ...

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investment


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 3:11 pm

i just want some advise if what should i do get rent to own house or plan for a small business?what shoud i do first? pls advise me thanks!

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Septate Hymens


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 2:39 pm

Hey, I am 16 femal and i am i a relationship, i have a septate hymen but im not ashamed to tell my boyfriend and my mum, when me and my boyfriend are being intimate he goes down and he is able to fit 4 fingers in, i am very worried that when we do have sex which i know will be soon that my Septate hymen will split and bleed uncontrolably, i dont want to go and see a gyno cause my mum will know im having sex but i need to go and get this sorted in the mean time i want to have sex with him,,, what do i do? if i bleed will i die???if i go and see my doctor could they do it there?? please give me some advice me you are my only hope...

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illuminati meaning for Jay-z song?


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 12:50 pm

Ok all over the internet its things post about the illuminati talking about stars that's with it. Try looking on youtube and look for the illuminati meaning for Jay-z song with rihannah " who's go run dis town" its realy freaky and then look for obamas illumonati speech the and you tell me do you think this is true thanks if you think its true then look up beyonce and ladygagas and other stars that's with that and you can also find out people who got killed by it so yeah thatnk for yur time.

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How do I get a Nike Sponsorship?


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 7:30 am

Hi there, I'm 20 years old and from South Africa and would like to have a brand like nike or adidas sponsor me. I play action netball and was 1 of three nominated for the best six aside player in the world but I am currently the best six aside defender. We played tri-nations this year in South Africa and in two years time we go on tour to Australia. With these achievements that I've been working for, for a long long time now I am well known by all in the action netball sports category... The sponsorship would help me with my funds and will be good publicity for the brand. Please tell me what to do to get this sponsor?

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find an external power suply for computer speakers?


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 7:10 am

Ill keep this short as i can :)

Is there anyway to find an external power suply for computer speakers? I have a sub and pair of logitech speakers i want to take down the skatepark and play music off of but i have no idea how to power them. they plug in to the wall using the standard (English) 3 pin plug socket

http://blogs.villagevoice.com/music/images/plug.jpg

the above picture if your not sure.

i allready have the necessary cables to plug my mp3's and things in to its just finding a suitible charge that will last a good 2-3 hours.

thanks for your help :D

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Brown discharge but no real bleeding period?


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 3:05 am

I'm 18. I've had sex WITH a condom ONCE since my last period (I am not on the pill). My last period started on April 27th. This month I should have started on May 27th, and I did, but all I've experienced was a little bloody the first day (light) and it has just been brown discharge ever since.

This is not the first time this has happened. I often get brown gunky discharge instead of a period.

Should I be worried? I'm out of town until Tuesday.. but I plan on taking a test when I get home. Is it worth my trouble?

Could this be in the place of a period?

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we're both too shy to kiss...


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 2:59 am

We both went off to differnt schools. We still talk to each other over the phone. We arrange to go round each other's houses. My friend said that he wants to kiss me. He told her because he was too shy to tell me. Which is fair enough!
I really wanna kiss him hold hands or something like that he's really shy and so am i.
Should i take charge or should i wait until he's said to ME he's ready...?

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Clingy friend problems


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 2:45 am

I met my friend Raymond when we started our freshman year of college. We instantly clicked and the first year of our friendship was awesome. We went from being great friends, to his behavior getting worse and worse our sophomore year. Here are the main things that are driving me nuts:

- He demands all of my time. It went from us seeing each other in class all day and hanging out once a week to seeing each other in class all day, him wanting to eat lunch together, him waiting us to do homework together, him wanting us to work out together, him wanting to watch a movie after we work out, him wanting us to walk to our morning classes together, rinse and repeat. I’m one of those people that needs some me time during the w...

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he has a girlfriend


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 1:28 am

so, this guy has had a girlfriend for 2 years, and says that he is breaking it off soon. he texts and calls me almost every weekend at like 1130 asking me to come over. i really do like him, but i have told him so many times that as long as he is still in a relationship, i dont want to get involved. he does not understand that if it is kept secret it doesnt matter... how can i get it through to him that it is not going to happen while he is still with this girl? (ive tried everything, even just saying that multiple times, but he wont give up) anyyy advice?

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How do I let her know & let it take effect?


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 1:24 am

Im turning 15, Theres this girl i like in school but its different, like i feel like we belong, or if i have known her before, she is just my type, its more than just, "oh i want to go out" its like i want to love this girl forever, its wierd because there are other girls who look better & stuff, but i like her simple natural beauty & personality, i think she might feel the same, because of the way she is, problem is that i never say anything about it to her, like im waiting for her & shes waiting on me, I feel obsessed to & i don't know her well either. and i have barely had a girl friend before & i feel desperate to love her & i love making her lagh & im happy when that happens & days we don't mee...

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Is This Normal? I Feel Blank and sad


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 1:07 am

Im turning 15, i feel envious to my friends for example : I never get into trouble & i have good grades. meanwhile my friends who sell drugs, steal & fight, have everything like a nice house, electronics, clothes,better food, girl friends, money, & happiness, I live in a krapy house, i use peoples internet, i get like 1 thing 4 christmas, the thing i have now, i got by saving money for years, i lose my Ipod wich i saved up for a year to get,,, i feel like i deserve way more & i get mad at rich selfish people & i feel like shooting bad people in the head, what have i done wrong to be given a shity life? AHGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG OMG WTF

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a boy...


Posted Sunday May 30 2010, 12:33 am

okay. sooo i read your advice to this one girl and i really liked it and i\'m about to tell you the entire story of my relationship (7 months) (things i\'m too scared to tell my friends) and i just wanna see what you say.

alright. i am a fourteen year old girl (freshman) and the guy is a sixteen year old boy (sophomore). it all started about ten months ago when i met him. we\'ll call him jack. (not his real name) and i saw him playing baseball last summer and i thought he was cute. when school started we talked because of a mutual friend. one football game he looked at me and smiled and after the football game we went to bdubs and just talked. after another football game (i\'m a cheerleader) he talked to me and asked for my n...

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I love working out but I go overboard when I eat.


Posted Saturday May 29 2010, 10:39 pm

I love to work out and I stay very active. My problem is that I go way overboard when I eat. For example, after I work out I will eat a whole bag of snickers and not even feel full. Afterwards, I get so mad at myself. I love to eat and don't have much will power to stop eatting when I should. I definitely am healthy, but I would tone up fast if I stopped eatting all the time. I eat even when I am not hungry. Is there anything I can do to stop doing this? Thanks!

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Dealing with wife's emotional affair


Posted Saturday May 29 2010, 9:59 pm

I recently found out that my wife has "fallen in love" with a friend from childhood whom she reconnected with on facebook. It blew up when he was in town for a reunion and she invited him over for dinner and I watched my wife flirt with him most of the night.
Now we have been trying to work through this and I realize that I played a part in her searching for things that were lacking in our marriage elsewhere. I was being consumed by our financial situation and was completely unavailable emotionally, but I thought is was just a phase that we would get through.
We own a business together and have three children and just celebrated our 12 anniversary. We are working through things. Trying to get back on track.
B...

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