How do you get over someone? Done crying over him.
Question Posted Tuesday May 31 2011, 6:26 pm
I have a best friend who is a guy. We are both fifteen in grade 9. We have been great friends for about two years now. I have liked him since about a month into our friendship. I never said anything because I didnt know how he felt about me. Through the time I have recieved signs but I dont think they were on purpose. Either way we were still close. EVen through some problems he had with his ex, my best friend (girl). Now I have learned he is moving away in a month. The past month or two I have realised im in love with him. I love him but i dont think he fells the same so I was wondering how do you get over such a big crush? How do you forget someone you love? I dont to be hurt anymore, and I now he doesnt see it but I dont wanna be upset and then have to pretend to be fine. Any advice helps.
PS: He is the first person I have liked for this amount of time or ever had these strong feelings for.
hollyalexandra answered Tuesday May 31 2011, 8:09 pm: This is a horrible situation and I am sorry that you have to go through this. I know this may sound cliche, but time heals all wounds and telling him now may cause tension in the friendship before he leaves. Enjoy his company while you can and know that there will be other boys who will make you feel this way again. [ hollyalexandra's advice column | Ask hollyalexandra A Question ]
iluvblueberries99 answered Tuesday May 31 2011, 7:10 pm: well, I understand how you feel, my ex boyfriend was my best guy friend, and we are very close friends. Well, talk to him about it, ask him how he feels, or just let him take his time, just act normal around him. hey, he might feel the same way. Just wait and see. And think Positive!!!! [ iluvblueberries99's advice column | Ask iluvblueberries99 A Question ]
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