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My boyfriend has lost interested in me and i dont know what to do. I text him happy and talkative but he texts back short answers!
So my boyfriend has lost interested in me and i dont know what to do. Like he says our conversations are so repetitive and seems like our relationship hasnt been progressing but rather getting worse... And i dont know how to like revive his interest in me. Sometimes i try a lot to be all happy and talkative but he texts me back with short answers leading me to keep on asking random questions to keep the converaation going. What do i do to regain his interest in me?! D: help! We're on the verge of breaking up right now too partly because of this reason. I know some might tell me that its best to break up since he should be the one giving effort if he cares but idk i just want to stay with him so please give me advixe mostly about how to keep him rather than tell me to leave him.
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Hello...The first thing i would want to do is to establish whether he is interested in this relationship or whether he wants to move on.. The reality is he could be interested but he has become bored. After a while things can become monotonous. It is you who have to be innovative and do different things to keep the fire ablaze. Texting will only worsen your relationship. You need to see him and go do something exciting. There is a certain thrill that one gets when they are in a new relationship and thats what he wants. This thrill can be kept alive with new ideas. Also remember what you did when you first met...if you have stopped doing it then start again
On the other hand he might want to breakup with you. If that is the case there is no use forcing the issue. You will only break your heart. Men are generally less talkative than women but if a man wants to keep his woman he will be more expressive. If your relationship is going sour and he has nothing to say then "hint hint" MOVE ON.
But as i mentioned find out what he wants...to go or to work at it..
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I honestly don't think it's you. He's the one not trying. You can't make him want you.
So he told you that the conversations are repetitive, so you decided to change that. Now that you are changing, he's still not putting any effort into it.
I think you have done what you were supposed to do. But he's not doing his part, and that's the problem.
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If someone isn't happy in a relationship, There isn't really much you can do to make them happy. Sometimes it isn't really you in general but rather them just not feeling it anymore. It could be other factors as he may like someone else.
Unfortunately, Acting happy isn't going to make him want to be in a relationship. It's this simple sweetie, He fell out with you. If you keep texting him, He may end up getting annoyed and may cut complete contact.
Sorry..
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