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So my boyfriend has lost interested in me and i dont know what to do. Like he says our conversations are so repetitive and seems like our relationship hasnt been progressing but rather getting worse... And i dont know how to like revive his interest in me. Sometimes i try a lot to be all happy and talkative but he texts me back with short answers leading me to keep on asking random questions to keep the converaation going. What do i do to regain his interest in me?! D: help! We're on the verge of breaking up right now too partly because of this reason. I know some might tell me that its best to break up since he should be the one giving effort if he cares but idk i just want to stay with him so please give me advixe mostly about how to keep him rather than tell me to leave him. (link)
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Hello...The first thing i would want to do is to establish whether he is interested in this relationship or whether he wants to move on.. The reality is he could be interested but he has become bored. After a while things can become monotonous. It is you who have to be innovative and do different things to keep the fire ablaze. Texting will only worsen your relationship. You need to see him and go do something exciting. There is a certain thrill that one gets when they are in a new relationship and thats what he wants. This thrill can be kept alive with new ideas. Also remember what you did when you first met...if you have stopped doing it then start again
On the other hand he might want to breakup with you. If that is the case there is no use forcing the issue. You will only break your heart. Men are generally less talkative than women but if a man wants to keep his woman he will be more expressive. If your relationship is going sour and he has nothing to say then "hint hint" MOVE ON.
But as i mentioned find out what he wants...to go or to work at it..
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So me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. We've recently just been doing the same thing like sitting around his house watching movies.
I want to start doing more with him. I need some creative ideas. Give me as many as you can think of!
I have a small list but I'd like some more.
I also came across one, which is a spa day at home. I don't know if he'd be up for that, he really hates massages but there is more to a spa day than just that right? If we ever did decide to do that, what things do we do?
Also, how often should we have "dates"? Once a week? Once every two weeks? Every month? I want to make sure we make time for each other and do different things but not run out of ideas. I'm sure there would be plenty that would be fun to do again though.
Thank you for all your answers! (link)
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Hi. From what you have said it seems that he likes movies. Instead of watching them at his house then you should take him to the theater....On the way there or when coming back stop for dinner or dessert...something he would like. Most men like sports..take him to a game, go bowling, go walking, jogging...go out with his friends. The best bet is to do things that he loves at first...he will be more willing this way than if you seem to "force" new ideas on him...Hope it works out...
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