Hey!!!! My name is Cheyenne,,, im very outgoing and crazy and i love to help people. Im not perfect though so i might need help to..i will answer questions best i can and hope i have fun...
E-mail: csbumblebee@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Sacramento
Age: 15
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I am really bummed & mad at myself. I went to the restroom with my friend today at lunch, and she called me over to her stall because there was a picture of this really hott guy (I thought he was, at least) floating in her toilet that someone had apparently dropped. We nicknamed him "Toilet Dude" and were in the middle of discussing whether or not to rescue him when this really glam cheerloader came in the stall and told us to either use the stall or get out so she could. My friend asked if I wanted to rescue Toilet Dude or not, and the cheerleader said don't be a freak, leave him. So I did, but I didn't want to, and my friend wasn't done using the restroom yet. So that was Toilet Dude's fate, and it was all my fault because I didn't rescue him and I would have loved to have had him to pretend he was my boyfriend for a while. (link)
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not trying to be mean but go for guys who are actually breathing and there,,,srry
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I really like this guy i have really strong feelings for him im 15 male im gay hes also 15
well im a bit nervous to talk to him i tink he might like me he smiles at me a lot and he sits really close to me when we are alone is that a sign that me might like me more than a friend? and the other day we were sitting in his room and i thought about telling him how i feel but i got nevous and i wasnt sure how he would react i really like him do i give im signals or tell him whay should i do? (link)
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do both! give him hints and then tell him....waiting for him to figure it out might take a while unless you give him good hints!!;) so it depends on what u want to do. do u want to wait or just get hte relation ship going? good luck and have fun!!!
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My girlfriend and i are 16 and weve been together for 4 months and she wants and the other day she said she wants to see my penis we were making out and she started to undo my pants i got nervous
so i stopped im nervous about going further because my penis is not that big so im worried that she might not want to stay with me does penis size matter much to girls? (link)
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if she really likes you she wont care...and if she does then maybe she;s not hte one...my bf had the same ishue aand all we did was talk bout it and things worked them selves out so just tell her how u feel or she might think you just dont want to do anything...hope i could help:) good luck
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ive been unsure about my sexuality im 15 male and i think that maybe im gay i had a girlfriend last year but i wasnt really into it we only lasted a few weeks but for awhile now ive become attracted to guys i really like looking at guys and i get turned on more and more and i really want to look for a boyfriend i do think now that i wanna experiment with a guy is it normal to feel like this? (link)
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yeah it normal i have a lot of friends like that. its who u are..you cant help that. so don't think it's not normal cause it is...just have fun and go with it....
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hey im 13 and i think its time i kiss my bf already but ive never kissed ,,,,and wht i heard is tht he has expirence sooo wht shud i do? (link)
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just have fun....dont think bout it or it's not going to go the way you want it...food luck
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hi there
So like my girlfriend will be turning 16 soon and its her first birthday in our relationship. We going out for 6 months so far and not sure what to get her as I don't want to over do it, but yet not get something too lame. I'm so lost on what to get her :( we talked briefly and she just said that I must get her something nice, like that helps...
Anyway thanks, your ideas would be appreciated. (link)
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all girls like jewlery....maybe get her a necklace. It dosent have to be a really super fancy one...it's an easy present and it doesnt have to cost to much .....hope i helped
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Any secrets or tips on french kissing? ( or good breath such as mints or gums or anything) (link)
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just make sure your breath does smell good....chewing gum and mints....can work...brush your teeth....dont make it to slobbery. and have fun
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Okay. I'm fifteen, a girl, and a sophomore. This guy, we'll call him jack and I have been really close ever since he helped me get through a really rough break up eight months ago (talking to me about it, comforting me, giving me advice, buying me ice-cream). I told him a lot if really deep secrets and we've just gotten close as friends. Well two months ago he started dating this girl in his grade (he's sixteen, a junior) and I really like her, were decent friends (we don't ever hang out per say but were friendly and go out to lunch sometimes). Anyway, a month into their relationship he started getting really annoyed with her and we talked about it and he decided he wanted to break up with her. So he did it and called me five minutes after cause he was feeling kinds shitty. (at this time I had been dating a guy well call him matt for a week). The funny thing was I was having the same feelings about matt that jack was about the girl he was dating. Suffocated, annoyed, frustrated- and this is definitely honest on my part, my unhappiness for matt had nothing to do with any feelings for jack. But I ended up breaking up with jack three weeks later. Jack and matt are friends. Pretty decent friends... But jack and I are so close that I can't tell if we have feelings beyond friendship or not... We text about every day hang out in groups every weekend... But whenever things start feeling beyond friendly we both take a big step back. Like we know things CAN'T happen. Specially him. He always make sure to mention how good of FRIENDS we are but he continues to do extremely flirty things. Like kiss my cheek and Stuff. But he's also reeeeally flirty with other girls. He's just so confusing and I'm so confused myself that I just don't know what to do... I don't wanna hurt my ex or his ex or jeopradize our friendship or bring up anything with jack and freak him out and ruin everything... So what do I do?? (link)
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talk to him....be honest. maybe he's thinking the same thing but is scared to tell you! talking is what i would do...good luck
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I am 12 & have fallen in love. He's all I think about. I can be doing math & find a way to incorporate him into it. One of my friends (his best friend) keeps telling me he's gay but I don't know what to believe. (link)
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best thing to do would to talk to him.........if you dont and just assume something bad might happen.hope i helped!
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Okay. I'm still in love with my ex. We dated for seven months and broke up eight moths ago. I thought if I gave it enough time I'd eventually get over it but I haven't. I still miss him and think about him every single day. Granted, we broke up for a reason but there were faults on both sides. We rushed into some physical stuff I thought I was ready for but I wasnt. I got clingy, super clingy, and he tried to talk to me about it but I denied it and told him he was the one that changed. But he hadn't... True, he was a huge jerk when we broke up but I wasn't exactly a peach ahoy the whole thing either. I just feel like I've grown up and advanced from the last time we were dating. (I was going through a rough time with my parents getting a divorce around that time as well). I feel like he's grown up a lot too (hwhen we were dating I was 14/freshman and now I'm 15/sophomore and he was 16/sophomore and he's now 16/junior.) we both have been involved with other people since our split and both relationships didn't work out. I just really miss him. And he admitted he still thought another us the other day but that's the only that's been said about the matter. We barely talk. But when we do I'm happy for days. I don't wan to text him... I dunno I just want it to happen naturally but I dont know what to do... Help! (link)
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talking to him is youre best bet right now....just be friendly first then maybe he will see that you want him back and it will work out...but if you dont talk it wont so....good luck hope i cpould help
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So this guy and I we work together,and we've been dating for about 3 months and well for the past 3 weeks we havent hang out...2 weeks ago was my birthday he said happy birthday to me and said sorry i wanted to do something but i feel terrible (excuse but he shouldnt feel like he had to do something you know) and the weekend before that he told me he still liked me (we went out on break together, we never do we ate and he paid for me) and the weekend of my birthday he asked me to text him to hang out after work but i didnt because i didnt want him to think that everytime hes free i could hang out and he always expects me to say yes to hang out i hate that.So fast forward 2 weeks later (we both only work on weekends) he kinda starts acting different but he still flirted with me so i was confused. There was a rumor going around work that he was bragging to people he had two options...and i heard this past weekend that he finally picked one...it wasnt me and he talked to me about it already( which he didnt). I have no idea he was also seeing another girl. He treated me like a girlfriend and i thought we were gonna go out.So I didnt hear anything from him, i wanted to address the rumor so I asked him this past sunday if we could talk and he said sure so after we were done our shift he looks at me smiles and says hey so what do you want to talk about I said i think you know what i want to talk about he laughs and says alright i think i know so we talk out front of the store and he goes alright well with the other girl i got with her like 2 or 3 times didnt think anything of it then we started hanging out (she goes to school with him) and he sighs and says she kinda gave me an ultimatium either keep getting with other girls or just her. He said remember when you asked me what were we and i said yeah he said well i said i didnt want to mess it up and stuff like that was because i was seeing that other girl too and i still wanted you too but i just didnt tell you. he then said i like you still i mean we can be friends then i said wait what does that even mean you still like me? he said its just she goes to school with me (i live at home i commute to college) shes just convenient shes there you know and your here and i said you only live 20 minutes away and he says yeah but it was a hassle not a hassle but 20 there 20 back and i get out of class late it was just too much. Then he said thats why i was trying to keep my distance and be rude to you not rude but you know...(but he wasnt until like this past weekend and he was still flirting with me) I said alright well i figured...i just wish i didnt hear it from giant first and he goes who did you hear it from and i said it dosent matter who it was but i know now. We then walk to our cars ( we walked right next to each other and we never do that, he alkways walks ahead of me)and he goes sorry i said you dont have to be sorry and he said i wanted to tell you before it happened i said wait you guys go out already he guys well it happened the other day and i said oh and walked into my car. So i had to ask him about it, he wasnt man enough to tell me, and when he says what do you want to talk about? it was like he wasnt going to tell me ever that he was going out with this girl just keep dragging it on. Its like so you still like me but you picked her because shes convenient...? And if she gave him an ultimatium that never is a good beginning to a relationship you know? So i feel like i won, and he picked the wrong girl. Im trying to get over him its hard, but im trying it stinks we still have to work together though. But i just cant help it that he still flirts with me and from the sounds of it likes me still..then is he he making the right choice by taking that ultimatium? like on the car ride back to school was he thinking i took it better then expected and maybe he made a bad choice? will he come back to me? i dont know...i was just wondering what you guys thought thanks! (link)
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so he thinks you are still into him so....i would make him no he picked the wrong girl.....do stuff to make him jealous. like flirt with a guy or talk bout how happy u are..... he'll think you are over him and want you back but he also may not be worth it so follow your heart? is he the type of guy you want to give a 2nd chance to, and might get hurt again? or are you not going to take that crap and move on...?? good luck and hope i could help
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Hii guys..what do you guys think of abortion? is it good or is it bad? please let me know what you guys think. thanks (link)
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honestly i think they're stupid....if you cant keep the baby maybe you should put it up for adoption. but you also need to follow your heart on this one...hope i helped and good luck
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i was with this guy, we made out a lot, i gave him a boner,and we dry humped. it didn't work out so we diceided to be friends and that worked. last night he started talking to me and telling me he wanted me to show him my boobs and that i was amazing. i got sort of mad at him for this because he can't just want to be friends and they say that. right? (link)
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to be honest he probably only wants u sexually....im not trying to be mean but thats wat it sounds like. to him you are probably just a toy. someone to play with..dont let him do that talk to him and if that dosent work then i would not hang out with him anymore....good luck
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Okay so my boyfriend of a year is abusive. physical and verbal. But i cant get out of the relationship because last time i tried he threatened to kill me and he had a knife or he says he gonna text and tell my entire family that all my secrets. what can i do? i need out. help? (link)
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tell someone right away.....dosen't matter who.....u need to get away before it's to late.....no girl deserves to be treated like this!!!! not for any reason. he's not worth it and he needs to be out somewhere were he cant do that stuff anymore
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I'm changing my style to become more classic and preppy. What are the key items for a preppy look? Also, what outfits can you wear with Sperry Top-Siders?
(I'm talking about the true preppy, not fake, Abercrombie public school preppy.) (link)
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it really depends on the type of person who you are.....preppy is different to everyone so pick something you like and go with it....have fun
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So here's the deal me and this guy reid spent a lot of time together in the summer like we became real close.then after summer school started and it seemed he didn't want to talk to me and I found out he use to like me which made me like him even more. Now I can't take it anymore he's in one of my classes and I see him talking to this other girl it's just a heart break every day and I've tried getting over him it just didn't work so I tried talkig to him again yet that didn't work what should I do now I'm stuck in this never ending misery heart break (link)
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dont be shy......just go out there and talk to him.....he probably still likes you he's just having a hard time expressing that to people around you....and if that doesn't work don't freak out on it to much there's always someone else.good luck:)
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So I'm 14 and I haven't had my first kiss... And I really want to it's just at the moment I can't get this. Guy to like me so what now?? (link)
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i just had my first kiss this year...im 14 too....it just takes awhile.....dont stress when the time comes you will find that guy who will give u that first kiss and it will be worth it.....have fun with life have fun with guys and it will come i promise.....:)
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How do I tell my boyfriend what else I want him to do without sounding pushy or making him feel like he's doing something wrong. I love how he pleasures me but I want more concentration on my clit so I can orgasm. The only time it really gets anything is if he goes down on me which doesnt happen a whole lot because its usually somewhere that the space is tight. (He's younger than me and his parents can be kind of strict). Anyways, he does a great job but I need a little more focus there so help please! (link)
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just tell him or nothings going to happen.....he probably thinks u dont want it or if he does he just needs alittle encouragement!!! good luck
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I love my boyfriend very much, we've been dating for a little over a year now. Recently, I've been going to some legal programs as punishment for a small wreck a few months ago. While there, I've met a guy that is really nice. When we first started going, he was really cool and I could tell he was flirting with me but I didn't flirt back because I have a boyfriend and I'd never dream of cheating on him. Anyways, tonight was our last court date and he lives about an hour away so there isn't really a reason for us to see each other anymore. The thing is, I like him a lot as a friend and I'd like to be better friends with him but I don't want anyone to get the wrong impression, especially my boyfriend. After we left the court house, this other guy asked me out to dinner and I politely declined (he didn't know I had a boyfriend at the time). Later, I added him on facebook and he apologized for asking me out because he didn't know I had a boyfriend at the time and I decided not to tell my boyfriend about this guy asking me out because I didn't want to cause unnecessary jealousy...so I guess what I'm asking is, would it be wrong of me to pursue a friendship with this guy? I feel like it would be selfish of me to do so because it might hurt my boyfriend and lead this other guy on...but could I still text this guy some times?? I just don't know where to draw the line! Thanks for any help! (link)
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hello...so i would talk and be honest with both guys. Start with your boyfriend by telling him about htis guy and that u want to be friends with him then tell the other guy bout your boyfriend! being honest and talking it out is your best bet right now....good luck!!!
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There's this guy I really like & he sits by me in 5th period. He's quiet & i'm not. He knows & all his friends know too. Any advice? plus I'm 12. (link)
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you said it yourself...you are nit shy..use that...talk to him...help him get out of his shell. Just smiling at him might even work. good luck
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