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Im Angie! Most people tell me im good at giving advice, my favorites i put those up but feel free to ask me aboout anything. Ive been through alot throughout my life so i am the one to help you :-)
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well me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost nine months and he has two friends that are girls that i dont care if he has but the three of them are always whispering and keeping things away from me and i wanna know what i can do my boyfriend says he dont like them like the love kind of way that there only friends but i kinda dont believe that (link)
Hell no thats not right you tell them girls that they better back off hes urs and not theres sothe only thing he shuld be worrying bout is you. dont let him have them:-)


okk i want to use birthcontrol zinc and proactive for my acne but im not sure if thats to muh to use could any bdy help me out?
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I was perscribed birth control and it helped my acne very much i saw results within less than a month and with proactive ive always had problems with it, never really worked for me.. But anyways its your choice would you rather take a pill once a day every day or wash your face with a whole cleansing system 2-3 times a day depending on how bad the acne is. But i definitley reccomd The Bc pill. Hope this helpedx33

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Hello my name is Ashley Neeley, i'm 24 and a virgin, well of my vagina at least. I have had anal sex with my boyfriend who's 48. We do it about three times a day average and my symptoms are usually just a sore, stretched out butthole. Yesterday i noticed that my butthole was seeping yellow puss & had a horrible smell. I went to Walmart and bought Depends, which are diapers for elderly. Is there anything else i can do? (link)
go to walmart and buy grape jelly rub it in ur butthole 3 times a day for a week


So this year in cheerleading they are going to have the girls that can do round offs turn the plain round offs into a round off toe touch!!! i can get the round off part, but if i can get some advice on how to go straight into the toe touch afterwards that would be great!!!! i CAN do them seperatly, but when it comes to putting them together i'm at total loss. Any Advice?
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Cheerleader2012 (link)
Practice makes perfect. Ive been a cheerleader for 9 years. You just dont give up until you get it. You fight for what you want to accomplish. The secret is rythm you have to make sure when your doing your round to keep legs straight and squeeze your behind! lol sorry but its the truth and that way you youll come down in your round off and bending your knees and jump right into the tou touch. Be powerful! Youll get it, it will fall in place soon! Goodluck. -a


My boyfriend experienced one day where he felt as if he needed to urinate but he didnt. He felt slight burning. The next day it was gone. I have performed oral sex with him and one other person (a year ago) who TOLD me he was tested. A test for uti was negative and ive never experienced any symptoms of stds. Do you think he has an std? Im the only person who he has been sexually active with whatsoever. Maybe it was just a bad day? Please respond, thank you (link)
Sometime Uti's can show up negative and come back positive later in lab results, But utis you cant get no infection in your mouth by performing oral sex. So dont stress over that. If he has any concerns i suggest seeing the doctor, it may not be you but you have to look back and see who he has had sexual intercourse with. & it is true whoever you have sex with your having sex with every other person. There also has been a big increase on stds latley. Maybe it best to go with eachother and get tested together. Sometimes if you have minor stds the side effects can come later then a year. Hope this helped . -A


if i have mono, can i kiss someone who also has mono? if i get over mono, can i kiss someone who has it? (link)
No its very bad dont do it will increase chances of having a worse case of it or will turn into a very badn infection. Talk to the doctor if anything thats the best way to find out any concerns you have.


I am a 13 year old girl, and I have a lot of hair in a certain area "down there." It's very long, coarse and bushy and it makes me feel disgusting all day. I don't want to shave it because it'll come back twice as fast, but it always makes me uncomfortable and sometimes even itchy! What should I do? (link)
Hi chickie! I say if your very uncomfortable with it down there then you should shave it, use "nair" which is a hair cream removal. It is going to be there your whole life now because you've hit the stageof puberity. Its normal every girl goes through it and its just the way of life. It may be weird but talk to your mom about it and tell her your uncomfy with it being there. But you have to know it is going to come back once you shave it so its going to be a routine atleast once every week or 2 weeks for you since your so young and it wont grow as fast when you shave it occasionally. Hope this helped!
-Angie :-)


Hey
i dont get if im insecure or not.
I mean i am pretty confident @ talking to people
and just being myself really. But i feel so down sometimes. Like, i look around and see all these people that are so happy, and im not. and they're so proud of themselves over everyhing and im not. especially these; theyr all skinny, and pretty .. and im not. and everyones in a relationship..and im not. i get so sad about it! i feel like a loser! (link)
I dont think you are insecure i think its more of jealousy which everyone gets. You see so many different people and different crowds, different styles, different looks and sometimes jealousy rubs off and you want the things they have or look like this person, etc. Everyone gets that and i think it is normal it is just a matter of fact that everyones different and theres going to be people that are skinnier, heavier, prettier, or uglier then you but you just deal with it. I used to obssess over what other people have and what i dont you just look past and worry about your self not other people. And that way your self-cofidene will be boosted! Hope this helped! -Angie


im 18..me n my bf we r planning to have sex and i really want to do it2 bt i am afraid wat if i get pregnant? sometimes condoms are not fully the protection and i waz just thinking whats the good thing to do? (link)
I say you just go for it if you have been planning it, its a special time but only share it with him if you really do care about eachother because things could happen but usually it doesnt. As long as you wear a condom and change it frequently, (depending how long you guys are in sexual intercourse) and if you feel he busted in you theres always plan B, its only 50$ but its worth it, its a 100% accurate and its alot cheaper then adding a baby into your life. I say go for it, if you really want. dont let that get to you and be on the back of your mind, if you use protection and are smart about it, thats nothing to even worry about. Hope this helped! - Angie


my boyfriend has nvr gotten a handjob. and i just gave one last week but it didnt work. i know guys are better doing it to themselves but shouldnt it work anyway? ive done it before for my ex, and it worked and he liked it. idk what the problm is. do you think its me? am i not good enough? what else could it be... thnks (link)
Some guys find it a better feeling/organism to be given "head". Sometimes the and can be a little too rough on it and it may hurt. Try using something ti make it nice and slippery to be easier to ejaculate when your hands are moving quick. Perhaps your mouth, lotion, lube? etc You can find many things to please a male trust me ! as long as there getting pleasured by their girl their happy! Hope this helped good luck!
-Angie


I need help. I don't get my period on a certain day every month, but I usually get it between the 10th and 15th. But if I have sex, during this time can I set backy period? (link)
Yes, Most period dont come on the exact date every single time. But when having sex it can push it back or forward and come later or sooner! Its just the way the body adjusts after having sexual contact with your partner! This doesnt mean your pregnant its just the way the body works! Hope this helped!
-Angie


So me and this guy kissed like two days ago he didnt have a problem with it. But he has not re4plied to any of my calls or text for the past couple of days. he was my first kiss and like i promised him he would be my first french kiss too. but did he not reply or call back because i am a bad kisser. i am 14 and i am a female. (link)
Hunny you cant be a bad kisser! Its a natural thing to do to flow with the other persons lips and get used to their rythym! Just stop stressing it out your okay this boy sounds like a jerk! Your still Little and go many more wonderful things to worry about then boys! To be honest there just a pain they are still very immature at that age! Just forget about it you have so many more things to look forward in the future! Hope this Helped! Dont worry about it Chicka!
-Angie


Hi my name is Sabine and I’m 28 years old. I have a question I try to get pregnant from my boyfriend but is not working, we was both by at least 4 different Dr, and all day the same thing “you guys are ok keep trying”. So I when and got the “ovulation text” so I did it every day the last 2 months. So my question is ; is that possibly that I do NOT have the ovulation time????????? (link)
To be honest I dont think it is possible to not be able to ovulate unless you have a problem which would of been informed b y your doctor. I think you need to stop stressing and worrying about it so much! Your time will come soon enough, maybe its gods way of telling you, you arent ready yet. But it is also possible if you plan a baby to much stress can cause it to be lost or even hard to get pregnant! Do yourself a favor stop stressing, everything will work out sooner or later. When its time you will know! Hope this helped! Good luck!
-Angie


well i have this friend and we always argue but we always fix it by the end of the day all are friends say we should just get together i tell him to stay away but he wont he always just replys i love You and well you see he got suspended from school because he fought and some told him i was talking bad about him so he ignored me and he would ask all the people around me if i was talking bad around me and that got me mad because i never talked bad about him so to days passed and i got sick of people asking y was i talking bad so i called him and yelled at him to stop and he said sorry because he was miss informed so he texted me the rest of the day and some of the next day and then at like 2 in the morning and again at 9 whay confused me was that hes one of those if you talk bad about him he wont let it go but just with one call everything was fixed thats what i dont get ??' (link)
Sounds like Young Love to me. You guys fight about little things and get mad at litttle things because you care about eachother. It sounds like you guys are good friends but still have alot of feelings for eachother. Thats how i was when i was young. My bestfriend turned out to be one of my first loves, but it only lasted while it wanted to. I say if you do care a bout this boy and have feelings for him, tell him how you feel and he might feel the same. Its all up to you because usually young boys are scared to come out and tell a girl how he feels! So cute tho! go for it girl. Im guessing you guys are a young couple :-) Good luck hope i helped!
-Angie


I love my ex boyfriend so much. I know he feel the same way about me. We always breaking up then going back out. This time he went as far as having a girlfriend and even though I say I'm over him I'm not! He told her he love her but I don't think he do because they only been together for a month! we got into one of our biggest fight last week and he pushed me. I didn't know he had a girlfriend until this week. Monday was our first time talking since our fight and he told me that he love me and he apologized for hurting me:( he also told me he broke up with his girlfriend (which i didn't ask him)but he lied because on her Facebook she still have his last name and she update her status about him! I really love him and want to be with him but i don't know what to do! (link)
Honestly i say you talk to him and tell him your feelings becasue you seem kind of jealous about that girl and i would be to, i know where your coming from. I would talk to that girl and tell her how u feel and you still love ur ex and he still loves you. you know if its true. The best way to the key of happiness is telling the truth and telling him how you feel. But its not acceptable for him to push you around like that. Keep your options open, if this is really the guy you truly love then go for him but if you are having doubts of what so ever, something in your mind/body is telling you hes not the right one ! Follow your heart gurl! Hope this helped ... Anggie :-)


18 Female
Today I'm starting to take Celexa (10 mg) for mild/moderate depression. I'm a little worried that it will take away my sex drive.
Does anyone have some feedback for me?
Thanks! (link)
You do not need to worry about you sex drive being taken away. Im on celxa as well 20 mg for depression and axiety. It is goin gvery well i been on it for a little over 6 months and its going pretty well. I used to be on a medication called welbutrin and it was awful! I had no sex drive no anything. I had terrible side effects. One tip on taking this medication make sure to take it everyday at the same time because once your on it which it will take a few weeks (3-4)to get used to your body and how the body works it will start giving you emotional breakdowns! so be sure to take this medication and listen to your docotor. It doesnt effect the sex drive at all though!


17/f

I've always been wondering, is there any place where I can get birth control prescribed without a parent or a guardian? Can I walk into a clinic with a parent's note and get it? (link)
Yes there is, it is called Planned parenthood, and there any many around the state if you look up on the internet. You are able to have your own personal privacy 13 and up. They will prescribe you to it but you would somehow need to pay for it which theyd work with you. You dont even need a parents note. You are able to beleieve in what you do and if thats having sex at a young age, not syaing its right they will give birth control or other pills etc. to you the age of 13 and up without a parents consent. They will also call you off private and ask to speak to you because they dont want poeple to know your privacy it is between you and the docotor. Hope This helped, you can also visit www.plannedparenthood.com :-)
-Angie


I'm a 18 year old college kid with no income and I can't afford to pay $50+ every month for brand name BC pills. I was wondering if anyone is taking a generic brand for Loestrin 24 Fe and how it is (Any negative side effects, weight gain, etc.) and what the name for it is.

If not for Loestrin 24, just any generic brand BC pills (name please)

Thanks =] (link)
If you go to your doctor and tell them you are having income issues and it is a nessecity to be on birth control they will work with you. Me personally I am on generic birth control called Microgestin, to me it works great. No weight gain, no problems the only problem i can say is emotional issues i have the tendency to cry over small issues. Talk to your doctor! hope this helped - Angie


Last time i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend of 2 years. It was great and we used condoms (i'm not on the pill yet) and it didn't rip. It hurt at first and then it was okay...but i feel so weird now. I feel like i'm pregnant and i'm stressing over it. I'm so scared. Is there any way to find out NOW? Its only been a day (link)
Lol girl dont trip! i completely understand. Everytime i have sex i feel like im pregnant and Im on birth control. Its just after your cycle changes and everthing your body starts to change. Its just the way the body works. You have no idea how much money ive spent on pregnancy tests lol! its not even worth it. Your probably just tweaking. And no after a day you cant find out it has to be a week after your missed period. wait it out. ive missed my period and had morning sickness and all signs and i wasnt even pregnant. Having sex for the first time can be scary you just need to be mature enough and have trust in your partner and make sure he wouldnt bust in you. Hope this helped .. Ang


Does anyone know anything about the drug adderal? The one they give out to ADD patients? I know college students take it a lot and I have a few questions about it:

- Do different single pills have different doses in them, and how can you tell?
- Does it behave like speed or does it mellow you down if you DON'T have ADD?
- Does it really make you focus when you take it to study?
- What are the dangers of taking it?
- How long does it last?
- Does it work differently with people of different body types?

I'm trying to figure this out because my best friend wants to take it and she got a pill from I don't know where and she doesn't know/even care what dose it is. Shes dead set on taking it and I'm worried about her because she's a tiny girl and it could end badly? But I don't know enough about it to be sure? And I know it's common in college but...should I be worried?
Thank You! (link)
Adderal does come in many doses it can range from 5 mg up to 100. It can also be a very dangerous drug. If you are diagnosed with ADD it will mellow you and make you calm but if not it will do the complete opposite and make you very hyper. It does make you focus but adderal is a form of coke. From my personal life and point of view i used to be addicted on adderal its very scary drug. Once you start feeling happy and awake and talkative you say oh i like this drug and continue to take it. Adderal can last from 8-12 hours. It also affects your sleep. I was up for 4 days straight in a row from being on adderal. I say talk to your friend and tell her the dangers of this pill and its mind addicting and tell her to think twice. I mean its okay to take a few but not an everyday lifestyle. I reccomend not taking any kind of drug unless prescribed by your doctor!!




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