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SOS ...just have a couple of hours..


Question Posted Friday October 4 2013, 2:19 pm

heyy...
i just have a couple of hours to meet my boyfriend..the thing is that i like him so much,i finally met someone like him,he's amazing ..so every time we have sex,it's like a routine,known positions all the time,its getting boring not just for him,for me too ..so i need something new,something creative and wild :3 something that's gonna blew his mind away... plzz help


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Dragonflymagic answered Friday October 4 2013, 10:32 pm:
You can use this anytime in the future if its too late for your next time together.
If neither of you have yet, explore each others g-spots. Males have them too.
If you've never had a g-spot orgasm, if he can learn to give you one over and over, that will blow his mind away not to mention yours. If you've never been left, feeling like a boneless mass after a set of those orgasms, unable to move in bed let alone walk on your two legs, then both of you are missing out on something that will never grow old or boring. Boring happens when its intercourse from someone loving and caring but the mind blowing orgasms are missing.
I will give you a link to 2 videos on both the male and female parts involved in an orgasm and its part of a course taught to med students yet entertaining. Not all women can gush/squirt with g spot orgasms but they all can achieve the orgasms. There's much you can learn on the net. And its fun to learn and explore together. Due to a guys penis size and other things, not all of the Kama Sutra positions will work but you can always get a book on the positions and try them. Another thing you can do is learn how to strengthen your pc muscles, the ones you squeeze to cut off urine flow. Its harder to practice doing so while not peeing and at first you won't feel like you're squeezing, only imagininig it in your mind. But once you've mastered it, keep it up. Its so wonderful and exciting for a male to feel the vagina squeezing him and relaxing and squeezing again. It'll drive him wild, especially if you do it on command from him.
Adding sensual things in is good for a change like massaging each other with body oils made in many exotic scents. I've tried ones I found at natural health stores and sex toy shops.
Almost forgot, not all males like their gspot stroked but its worth a try because for some guys it heightens the feelings of their orgasm if the female either with her finger or with a toy made for the purpose, enters his anus about an inch or two, the prostrate gland is his g-spot, when massaged it is very pleasurable for many if they and you don't mind the anus part. I have worn disposable gloves for this, however pharmacies also sell just finger gloves, a latex cover for just one finger. Some womens fingers may not be long enough to give a real good massage so the toy would be a help here. Its nothing big like a dildo so he doesnt have to freak out. LOL
Another sensual thing that you might like is having small bits of fruit placed on your nude body, anywhere you like for him to eat off of you without using hands.

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lightoftruth answered Friday October 4 2013, 6:48 pm:
Try to look into new positions, new places, things like that.
You can bring some other things into the bedroom. Sex toys are used in relationships as foreplay.
Spend some time doing lots of foreplay.

Also, guys are extremely visual. So give him a show.

You could also do the normal things in the bedroom, but just slow it down. It definitely gives you more bonding time.

Just google, and you'll find lots of new things to try.

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