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I want my ex back
Okay. I'm still in love with my ex. We dated for seven months and broke up eight moths ago. I thought if I gave it enough time I'd eventually get over it but I haven't. I still miss him and think about him every single day. Granted, we broke up for a reason but there were faults on both sides. We rushed into some physical stuff I thought I was ready for but I wasnt. I got clingy, super clingy, and he tried to talk to me about it but I denied it and told him he was the one that changed. But he hadn't... True, he was a huge jerk when we broke up but I wasn't exactly a peach ahoy the whole thing either. I just feel like I've grown up and advanced from the last time we were dating. (I was going through a rough time with my parents getting a divorce around that time as well). I feel like he's grown up a lot too (hwhen we were dating I was 14/freshman and now I'm 15/sophomore and he was 16/sophomore and he's now 16/junior.) we both have been involved with other people since our split and both relationships didn't work out. I just really miss him. And he admitted he still thought another us the other day but that's the only that's been said about the matter. We barely talk. But when we do I'm happy for days. I don't wan to text him... I dunno I just want it to happen naturally but I dont know what to do... Help!
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the only thing i can say is to apologize for your part in the breakup, tell him about your parents' divorce, that that may have had something to do with your attitude at the time. if he still likes you, he will look past what happened in the past, and just focus on the present. forgive and forget. also, try to talk to him more often, get back to the friend zone to start off with. then move up. good luck.
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Maybe you should try being friends with him. That way you two can get to know eachother again and he can see that you changed. And then if all goes well ask him out again or try to find out if he still likes you. If you do end up getting back together dont be so clingy this time, give him time to hang out with his mates and dont rush things too much.
Hope this helps!
Fashionista252 xx
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talking to him is youre best bet right now....just be friendly first then maybe he will see that you want him back and it will work out...but if you dont talk it wont so....good luck hope i cpould help
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