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he has a girlfriend
so, this guy has had a girlfriend for 2 years, and says that he is breaking it off soon. he texts and calls me almost every weekend at like 1130 asking me to come over. i really do like him, but i have told him so many times that as long as he is still in a relationship, i dont want to get involved. he does not understand that if it is kept secret it doesnt matter... how can i get it through to him that it is not going to happen while he is still with this girl? (ive tried everything, even just saying that multiple times, but he wont give up) anyyy advice?
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i agree with Razhie completely.
it's quite clear what you're saying isn't getting through to him, so it's time to cut off completely with him. he's trying to get you to do something that is wrong, and you know that, which is good. Just give him the cold shoulder, and if he doesn't take the hint, tell your parents, a counselor or someone you trust that he's harrassing you.
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I wouldn't get involved with him at all. You don't want to be his next girlfriend he tries to sneak around on. Not all girls are as nice as you and some wouldn't care.
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Just keep saying no, or better yet, stop saying anything at all.
Actions speak louder than words. It might be time to consider stepping up your actions by say -- not picking up the phone all the time or sending short, curt texts letting him know you aren't free to talk about this at the moment.
He isn't being very nice to you by ignoring your boundaries and badgering you. It might be time to stop being so damn nice to him and instead of constantly saying "Sorry... No. Really, no." just let the silence speak.
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