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How do i tell him
18/F
How do I tell my boyfriend what else I want him to do without sounding pushy or making him feel like he's doing something wrong. I love how he pleasures me but I want more concentration on my clit so I can orgasm. The only time it really gets anything is if he goes down on me which doesnt happen a whole lot because its usually somewhere that the space is tight. (He's younger than me and his parents can be kind of strict). Anyways, he does a great job but I need a little more focus there so help please!
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just tell him or nothings going to happen.....he probably thinks u dont want it or if he does he just needs alittle encouragement!!! good luck
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Dont't be afraid to tell him different things you like. Surprisingly , guys like to see a woman thats being pleased and turned on. My best suggestion would be to buy a small but powerful vibrator (they have ones like a lipstick tube) and tell him that a girlfriend suggested you try this. Then, when you're having sex, you can break that out and put it on your clit while he is inside you. Make sure he know this is no reflection on his performance but mearly another tool to make you happy. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. Hope this helps and good luck.
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when you guys are fooling around and he's touching you, say something playful like "right there on my clit" he'll get the message that you like being touched there best.
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