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ive never actually kissed a guy but i really want to
I'm 13 and ive never kissed(French) a guy and I really want to ...but I don't have a bf. What do I do?
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Any kind of kissing, a peck, a regular or french is a way of showing love and affection to someone special. It means you really care about them. I don't know if its the case with all the trade, but quite often prostitutes are portrayed as not wanting to engage in kissing with a client...they do the sex but not the kissing because kissing is the more personal romantic thing so they keep that separate.
Of course, as stated Some will grow up faster emotionally and love already, kissing easily can lead to sex. At 13 boys have very little self control and that can last for many years through school.
Heck honey, I focused on school and had no time for boys until I was out and then found someone. So I didn't kiss a guy until I was 19. Right now its hormones driving you crazy.
So what you do is wait until you have a boyfriend. If you waont one so bad, you're likely to latch onto any old guy, even if he's really bad, just to be able to say you have a boyfriend and you're part of a "couple". Thats not the reason for dating. Dating is to discover what you like and don't like about a guys personality, how he treats you, and break up with the ones you won't tolerate or who are nice but you have nothing in common with. But you break up nicely explaining this to him. You may not find a guy you really care about who really cares about you at all this year or next year. It may be a couple years. There are few guys at this age who have a great desire to have a girlfriend. Yes, there are some. . . but the one guy who really is nice and wants to date might not have anything in common with you at all. So please be patient. It will come in it's own due time.
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This is probably just your hormones since you're going through puberty. I think you should wait until you have a boyfriend.
This is hard to answer since you are only 13. Well, it's always better when you have feelings for someone. You can't randomly pick up a guy off the street and kiss him or something.
Obviously, if you find a guy who you want just to kiss, he's going to want more. Having sex at 13 would just lead to trouble so I think you should stay far off that road.
So just wait it out. Wait till you meet a nice guy who you like and see where it goes from there. It's no rush, you have so many years ahead of you for kissing.
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Well its not seen as socially acceptable to kiss a randomer in the street.
Get a boyfriend. Someone who loves you and means the kiss-if you get me.
I think because in our culture (I live in the UK but its the same in America) sex is all around us. Added to which your age-hormones will be racing round your body-and you feel 'horny' quite a lot of the time.
Its really hard to tell a thirteen year old how to legally deal with this urge. I would say something boring and sensible (showing my age here) like focus on your studies-but you need to overcome this urge!
Have you tried practicing on your hand and things first? You see when you're old enough to go to clubs, people are usually there for only one thing-and you WILL be kissed there at some point.
The easiest and in fact the only legal way therefore is to get a boyfriend. There are plenty of other 13 year old guys out there that want a girl for one thing and one thing only-you could get with them. OR you could wait until you're a little older to have a proper relationship with someone who isn't just after your V card. Your choice, take care :)
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