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Husband lying


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 11:29 pm

hello my husband just deployed to afghanistan and like 2 weeks before he left i kept catching him lie. like he told me he wouldnt look at inappropriate internet pictures he promised actually. then one day i was showing him how to do something on his computer and they popped up and he lied about it. then started accusing me of not trusting him when he tried to minimize the window. which i was like whatever its not a big deal ill get over it and he apologized. recently his ex messaged him just asking to catch up and talk, this was his ex of 3 years and like his first love. he did tell me that she messaged him, and i told him not to message her back because i didnt want it to start something just like he asked me not to talk to a certain one o...

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Im so lost..


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 10:20 pm

So me and my ''boyfriend'' don't talk much anymore because he never answers me or my questions , so one day he said we need to have a serious talk , so later he told me that these military guys on base were saying how those combat guys was in service for all those years and they never had too much of a sex drive and now they dont have any , so what he told me is that he is at a point of his life which is like 24-25 and he doesnt want to waste his ''prime'' time before it's too late... and i told him before im not having sex till marriage... and he got all mad at me and then he said he has to go shovel snow and then said maybe msn and never replied to me saying that was rude... today i told him that he is making me mad and he automatically s...

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I want to help my friend but I don't know how


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 10:01 pm

my friend kimma is going through alot of problems right now. First of all she likes girls and she is 31 years old and iam 21 years old I know age difference. I go to a mental health center every day and i met her sister margie there and then I started going to margies to spencd the night and her sister kimma and I became really close and her sister moved out a few months ago and promised to help pay the bills and now she's says she's not doing it anymore and kimma has a 9 year old little girl to take care of with no income at all and it hard to find a job during the christmas holidays and plus she's having to worry about how she is going to take care of her little girl and her sister is going around calling everybody at the center telling t...

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21st Birthday Ideas


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 8:19 pm

What do I want for my 21 st birthday

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Still hung up over first best friend


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 8:05 pm

I'm a 17 year old girl. First off, I would like to admit that I feel terrible about all this. I just can't, for the life of me, figure out how to move on. Anyway.
I was always I quite child. I never really associated with anyone and I still struggle with social issues this day (I have a boyfriend and a two people I occasionally talk to). That's why I was surprised I was able to make a friend in 6th grade. She was a fellow 6th grader, who I shall call Katherine. Katherine and I were best friends for two years. We had sleep overs, birthday parties, and we even ventured into a sewer together (I had to retrieve my lost shoe.)

I loved her as a friend. However there was sort of a dark/embarrassing aspect to our relationshi...

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how to do some simple exercises


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 6:20 pm

Okay i need to get back into shape. but its really to cold outside to do anything. and i got no workout stuff and i cant afford a gym. any suggestions on how to do some simple exercises?

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feeling overwhelmed in new marriage


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 6:06 pm

I just got married six weeks ago. I am 29, my husband is 8 years older than me. Anyway, I am feeling very overwhelmed. I never have any alone time, I just moved into his apartment as well. I should feel happy but I feel so overwhelmed....

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I NEED EVERYONES opinion on this feel free to say anything


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 5:16 pm

Well see I'm thinking about doing softball for highschool but I'm unsure bc the play is in the spring time same time as softball season and I kinda wanna do the play more but softball ikinda want to do that I'm a freshamn so I don't know if I'll make the play so should I do softball or school play? Also I kinda wanna do softball bc I have friends on the team and this boy I like plays baseball well which one do you think more???

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I want my ex back


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 4:55 pm

Okay. I'm still in love with my ex. We dated for seven months and broke up eight moths ago. I thought if I gave it enough time I'd eventually get over it but I haven't. I still miss him and think about him every single day. Granted, we broke up for a reason but there were faults on both sides. We rushed into some physical stuff I thought I was ready for but I wasnt. I got clingy, super clingy, and he tried to talk to me about it but I denied it and told him he was the one that changed. But he hadn't... True, he was a huge jerk when we broke up but I wasn't exactly a peach ahoy the whole thing either. I just feel like I've grown up and advanced from the last time we were dating. (I was going through a rough time with my parents getting a di...

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Heartbroken


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 3:57 pm

18/f

I was in a relationship with Dave, for six months and we just broke up yesterday. Before going out he promised me the world and he said I was his dream girl. I wasn't over my ex so it took us awhile for us to get together [he tried for a year] but after getting together I realized he was everything I ever wanted in a guy. He could make me laugh like no other and he wanted me as badly as I wanted him. And most of all, he showed me what it felt like to truly be in love. Over the span of our relationship I caught him in multiple lies. Early on he messaged girls and called them beautiful but he apologized and I knew he truly meant it then. However, as our relationship grew, and my love for him grew, his lies became worse. He...

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I LOVE him but his best friend keeps telling me he's gay?


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 3:53 pm

I am 12 & have fallen in love. He's all I think about. I can be doing math & find a way to incorporate him into it. One of my friends (his best friend) keeps telling me he's gay but I don't know what to believe.

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The Reasons we continue things?


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 2:53 pm

soo.. SUPER long story short: Matt is a guy ive been seeing for over 2 years on and off unnificially. at first it was just a friends with benefits deal but then we developed feelings for eachother, and he told me that first, feeling the feelings more for me than i do for him. any ways we had a fall out and he asked some girl to his homecoming without telling me even though he wasnt aloud to take someone from a different school (which i go to). thats not the first thing hes lied about like being kicked off of football for smoking and some other stuff which we've gone over. anyways, i havnt talked to him for a while and its killing him. he texted me literally every day asking to hang out. if im with someone he doesnt want to hang out though. ...

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Commitment problems


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 2:44 pm

My boyfriend has commitment problems, since most of his life he was single. He is having trouble coping with working, school, and a relationship. He thinks he's not "made for relationships."

He still loves me and everything, but what can I do to help him cope with his lifestyle? What can I do to not make him think this way?

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What does he want to say?


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 2:42 pm

So, my boyfriend and I broke up 4 days ago, and I spoke to him 2 nights ago just to see how he was doing and just asked him a couple of questions why. I'll just get straight to the point here, one of the reasons was because we were two completely different people, I explained to him that didn't even make sense at all. The rest of the reasons lead up to one explanation, he didn't talk to me about it. So basically we both know what we have to work on. Before the conversation ended, I was planning just to hug him bye and leave. That hug was longer than I thought, it was standing outside in the parking lot in the cold for 10 minutes long. And we kissed... Well, I mean we were together for a while and we've been through a lot together. In the be...

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water and retention


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 2:39 pm

what is the different account we will get if we filtrate the three type of soil(sand ,clay ,loam)in water

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Cutting 49 year old sister out of my life - and my children's lives


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 12:58 pm

I've had a struggle with my sister my entire life. She has done the typical sister things to me and some non-typical.
In a phone conversation yesterday we hashed out a few things and at the end I told her I don't want to see her again.
We talked about how she hit me when we were young. (Oh, she's 9 years older than me so it's a 10 year old hitting a 1 year old) and she admits to hitting me
BUT
"I did hit you but not to hurt you" - her
"you did hurt me, you were so much bigger than me" - me
"oh you are remembering it hurting more than it actually did" - her
More examples of how she treated me:
She said she hates fat people and I'm fat.
She said I ...

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I hooked up with my friend and now he's avoiding me.


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 12:25 pm

Okay, so here's the thing. I have a good friend and we've toyed with the idea of hooking up and after a year, we finally did. Now he would usually be online on IM and after a few days, I noticed he hasn't been going online so I decided to see if he was just in invisible mode. It kept saying he was online, but he appears offline to me. So I figured, he must be avoiding me. I don't understand why he's acting this way when we both made it clear to each other that we don't want to get into a relationship and it won't turn to anything serious. He's a good friend because we talk about anything under the sun, even random nonsensical things and I kind of miss that and I really would like us to still be friends. It's been 3 weeks now.

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Feels like a stranger to me?


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 9:13 am

My ex and I have been broken up for over 3 momths now. We haven't spoken to eachother in around a month. He feels like such a stranger to me and it feels weird that he went from being one of the most important people in my life, to nothing.

Is this normal that I feel this way? It's making me down a little.

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Can't get over Ex-Girlfriend


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 6:28 am

Well, to start off, my (ex)girlfriend and I had been going out for over 2.5 years. She was my first serious relationship. We're both freshmen in college now, and we broke it off about 2 and a half weeks ago.

I loved her with all i had to give, and she had been my best friend for most of the time we were together. We knew nearly everything about each other all the time. I had no problem devoting an hour or more every weeknight to talk to her, and I spent every weekend with her since school started this year.

The only issues we had was that I kind of had an addiction to pornography, and her attitude tended to make our disputes much worse than they should have been. We would have manageable fights over smaller t...

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Did I scare him away?


Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 6:12 am

Recently, I've noticed this guy in my class and we started to talk a bit in class 2 weeks ago, we would talk about school and say hi when we see each other, then I realized that I was attracted to him. Today, I saw him and we started talking to each other, and then I asked him where is a good place to get pizza and he told me the place, then I asked him to take me to go eat in that place, he said he is broke at that moment, but he said he would, and then after that I exchanged phone numbers with him so he can at least have a contact and try talking to each other more. After that, I was studying at the library and I saw him doing his homework also, but I don't know if he didn't see me or pretend not to see me because he was talking to his fr...

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