well me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost nine months and he has two friends that are girls that i dont care if he has but the three of them are always whispering and keeping things away from me and i wanna know what i can do my boyfriend says he dont like them like the love kind of way that there only friends but i kinda dont believe that
kittenlover2000 answered Thursday June 2 2011, 12:57 pm: This happened to me too-awful.
Whatever you do, don't speak about the girls in a bitchy/jealous way to your boyfriend. It's cute at first but he'll soon be tired of it.
Yes, you do need to talk to your bf, but don't make it a big deal, as jealousy is not attractive.
Instead, go the extra mile to show him exactly why he's with you and not them. Guys love suprises, and honestly by trying extra harder while these girls lay off, he'll soon realise what he has and lay off of them.
Xui answered Wednesday June 1 2011, 1:52 am: Communicate, If you are feeling insecure in your relationship then you need to talk too your boyfriend about it. If your boyfriend has friends that are trying to ruin your relationship, Then have your boyfriend tell his friends that you are his girlfriend and that they need to respect that.
Unless the girls are doing harm to your relationship or are intentionally trying to cause drama then there should be nothing to worry about. Guys are entitled to have friends just as girls are. If there is nothing being done, Then just relax. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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