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The Reasons we continue things?
soo.. SUPER long story short: Matt is a guy ive been seeing for over 2 years on and off unnificially. at first it was just a friends with benefits deal but then we developed feelings for eachother, and he told me that first, feeling the feelings more for me than i do for him. any ways we had a fall out and he asked some girl to his homecoming without telling me even though he wasnt aloud to take someone from a different school (which i go to). thats not the first thing hes lied about like being kicked off of football for smoking and some other stuff which we've gone over. anyways, i havnt talked to him for a while and its killing him. he texted me literally every day asking to hang out. if im with someone he doesnt want to hang out though. i confronted him about that and about how he said that he liked me but doesnt wanna hang out if its not the two of us. and he said its just weird acting how we do in front of my friends. but not his. we got in a fight about that last night. i still have feelings for him but he just wont let me get over him. he has a rough life, not even living at home and im the only person who is truely important to him. i dont know what to do. i still care so much about him and want to hang out. but i feel like his feelings will never change for me. :( i need help.
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Well usually when people see each other and develop feelings for each other, those feelings never go away, you're right. Some guys are uncomfortable acting any way around a girls friends, but not their own because it is more comfortable and more safe for them. Just text him and ask him to hangout one day, just the two of you. Talk to him about all this that you just said on here....if things still go no where..you can still be friends. Things will get better for him later on and it'll be easier to do whatever you want with you.
Good luck
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