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What does he want to say?
So, my boyfriend and I broke up 4 days ago, and I spoke to him 2 nights ago just to see how he was doing and just asked him a couple of questions why. I'll just get straight to the point here, one of the reasons was because we were two completely different people, I explained to him that didn't even make sense at all. The rest of the reasons lead up to one explanation, he didn't talk to me about it. So basically we both know what we have to work on. Before the conversation ended, I was planning just to hug him bye and leave. That hug was longer than I thought, it was standing outside in the parking lot in the cold for 10 minutes long. And we kissed... Well, I mean we were together for a while and we've been through a lot together. In the beginning of the conversation he told me he didn't love me as much as better, and he's not sure if he was going to regret breaking up with me or not... Although he was pretty positive he would regret it.
The end of the conversation, he said that he was starting to regret it. He said he was gaining his feelings back, but he thinks the reasons why we broke up will happen again. But I explained to him he only had to talk to me about it, and he said, "yeah... If I tried it again, and I spoke to you about it.. I'd probably be like, "hey.. this is a lot better than before."
Since that day, he's been texting me. He told me he didn't want us to have any physical contact, I can't say I miss or love you, I have to call him by his real name, etc. And last night, he told me he couldn't help but say, "I still love you and miss you, honey." The words I could just cry for.
He said he still had something to tell me, but it all depends on how I feel about him when he tells me. Same thing for me, I also have some things to tell him... Depending on how he feels towards me.
Although he told me he's going to drag me on forever because I was his first everything.
I'm not sure if we're on the same page or not, I'm not sure if he's waiting... But I still want to be with him, but are we on the different page?
What does he want to say??
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Hey there,
By what you said, I cannot tell if you are on different pages. It sounds like you both want the same thing, but are having trouble communicating it. It sounds as if he wants to know you are still having feelings for him and that he wants to tell you to give him another chance. He just doesn't know how. Tell him you still like him and that anything he wants, you two can work towards. This will let him know you want to make the relationship work. I believe he really loves you, he just wants to be sure you do too. If you tell him you love him, he sounds like he will take it with open arms. Just know, you will have things to work on. Make it work girl. He sounds like a very sweet guy <3
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