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i hate my life. please can someone help me?
i am 17 years old,and i am a girl.I am pahtetic cause i cannot do anthing right.There is nothing i want in this world except to die.I love my family but i just cant live in this world anymore...Please can someone help me.
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You're not the only person who feels like this. There are many people who go through this and put themselves down.
You need to learn to work harder rather than keep putting yourself down and calling yourself pathetic.
Whatever problem you're having, it can be fixed. If it can't, then you'll learn to deal with it better rather than being upset about it.
Lots of people fail at things. But what makes them stronger and end up doing great things is that they didn't give up.
You love your family. You know it would hurt them if you died.
You need professional help. They will help you with your problems and they will help you learn to deal with them better.
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You are 17 years old and ready to give up on life. A bit over dramatic given that you say you love your family. That in itself is reason to go on living. Can you begin to imagine the hurt your death, for any reason, would cause your family for they love you too.
You have not given a reason for why you feel as you do. No one is as pathetic as you seem to feel you are. Frankly you are being a bit melodramatic about whatever is causing you to feel this way.
Are you having problems with school work? We can get you help for that. Are you being teased and bullied at school? We can fix that. Tell us what the problem is and no matter how large it may seem to you I can assure you we can offer you several different solutions.
Do you need or want someone to talk to, someone you can confide in? That I can help with right now. There are many different helplines out there waiting for people just like you to call them and talk to them. Whatever you say to them stays between you and the person you speak with. They can even arrange for you to speak with a confidant in your own home town if you ask them.
Below are phone numbers to two I think will be most helpful to you. Both are open 24/7 365 days a year.
1-800-273-8255; The National Suicide Prevention Hotline. Professionally trained volunteers answer the phone. Your call is automatically routed to a crisis center near you. You do not have to give your name and they do not see your phone number. They will talk with you as long as you need to speak with them. They will also find you someone close to where you live that you can visit and speak with, if you ask them too.
1-800-668-6868; This is the hotline for kidshelpPhone.ca which is also there web address. This organization is specifically geared to helping people under 20 with things such as I first asked you about. If you are having problems with being bullied, teased, dating or other relationships these are the people you want to talk to.
All conversations with these helplines are strictly confidential. I urge you to call one of them. I also urge you to call 911 if you are having suicidal thoughts. This is what 911 is for and you do not need anyone's permission to call them. Just pick up a phone and tell the call taker you are having suicidal thoughts. Help will be sent to you and the call taker will stay on the line with you until help arrives.
You can if you wish write back to any of us in a private message with just what is bothering you. I assure you that if we can offer you some help we will respond to you as soon as we receive your message.
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Look, I have no idea who you are. But there is no doubt in my mind that you are perfect. Everyone is perfect! Yes we make mistakes, but these happen for a reason. If you die, you will leave your family scarred, thinking they never did enough and feeling guilty. We don't want that. You are amazing, and wonderful. You are seventeen, with your whole life ahead. Don't waste it away. Your family love you. You are so loved, if you feel sad or depressed then you should talk to your favourite person in the world about it. Or do 20 random acts of kindness. Try making others happy. This will make you happy. And then you will bloom and flourish, more beautiful than ever. You are perfect. Don't forget it. If you end your life, I will cry, your family will cry, everyone you know will cry. We will all miss you, because you are wonderful. Stay amazing <3<3<3
And please look at this website. It might help you <3 www.areason.org
Love you!
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