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does he like me?
So I'm 13 and this guy is 14 and we met at camp. He always starred at me and I starred at him. And a month ago I told him I liked him and he liked me back so we got together. Then after a week I see another girl hitting on him and that very night he dumps me. But I still really like him. And he knows that I'm sad but he doesn't know what I'm sad about ...I really like him. Ive never liked a guy this much
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I'm sorry this boy has hurt you like this. It could very easily be him writing to say how hurt he is because a girl he liked dumped him. It is unfortunate but at your age this is just how things are. Some kids change boyfriends and girlfriends as often as there are days on the calendar.
If this was the first boy you really like as a boyfriend my mother, I'm old enough to be your grandfather, would have said. You are suffering from a case of puppy love. Meaning a first true love. Yes it hurts for it is real. You will heal and fall in love again and again many times probably before you find the man you marry.
This is also a learning experience. Don't give your heart away so fast in the future. we all tend to judge people based on their appearance. This is like judging a book by its cover. To do so will only end up getting you hurt. In the future play hard to get. Learn more about the boy beyond who he looks. Id this boy a player or is he a steady.
In my family we have something we call a pity party when we get hurt or something bad happens. My advice is to give yourself a pity party, have a good cry. Then forget him and find someone who will respect you.
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You guys are so young. Guys who are around your age aren't exactly serious and will like one girl after another. It's very frustrating.
He'll probably leave her and find another girl or even jump back to you. But if you did get back together, it's unlikely he'll stay with you and not jump to another girl.
So it's ok that you really like him, but you will move on. You'll end up liking a guy more than you like him. Hopefully a guy who won't up and leave you when another girl hits on him though.
Keep your head up and keep yourself busy until you're over him.
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During the early teenage years people and guys especially can be very wishy washy. It's common for them to go with someone for a week and move on. It doesn't make since for someone like you who was happy and more settled and mature in the relationship but for some reason at this age in particular it's easy for people to pick up and move on to the next relationship. If it would make you feel better tell him how you feel but I doubt it will change his ways. Sounds to me like he will be on to the next person very soon. I wouldn't be surprised if he came back around wanting to be with you again at some point but remember how you feel now. You don't want to go through that hurt again. I would find something or someone else to occupy my time and emotions with. You have your whole life ahead of you. You are so young and worth so much more than how he is treating you. Trust me, as soon as you open your heart up to someone else your feelings for him will fade away and quickly. As easily as he left you he will leave this other girl but don't show him that you even care. He doesn't deserve to sit up there thinking every girl wants him and without him your world has stopped. Don't make him that important. You are that important. Make him wonder about you.
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