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How do I tell him I just want sex, not a relationship?
So I've been "talking" to this guys for nearly a month now. He is the closest thing that I've had to a kinda sorta relationship. I am a 18 year old female in college. I've never dated, nor do I necessarily want to. Nearly a week ago he was over my dorm touching me, squeezing my ass, and we made out for a while. Then he started to left up my shirt and I said "WOAH" and he stopped. then for like the next hour he was playing the smack my ass game. Though a couple days later I asked him "are we like talking now? ". He tells me he's not looking for a girl friend, and ever since then he's been really awkward. I don't know what expression he got from me thinking that I WANTED HIM FOR A BOYFRIEND, but I digress. Basically how do I tell him I don't want to be his girlfriend but I would like to DO STUFF haha with him?
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You've got nothing to lose, so straight up say to him: "Wanna be f*** buddies or not?"
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I think since you never made your intentions clear, he just assumed you were looking for a relationship.
So just straight up tell him that you don't want a relationship, you just really want to mess around.
It's better to be straightforward rather than beat around the bush.
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Just be honest, most guys if not all would be totally cool with that given that you both are in college and he didn't seem as if he wanted anything nor do you. Just hang out with him and get really comfortable then ask him if he would ever be in a friends with benefits relationship with someone among other various questions and see what he says and react accordingly then if he asks you be like yeah why not that seems fun, then be like hey we should yah know (Jokingly) and see what he says or how he reacts and go from there. OR get drunk and just make the moves.
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