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He mean so much to me!
I love my ex boyfriend so much. I know he feel the same way about me. We always breaking up then going back out. This time he went as far as having a girlfriend and even though I say I'm over him I'm not! He told her he love her but I don't think he do because they only been together for a month! we got into one of our biggest fight last week and he pushed me. I didn't know he had a girlfriend until this week. Monday was our first time talking since our fight and he told me that he love me and he apologized for hurting me:( he also told me he broke up with his girlfriend (which i didn't ask him)but he lied because on her Facebook she still have his last name and she update her status about him! I really love him and want to be with him but i don't know what to do!
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Anyone who pushes someone around, Cheats, and Lies is not someone you want to be in a relationship with. You may be still holding onto past memories which in this case makes you "think" you love him. This guy pushed you..That is WRONG to all degree. Let her have him, As hard as that is to hear. He does not deserve you, There are many many others in the world that will treat you right and want to be with YOU. This guy is a jerk, Show him you are the bigger person, Cut contact with him I also recommend maybe removing him from your facebook, Block him if you have too. I've always said cutting contact is the best and easiest way to get over someone.
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As much as you might not want to hear this, I feel you should dump this guy. This isn't love. He lies, cheats and pushes you around. That's dysfunctional and unhealthy. You deserve better and the sooner you move on and open yourself up to new relationships the better. If I had a nickle for every problem Facebook creates I'd be as rich as Mark Zuckerberg by now. This might be difficult, but you might wanna temporarily disable your FB account for awhile or at least unfriend this guy for now in order to eliminate the temptation to see what he's up to. I'm speaking from experience. I truly hope this helps.
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Honestly i say you talk to him and tell him your feelings becasue you seem kind of jealous about that girl and i would be to, i know where your coming from. I would talk to that girl and tell her how u feel and you still love ur ex and he still loves you. you know if its true. The best way to the key of happiness is telling the truth and telling him how you feel. But its not acceptable for him to push you around like that. Keep your options open, if this is really the guy you truly love then go for him but if you are having doubts of what so ever, something in your mind/body is telling you hes not the right one ! Follow your heart gurl! Hope this helped ... Anggie :-)
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