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i need a boyfriend
Is there any guys who are single in coeur d alene Idaho I am13 and really want/need a bf
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This is not a dating site why don't you try to find somebody at school because their are a lot of of dangerous people online like child predetors and sex offenders but in my opinion your to young for a boyfriend at your age try staying single at least your. Until your 16.
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You don't "need" a boyfriend. No one needs a boyfriend. It's fine to want one, but it doesn't mean you go to advertise it online.
There are bad people online, obviously, I'm sure you know. But this makes you look desperate for a boyfriend, especially by saying you need one. So people definitely will take advantage of that.
So if you really want one, don't do it online.
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This is not a dating site
It is also not recommended that you go and advertise yourself on the internet looking for a relationship. You are 13, If you want to meet someone then try looking in school.
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I feel that at 13 you don't need a boyfriend. Why would you need one at that age? Besides, the younger the boys, the more immature.
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I suggest doing one of the following:
1. Talk to the boys at your school more and get to know them.
2. Be happy being single.
Before you try to get a boyfriend, however, you will need to learn how to be single and happy. A boyfriend should not complete you; he should only improve you. You should already be an interesting, happy person before you get a boyfriend.
Being single actually has many benefits. Think about it:
- You can be yourself and not worry about impressing your partner.
- You don't have to worry about having a broken heart if he breaks up with you.
- You don't have to worry about cheating.
- You have more time with your friends, and you don't have to worry about including your boyfriend in everything.
- You don't have to deal with the awkwardness of going on dates. I mean, you don't have to worry about what you wear, and you won't have to do anything you don't want to do.
Remember: real couples don't have perfect lives. It can actually be really messy. I'm talking about cheating, breaking up (which would eventually happen unless you got married), and broken hearts.
Instead of focusing on getting a boyfriend, focus on being the best person you can be first. Learn to be confident and happy with who you are.
And don't forget to have fun! Because you don't have a boyfriend yet, you only have to please yourself. Go take up a new hobby or spend more time with your friends. Do everything that the opposite gender wouldn't want to do.
Don't go looking for love -- instead, let love find you. And make sure you enjoy your time being single before that happens.
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This is not a dating site. You will not find a boyfriend by writing to this site. You are also too young to use any of the commercial dating sites there are out there.
I suggest you find a boyfriend the old fashion way. By talking to boys at school. Just for your information; at your age boys a still shy around girls so the girls have to do the asking and meeting. Also at 13 you are just a bit to young to have a steady boyfriend and to be dating.
Yes I'm a dad, actually I'm old enough to be a granddad. My daughter or granddaughter would have to be much older before I would consent to any steady boyfriend or dating, at least 16 years old.
There is a reason for every stage of our lives. Right now in your stage in life is the time to grow and mature. To learn about life and how to protect yourself in certain situations when dating.
My advice is to relax. You Only go around once in life so enjoy each and every phase in life to its fullest. Enjoy being a new teenager and doing things that young teenage girls do. When the time is right a boy will find you. Do not rush things for when we rush something is when we make mistakes.
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