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too good to be true...
So something is wrong with me...girls rate me pretty high in looks and as a person i can't really say im bad.. but for some reason i always get rejected! I asked this girl out, shes been my crush for over a year, at first she said yes but she meant it in a friendly way(which means "just friends") but i didnt know she meant it that way and she didnt know i meant the other...i was celebrating with my best-friend, and all of a sudden she finds out what i meant and rejects me...i dont really have a question...but the thing is..is there something wrong with me?? i keep on getting rejected, and i always get so close to everything but then lose it... Why does this happen?? do girls only look at looks..cause im ok(not thinking highly of myself) but is there something i should know that i dont??
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Kinda hard to tell. It might be an age thing. Young girls who are still immature and don't know what they want or go for the bad guys.
Usually at any age if women consistantly reject the nice guy and you witness them hanging with the druggies, smokers, petty theft, high school drop outs, etc...it's because the danger side to these guys make him seem exciting. But if these girls are honest deep down inside, they don't like it when the guy spends all the money on drugs, gets in trouble with the law, in and out of jail, verbally and physically abuses or threatens to, etc...
All the women want is exciting, not boring. So something about you must common across as boring.
Thats all I can say without knowing more what type of girls you're going after and your ages.
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I'm assuming you're in high school? Maybe even middle school?
You will get rejected a lot. Especially when you put yourself out there.
But it's really good that you do. Most guys are too afraid of rejection that they wouldn't even dare ask a girl out.
There is nothing wrong with you. This is normal. It sucks, but it's normal. Especially since you are really young.
If you really like a girl, ask her on a date. See how it goes and how well you guys get along and have in common. You will get rejected in the future. But at least you're doing better than the guys who aren't doing anything at all.
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How old are you?
You are young, right? I would bet not even 15.
You are being rejected because you, and the girls you are approaching, are young, insecure and inexperienced. Saying yes is scary. A lot of young people around you wont be ready for any sort of relationship, even if they kinda like you.
Also, you are getting rejected because it happens - a lot. You aren't ALWAYS getting rejected. You are getting rejected a perfectly normal amount, but because you are still young and haven't been at this long, it seems like all that is happening.
There is nothing wrong with you. You are human. You are a very young human. You haven't been at this game for very long. Don't stress about it. Just keep being your best, being friendly and being respectful.
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