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My brother keeps yelling at me. What do I do? (link)
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Tell him that he needs to grow up and then if that doesn\'t work then make him a cake and ask for a truce
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I mean is it all like "unholy"? I know that black magic is like witchcraft but whats white magic? Will it get you sent to hell? I have been thinking about this since I read "Jays Journal". Also are spells considered witchcraft? (link)
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Magic is not real (unless you believe in it, of course) but no maic is unholy unless used to injure or torment or kill etc. others.
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i am 15 years old and i have a bf we have been together for 9 month and some days we havent been seeing each for a while but it seem like the less were together the futher were moving apart what should i do (link)
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Perhaps take one day a week when you just hang out together and do whatever you two want to do. Make it routine, and then it can be something the both of you look forward too as you bond. Hope this helped :)
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There was a guy I liked for a really long time. To me, he seemed like the ideal partner, except for a few minor things. I wanted to take things slowly and get to know him as a friend first before I outright told him I had feelings for him. Soon after, he started talking to another girl and I began to lose my grip on him. I became frustrated and eventually I started to give up hope. Him and the girl (who happened to be a friend of mine) were seemingly happy. All of a sudden, she decided to call the relationship off and he was surprised, as if he didn't see it coming. She learned of my feelings for him that night and told both of us that we should try now and that she would step aside and let us be. He was confused and so was I but I did admit to him that yes, I did like him but I know he needs time to heal before he can move on. During that week or so, we became closer, started talking more. I noticed during that time, he started becoming distant and the next thing I new, he was trying to get back with the girl. She came out and told me (yet she continued to talk to him as well). I was a bit devastated that this would happen but then again, it should have been that much of a shock too. He just jumped from one to the next. I was upset at him and he told me he was very sorry for what he did. He said that I've always been there for him while we were friends and he didn't mean to hurt me. I told him that I can still be your friend but nothing more. I'm hurt and I need to get over you. And I have been trying to do so. Later, the girl finally called it quits with him afterwards and he was upset. She told me and also went on a rant saying that all she cares about is her education and she just wants to move forward in life with it. Next thing I know, she's talking to someone else and is heads over heels for him. That made him angry more than anything. During this time, I've been there for him, tried to talk to him to make him feel better. Lots of other mini-drama-related issues have occurred and I've been the one to help him. Occasionally, I asked myself, why am I still willing to help him? Do I still have feelings for him? Throughout our conversations, he asked me why do I still care about how he feels, why do I listen to him and if I ever screwed up any chance between us? I told him honestly, I still have feelings for you but with everything that has happened, things are a lot more complicated. He said he understands. He also said that if he didn't have a chance, he wanted to fly out of the country for a while and do his own thing for a little (don't worry, it's understandable and nothing extreme-lot more details but this is the basic info). If he leaves, then it ruins all chances but if he stays, then there is always a possibility. I'm just wondering, giving everything that has happened, if its a good idea. I realized afterwards that the girl isn't my friend, she is a manipulator. She realized that if she didn't want to be with him, then no one else close to her should. I realized this because they recently became close again and she decided to tell me a little afterwards. He wanted to come talk to me and tell me he was sorry but he still had feelings for her but she came out and told me he's not a good person, he's a liar and he's playing both of us. (If you called it off, then why are you still talking to him and why are you mad that he's talking to me too) Anyway, the new guy she is with now tells me he has no attachment to her, not yet at least, even though she claims to be in love. Not my business to tell her anything because I have known the guy she is with for years. But I guess my question is, should I give him a chance still? (link)
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I don't think so, this boy sounds quite clingy and may be an emotional break up waiting to happen. But go with your heart. Im not going to tell you what t do. Best of luck xx
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Hi,
I've been searching everywhere for answers, and most of them have come up short.
I don't have much personal experiences with dark forces, but I know several people who have...especially someone very important to me.
My boyfriend (I'll call him E) and I have been arguing a lot because whenever he comes to my place, all he does is fall asleep and stay asleep. My womanly egotistical side was feeling neglected, so I finally confronted him about him. I was very unprepared for his answer, because at this point I was unsure if he believed in the paranormal as much as I do.
For years (every time he sleeps), E has been having night terrors that a dark form is chasing him and trying to hurt him. No matter how the dream starts out, it always ends with the terror. It has a metallic screech that sounds like an evil laugh, and he even hears the laugh in his waking hours. It bothers him so much that he looks behind him sometimes and says out of frustration "That LAUGH!"
The interesting thing though is, he said when he's with me the thing stays away. He doesn't really dream, but he doesn't have terrors either.
I'm very psychically aware, and I've always been a "good force" that bad spirits can't stand. I usually stay awake when he's asleep and at first I didn't know why. Last night, before he told me about the terrors, he was dead asleep in my bed and I was laying facing him with my back to the room.
I felt something shuffle behind me (I thought it was my roommate), and even though I was looking at him, I could see the room layout behind me and noticed the air was manipulated and rippled, then a dark shadow moved. I gasped and whirled around, and there was nothing. E woke up, and the shadow disappeared.
Apparently I am something that keeps it away from him when I'm holding him in his sleep, so I had the idea that if I gave him one of my T-Shirts and sprayed it with my perfume, the demon would know my essence was with him and leave him alone. He said that when he slept with the shirt at his house, the demon was watching him and hovering in the dream, but it wasn't chasing and trying to kill him.
My question is, how can I rid it from him completely, or how can he do it himself? (link)
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I'm not quite sure. My idea is that you give him a little box with a few things in it; a photo of you and some objects that remind him of or smell like you (scent is quite important) if he keeps it with him, I think the bad spirits will stay away. Again, I'm not quite sure. But that's my idea. Hope I helped,and good luck :)
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Once upon a time
In a distant village
There was a young boy and a girl
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My BFF has a crush on this boy,Jacob and I told him that she likes him!Jacob sits next to me and it was so tempting.What do I do?? (link)
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Apologize and learn from your mistake. People shouldn't trust you with secrets if you can't keep them. You don't want to have the reputation of the person who cant keep a secret.
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lm 31yrs l dont have a chirld but lm using trigestrel white pills to avoid loosing much blood on periods what are the after effects will l get pregent after using them (link)
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You can only get pregnant if sperm goes in or on the vagina.
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ok hi, so I'm 15 and I decided I don't want to have sex but I don't mind giving oral sex like blow jobs. I am just really scared of STD's and so my question is "is there anything to look for before I do it? Like is there any signs that this person has an STD" this might be a dumb question but I just want to be careful. Please give me your opinion and facts. (link)
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This isn't a hard and fast rule (pun not intended) but condoms can protect against most STDs. :) sorry I can't help more.
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I feel so quilty saying this, because God might be mad that I am questioning him, but im so scared. I never touch the Bible but I should. And when I hear a voice in my head I think its just my imagination. Im scared of dying, cause its just so scary. I know its part of life, but there is so many things out there that can kill you, it makes no sense. I wish I could ask what happens when you die, but I can,t. I ask and pray for God to show me something like they do in the Bible but nothing happens. The stuff in the bible is so awesome, but none of that stuff has happend. Im just so scared. Please tell me what you know. (link)
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I know this won't quite be what you are looking for, but: No one is positive whether or not God exists. It depends on your religion, beliefs or morals. Personally, I believe in God but I don't go to church or read the Bible. Go with what feels right. And also, God might not always answer your prayers. God may not exist. Nobody knows these things. If you hear a voice in your head I see three possibilities: 1. You are mentally ill. 2. That is your conscience, telling you right from wrong (listen to it!) Or 3. God is speaking to you. Listen. I recommend you talk to someone you trust, about these things; maybe God. And praying is always good - even if no one is listening. God wont be angry at you. You are asking natural curious questions :)! Sorry I can't help more. Good luck :)
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The other day I was just thinking about how mad I was at my family, and I know that most kids who get abused don't say anything because they think that all families are like thiers. And I just remembered many instances that I wasn't sure if they were abuse or not, so I wanted some opinions...
- When I was like 5/6/7 years old, I remember that I hated milk and orange juice, and that if I didn't drink my whole glass, my dad would get really mad and tilt my head back and hold my nose so I couldn't breathe, and pour the drink down my throat to make me drink it. Sometimes I would start to gag and my mom would tell my dad to stop, but he would tell her to be quiet. And say that from now on, I would finish my drink.
-My sister would verbally and physically beat on me a lot (she's bipolar, though). But one time imparticular, when I was 11, She was yelling at me and her voice cracked, and I giggled just a little bit, and she kicked me hard in the shin/calf and I fell on the floor and started to cry and she told me it was my fault and I deserved it and told me to go to my room for being a b-tch. Did I deserve it? I did laugh and laughing is rude, right?
- Same sister, when I was like 7, she would.. um.. kiss me, a lot. When our parents were gone. And if I asked her to stop she would hit me or tell me to be quiet. so.. I let her. I can only remember this happening once, though. And another time a few days later, I think.
..Thanks for your opinions. (link)
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Yes, this definitely sounds like abuse! Your sister having bipolar is no excuse. That's quite sad that you had to go through that. Oh, and you might want to add your gender. :) hope I helped.
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How? How on Earth do some people get hired? What can help me get hired? I swear they lie to us in high school about everything. I'm 18, college freshman. So far it's nothing what they said it would be. That's one lie. The second, branches out into many lies about lateness and "professionalism." I have friends who work at places such as McDonald's who show up late everyday, can barley speak English, have horrible attitudes, have no experience, go to interviews with ripped pants, smoke and drink, act ghetto, (My friend's manager uses the "N" word ON THE JOB!!" yet I cannot get one. Even after resume reviews and changes (Very short one at that as I have no experience) I've lost track of where I've applied to. The only interviews I've had were at Guitar Center twice. Nothing. It pisses me off even more when I see employees do things like text while talking to me, that happened at the movie theater. What can I do, resume, interview, action wise to improve my chances? And I'm not talking about some BIG suit and tie job. I'm applying for like dish washing and cashier jobs, minimum wage jobs. At my second interview, the guy said they have training for people with no experience so yeah. I recently applied for dish washing and had to answer over 220 questions. It requires 3 months of experience at a restaurant. But I mean c'mon most people have been washing dishes half their life by 18. It's really aggravating me. I put all this effort into optimizing resumes, knowing about products and the company, preparing for the interview, being better dressed than the interviewer and other interviewees. By the logic of my observation, if I show up to an interview late with wrinkled clothes, I'm GOING to get the job. (link)
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I'm sorry I can't entirely answer your question but maybe the people hiring you want a bit more... Casual employee. So, if they do something they shouldn't, they can trust you not to dub them in. Or, someone they think fits better with their customers. I dont know you, you might be super casual but I'm not sure that's coming across to the employers. Sorry I can't be more of a help, good luck :)
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I am dating a guy at the moment. We are together for nine months , but I don't feel the way I felt for him in the begining.I just don't love him anymore.He loves me a lot.If I break up with him now , a blame is clearly on me.My best friend is always really serious about relationships and she want me and my boyfriend to be together.I didn't tell her anything yet.I am in a break with my boyfriend.I have no idea about what i should do now.What do i tell him?What do I tell my best friend?Please Help! (link)
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I see two options here; 1) talk it over with him and say it just isn't working for you anymore, and you're sorry - then tell your friend and just say that the relationship wasn't right for you, and does she want you to be unhappy? Or 2) Say you're not feeling it anymore, but ask him to break up with you because otherwise your frowns is going to be really mad. If Je breaks up with you, its not your fault. You could always wait and see if he breaks up with you, but that's probably not a good idea. Either way, don't stay unhappy. Hope this helped :) and good luck!
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I am a 14 year old female. I've asked previous questions regarding my grandmothers passing and anything family related. I brought that up because I feel that my question today may have something to do with it. Today it has been 3 months that my grandmother has passed away. Ever since my parents have had a tad bit of money issues. Well today I went to a local ice cream shop with my sister. We had already ordered what we wanted so we were just waiting for them to hand us the ice cream. The shop was completely alone. I turned around and a teenage guy I would say looked about 17 or 18 years old was talking to the cashier. I hadn't seen him walk in or heard the door open. He was talking to the cashier for a bit then another worker handed my ice cream. I was sitting down at one of the tables and I stood up to go get it at the counter. Nothing was on the floor, counter. Everything was clear. Then when I was walking back I noticed the guy had bent down to pick something up, he walked towards me and handed me a $10 bill. I was confused and he had said I dropped it. I received and thanked him thinking my sister may have dropped the bill. I asked and she had the bills already in her wallet. When I turned around to see if the guy was still there he was gone. We left right after and he was no where to be seen in the distance. I was confused and panicked. I'm thinking that maybe it was my grandmother letting me know that me and my family will get through this and that we'll soon regain the money we need to be able to carry on as we usually did. (link)
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I don't know the reasoning, but its definitely a good sign. Stay strong, and you'll get through. Kia kaha. Sorry I cant be more of a help xx
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Any man want to have s fun with me? (link)
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I'm solely doing this for your safety. Meeting men on a website is a bad idea. Try meeting mutual friends or men at clubs or bars. I really don't want to see you hurt. Sorry I cat help more. xx
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So me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. We've recently just been doing the same thing like sitting around his house watching movies.
I want to start doing more with him. I need some creative ideas. Give me as many as you can think of!
I have a small list but I'd like some more.
I also came across one, which is a spa day at home. I don't know if he'd be up for that, he really hates massages but there is more to a spa day than just that right? If we ever did decide to do that, what things do we do?
Also, how often should we have "dates"? Once a week? Once every two weeks? Every month? I want to make sure we make time for each other and do different things but not run out of ideas. I'm sure there would be plenty that would be fun to do again though.
Thank you for all your answers! (link)
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I think a date once a week is ideal, so you don't miss each other too much. My date recommendations would be going to a park or beach and just talking and hanging out [and kissing (;] bring along a picnic or buy some fish and chips. That you can get to know each other better and you might catch an extra special romantic moment ;) Good luck!! xx hope I helped
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Can a girl gets pragent if the sperm drops on the outside of virgina (link)
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Nope. There is an extremeley small chance that she will get pregnant. If you're worried about pregnancy in the future, use condoms or make sure she is on birth control. You have nothing to worry about :)
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My boyfriend tells me he loves me all the time, but I'm kind of wondering if he has feelings for his bestfriend (His bestfriend is a girl). He always talks about her and he said that she comes first before everyone else, he would die for her, etc. I know I should trust my boyfriend, and I do - it's just it seems like he might have feelings for her. Any advice? (link)
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Hi,
When in a relationship, you are best friends. People who get married are best friends who they decide to spend their life with. You're boyfriends best friend should be you! From what he is saying, it doesn't sound like he thinks you are his best friend. But he needs to trust you enough to be able to come to you for help. Not her. Just talk it over with him, because trust us important. Good luck
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First off, I apologize for the long question.
I am a thirteen-year-old girl, and everything is making me want to die. No, I guess I don't really want to die -- I just want the pain to end.
The main reason why I hate life is because I don't understand anything in school. And to make up for it, I work so much harder than any other kid would . . . but it's no use. I have a learning disability as well, which makes me work and process things slowly. I'm just SO SLOW AND STUPID! Ugh. (This makes things a lot harder for me than other people think.)
Several people hate me. I'm pretty sure my family hates me, to start with. Especially my dad. And I know all homophobic people must hate me because I am a girl who likes girls. But no one hates me as much as I hate myself.
I know some people might tell me to find a counselor or therapist. I already have two of those. But neither of them help me AT ALL. The first one just doesn't understand me, and he does a lot more talking than listening. And the second one treats me as if I'm doing something wrong by feeling this way. I have been self-harming for a while as well. But no one is helping.
I guess I don't have too many logical reasons to feel unhappy. Feeling like everyone hates me and not doing well in school do not count as reasons. But I'm just not strong like other people are. But what is the point of going on? Why don't I just die now so I don't have to suffer anymore? It's not like anyone would care . . . they all hate me.
I wish I could get help. But no one is going to help me. I feel so alone right now and just feel like dying. Right now, suicide is just a thought. I haven't acted on it yet.
Is there anything that can be done to make things better? I don't know what to do anymore or how to go on. But I will appreciate any advice. Thank you. And sorry for the length. (link)
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Just about the homophobia thing, I'm a thirteen year old girl who likes girls too. Man its hard! And because there are other hard things in your life, I'm really sorry. But forget all those people who think you're weird or different. Sure, its harder being part of the gay community, but stay strong. I can bet that after you, there will be many girls in the same position as you. So be strong, and lead those girls to the right path. If you keep going, you can be a role model to them. Then you can help stop all these sad, sad suicides we always hear about in the news. And about those counselers.... Screw them! By getting this far in life, you are already more amazing than them. Hope I helped, and keep going. Kia Kaha.
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i am 17 years old,and i am a girl.I am pahtetic cause i cannot do anthing right.There is nothing i want in this world except to die.I love my family but i just cant live in this world anymore...Please can someone help me. (link)
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Look, I have no idea who you are. But there is no doubt in my mind that you are perfect. Everyone is perfect! Yes we make mistakes, but these happen for a reason. If you die, you will leave your family scarred, thinking they never did enough and feeling guilty. We don't want that. You are amazing, and wonderful. You are seventeen, with your whole life ahead. Don't waste it away. Your family love you. You are so loved, if you feel sad or depressed then you should talk to your favourite person in the world about it. Or do 20 random acts of kindness. Try making others happy. This will make you happy. And then you will bloom and flourish, more beautiful than ever. You are perfect. Don't forget it. If you end your life, I will cry, your family will cry, everyone you know will cry. We will all miss you, because you are wonderful. Stay amazing
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