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I can't deal with this abuse anymore, but I am afraid to leave!


Question Posted Tuesday December 14 2010, 10:33 am

Okay so my boyfriend of a year is abusive. physical and verbal. But i cant get out of the relationship because last time i tried he threatened to kill me and he had a knife or he says he gonna text and tell my entire family that all my secrets. what can i do? i need out. help?

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adviceman49 answered Wednesday December 15 2010, 11:30 am:
You need to get away from your boyfriend. Not knowing your living situation with him I am going to suggest two things that should help you.

If I am reading this correctly your boyfriend threatened you with a knife. That is an Assault with a Deadly Weapon (ADW) a felony charge if he was close enough to you to use it and you feared for your life. If this is correct you need to contact the police. If you can't do it by phone uses the computer you are using to contact us then delete the Email sent file.

Next go to the following website:[Link](Mouse over link to see full location) This is the Hose of Ruth. They are specifically designed to help battered women and children. If you can call their hotline. If you google House of Ruth you may even find a House of Ruth in your home town or close by. Call that House of Ruth for help.

Please do this know, before he really hurts you.

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Xui answered Tuesday December 14 2010, 7:22 pm:
Tell someone A.S.A.P

Do you have a cell phone? If you do, Text or Call someone. Whenever you have a few minutes to yourself do so. Whether it's going to the bathroom, taking a shower etc. I see you used the computer to seek advice, If someone close to you has an email account, EMAIL THEM. Contact the local police department through email if you have too. Let someone know, There is always a way out even if it seems to be the worst of the worst situation. Remember, Once you leave you are one of the lucky ones.

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cheychey answered Tuesday December 14 2010, 7:15 pm:
tell someone right away.....dosen't matter who.....u need to get away before it's to late.....no girl deserves to be treated like this!!!! not for any reason. he's not worth it and he needs to be out somewhere were he cant do that stuff anymore

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