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My boyfriend has lost interested in me and i dont know what to do. I text him happy and talkative but he texts back short answers!


Posted Wednesday October 2 2013, 10:57 pm

So my boyfriend has lost interested in me and i dont know what to do. Like he says our conversations are so repetitive and seems like our relationship hasnt been progressing but rather getting worse... And i dont know how to like revive his interest in me. Sometimes i try a lot to be all happy and talkative but he texts me back with short answers leading me to keep on asking random questions to keep the converaation going. What do i do to regain his interest in me?! D: help! We're on the verge of breaking up right now too partly because of this reason. I know some might tell me that its best to break up since he should be the one giving effort if he cares but idk i just want to stay with him so please give me advixe mostly about how to keep him rather than tell me to leave him.

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Making out with my best friend?


Posted Tuesday October 1 2013, 7:07 pm

19/f

So, my best friend since high school and I now attend college together. This summer, we started becoming more physical; ie, holding hands at the movies, putting his arm around me, etc. It was very strange at first, but we both were newly single, so I wrote it off as a nice, platonic human connection.
The other night, we got drunk at a party, and he stayed at my place for the night.
Long story short, we ended up making out on my couch. The next day, we acted as if nothing was amiss, went along with our day, and that night, we were watching a movie. He had his arm around me, and I asked him if everything was ok, and he said that anything more than cuddling probably "wasn't okay". But then about five...

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How do I tell him I just want sex, not a relationship?


Posted Tuesday October 1 2013, 4:29 pm

So I've been "talking" to this guys for nearly a month now. He is the closest thing that I've had to a kinda sorta relationship. I am a 18 year old female in college. I've never dated, nor do I necessarily want to. Nearly a week ago he was over my dorm touching me, squeezing my ass, and we made out for a while. Then he started to left up my shirt and I said "WOAH" and he stopped. then for like the next hour he was playing the smack my ass game. Though a couple days later I asked him "are we like talking now? ". He tells me he's not looking for a girl friend, and ever since then he's been really awkward. I don't know what expression he got from me thinking that I WANTED HIM FOR A BOYFRIEND, but I digress. Basica...

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is he right to be so angry with me and treat me like i have cheated on him. or is he just being paranoid?


Posted Tuesday October 1 2013, 5:19 am

Hi. I need some advide. ive been with my partner for 3 years but things have started getting bad as he saw on my phone i have been talking to my childs father. he sais he cant trust me and that we may have to brake up. i need to no if it is wrong to be friendly with my daughters father as there is nothing sexual involved? is he right to be so angry with me and treat me like i have cheated on him. or is he just being paranoid. would really appreciate your advice. thankyou

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I have trust issues with my relationship


Posted Monday September 30 2013, 11:22 pm

Hi everyone, I'll try to make this brief

-I'm a divorced female, My ex husband cheated on me with another woman- so it caused some major trust issues with me.
-I've been divorced for 2 years.
-I've been with a wonderful guy for 1.5 years, and he and I get along great, he and my little girl even get along great. We have the same goals, ideals etc. And we're planning on getting married and buying a house together soon.

-My boyfriend treats me great, but I'm always worrying that he's talking to other women behind my back...one in particular- a woman he lived with for a few years before we were officially dating. I was uncomfortable with it- even though he said they were only friends and it was noth...

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Boyfriend said i changed him? (followup)


Posted Monday September 30 2013, 6:36 pm

This is regarding to my earlier post that my boyfriend said i changed him but its that i made him promise me that he would stop smoking an try not to cuss or rebel against his parents!! You guys all make me sound horrible right now. I really do love him for just like how he was himsel when we just met. I am willing to accept the real him but im so engulfed in guilt that i changedhim. I hope he can give me another chance but idk if he will.

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too good to be true...


Posted Monday September 30 2013, 3:16 pm

So something is wrong with me...girls rate me pretty high in looks and as a person i can't really say im bad.. but for some reason i always get rejected! I asked this girl out, shes been my crush for over a year, at first she said yes but she meant it in a friendly way(which means "just friends") but i didnt know she meant it that way and she didnt know i meant the other...i was celebrating with my best-friend, and all of a sudden she finds out what i meant and rejects me...i dont really have a question...but the thing is..is there something wrong with me?? i keep on getting rejected, and i always get so close to everything but then lose it... Why does this happen?? do girls only look at looks..cause im ok(not thinking highly of m...

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I can't stop thinking about him


Posted Monday September 30 2013, 9:19 am

Hii... 14\F I really like this guy , I dream of him and think of him 24\7. I tried but I just can't get over him. he is turning 19. He allways tell me he likes me and loves me, but i dont really know if its true! he lives far away, but me and his sister are really good friends. He held my hand before but just for like 3 min. He is really cute with dark brown eyes and brown hair and his smile is awesome! He have the cutest little dimples. Should I tell him? Im afraid he is not gonna like me back??

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boyfriend saying his ex and his daughter are no threat to you!


Posted Monday September 30 2013, 6:15 am

hi, we've been together for almost 3 years. he's got a daughter with his ex girlfriend. but when we argue he says, 'they're no threat to you.' what's that exactly mean? and also whenever i mention them to him he's says he doesn't want to hear or talk about them. why? he's quite defensive of them as well. why? help please. thanks

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Changed my boyfriend to someone he's not?!


Posted Monday September 30 2013, 2:38 am

So my boyfriend and i just got into a fight and he told me that the reason he stopped giving as muh effort in the relationship is because i changed him into someone hes not. I molded him into my perfect boyfriend without any flaws and now he wants to be himself. Since were senior now we have to really find ourselves before we head off into college so yeah. I feel so guilty that ive done this to him and the one time he decides to have a serious conversation with me about it wihtout knowing he wanted a comversaion i triggered his hormonal side. And now were in the biggest fight ever and almost breaking up since i brought up the breaking up part because i got tired of crying because he didnt give enough effort. But i also really want to be wi...

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ive never actually kissed a guy but i really want to


Posted Sunday September 29 2013, 3:26 am

I'm 13 and ive never kissed(French) a guy and I really want to ...but I don't have a bf. What do I do?

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i need a boyfriend


Posted Sunday September 29 2013, 3:13 am

Is there any guys who are single in coeur d alene Idaho I am13 and really want/need a bf

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what do i say or do?


Posted Sunday September 29 2013, 2:57 am

There's this guy I like but ive never gone up to him or said anything to him. What do I do?

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My girl friend lied about her past and her identity


Posted Sunday September 29 2013, 1:11 am

Hi i am Ranjit.i'm from India.i love my girl frnd very much,and trusted her,but she broke my trust.she had a relationship in past and had sex with him.all this matter came out after our 2years relationship from an other source.when i asked her about it she confss that it's true that she had a relation,but her past bf was very rude by character and tortured her mentally and physically and also sexually.she was abused by him.so she feel shy to tell me. i feel very bad that she lied to me that she doesn't had any relation in past,and she is a virgin(which she is not).she also lied about her original identity about her father's occupation,her looks,her background.we met in online at first.she gave me lot's of wrong details.whn i proposed her sh...

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does he like me?


Posted Saturday September 28 2013, 10:16 pm

So I'm 13 and this guy is 14 and we met at camp. He always starred at me and I starred at him. And a month ago I told him I liked him and he liked me back so we got together. Then after a week I see another girl hitting on him and that very night he dumps me. But I still really like him. And he knows that I'm sad but he doesn't know what I'm sad about ...I really like him. Ive never liked a guy this much

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I love a girl madly since 2 years and she knows that i like her and we never talk about anything. But i think that she does't like me.


Posted Saturday September 28 2013, 1:18 pm

I like her very much, but i never talk her, and also she know about that i like her. But i think that she does't like me because of her no response towards me . But i make eye contact with her many times. And i am madly falling in love with her..... Now what i do? I am from India.

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Getting back together with someone


Posted Saturday September 28 2013, 9:33 am

Okay so I'm a 16 year old girl and i dated this guy named nick for about 2 months then i broke up with him because i didn't like what some people said about us and i started not wanting to be around him all the time then about 2 months after we broke up i started dating this other guy named jacob and we've been together for 8 months now, but i miss nick alot and i still feel like i really like him and recently ive been thinking about being in a relationship with him again and i think he might still like me back due to our convos, but i also really like jacob and i dont know if i want to break up with him because i enjoy myself when im around him. So i guess my question is should i stay with jacob and forget about nick or should i end it with jacob and try to work things out with nick?

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Not The Same After Being Cheated On


Posted Friday September 27 2013, 1:09 pm

18/m

So lately I have been having problems liking girls. I start to like them and like them for a month or so then my feelings fade away and get annoyed by them or get really picky of what they do.

I dated this girl for 11 months and she cheated on me and treated me like shit, about a month later or so I found a new girl and I liked her alot then as I said my feelings just disappear and I get annoyed.

This summer I found a good girl who genuinely liked me for me. I liked her a lot for about 2 months then one day was just sick of her and no feelings for her.

Why is this happening and how do I make it stop? It use to never happen to me. I was usually pretty spot on when I liked a g...

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I need major help


Posted Friday September 27 2013, 8:20 am

So I have a boyfriend I've been dating for 5 months and my parents have met him but they don't know we're dating and they think where just friends and I'm not sure if I'm even aloud to date but this boy means the world to me and I only get to see him once a week at church and every time I do I have to be sneaky.......and I want to see him more and not have to be sneaky.....and my parents are super overprotective and strict...I'm 14 years old...........so how do I tell my parents that I'm dating him?





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MY GIRL FRIEND LIED TO ME ABOUT HER PAST


Posted Friday September 27 2013, 2:10 am

I first met this girl, she was nice, we liked each other.I proposed her and she agreed ,she tells me that she loves me so much and is willing to do whatever it takes to make the relationship work. after years i found that she lied to me about her past that she don't had any relationship in past and a virgin. but after i found the truth she ultimately tell the whole truth that she had a relationship with a guy who was tortured her mentally and physically and abused her.and she is not a virgin. i feel very bad , angry with her why she lied to me.she tell me that she was afraid that i after knowing her past i leave her,so she hide it from me. but now i can't trust her. i don't like it that my would be wife is not a virgin. i think she used me....

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