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Lapband, is it worth getting to remain happy??
Posted Sunday February 23 2014, 8:44 am
I am a 35 year old overweight woman. My guy of 2 years doesn't like fat girls, AT ALL, so i sent him a fake picture at the beginning. I recently sent him a real pic of me, and he broke up with me. I am so in love with this man, and i don't want to lose what we have. I really need to get healthy anyways, so i am thinking about getting the Lapband surgery. It will basically be for health reasons, but it mostly will be to stay happy n keep my relationship alive. I am tired of being alone. My brother says considering that he is locked up, and i was willing to accept that stipulation, that he should be open to continue to love me the same, cause weight is something that can be easily fixed n should not be a deal breaker. SHOULD I DO THIS TO REMAIN HAPPY??
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Should i accept these terms just to be happy??
Posted Sunday February 23 2014, 8:35 am
Ok. I am a 35 year old women. I met my guy online in the summer of 2012. I then found out he was incarcerated. I wasn't proud of how i looked, so i sent him a pic of someone else. We connected like i have NEVER connected with anyone. Well, last month i decided to stop the charade, sent him a real pic of me, n told him what i did n why i did it. He then proceeded to break up with me, stating that i knew how he felt about fat girls, n basically in so many words said that if i didn't lose the weight he couldn't be with me, but i feel that if i can accept him in his current situation, n its a biggy, then why wouldn't he accept me in my current situation, help me improve, and continue to love me the same(like that guy did on that movie Why did i get married)?? SHOULD I ACCEPT HIS TERMS??
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Coming out to my parents
Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 8:08 pm
So, my mother and father are both homophobes, which sucks seeing as though I have the keenest interest in girls. I am 17 years old, and live with both parents. I am unsure of how to come out to them, and would love some advice. Thanks, xx.
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Is their a perfect ten girl?
Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 6:45 pm
Why do people say there is no perfect ten person. I know a lot of guys who say that Im a perfect ten behind my back. And these guys are not at all alike. Its really weird because I don't that much effort in my appearance. So is their a perfect ten guy or girl society holds to that status?
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how to get over a break-up
Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 3:43 pm
hi, my boyfriend broke up with me over still wanting to cut after a two week clean and asking for his help after he stopped cutting. Appparently I am a liar and he considers himself a major part of my depressio. He is ignoring me, and he did this two days ago and has said some really mean things when he decided to text me in the middle of the night and again this morning. Hes still talking to my friends like normal but is obviously distressed, as he keeps texting me and he wouldnt talk to anyone most of that day at school and he lashed out a lot... he does that when hes sad. He says when i cut it hurts me, and when he stopped cutting for me I was so proud and tried to stop for him. is that a reasoanble reason to break up with someone? He se...
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Feeling Unloved
Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 1:24 am
14/f
I'm skinny, have short blonde hair, and very slightly tanned white skin. I try very hard to look nice; I wear make-up ( little to no mascara, light concealer, and a clear lipgloss, usually.), clean, nice clothes, and my hair is healthy, and 'cute', but people call me lesbian because of it. I get constantly shamed because people can see my make-up line (ex: today a girl laughed aloud and pointed at my face saying, "haha it's like one skin tone,and then another one". People also say things about my eyes, whose colors are very pretty, but they are.. "buggy". Yesterday a boy pointed at me and said, "hey it looks like your eyes are buldging out of your head haha". I tried really hard not to cry. ...
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Which of them do I like?
Posted Friday February 21 2014, 10:09 am
I've been chatting to two girls over the last few months and a few days ago without realising i asked one out on a date(also going to prom with her)but this other girl i talk to nearly everyday about anything & everything We've got loads of inside jokes(being married with kids) and i think about her loads. I really wanna know which one i like so i can try a move forwards with one of them. Can anyone help? If anyone needs some more information feel free to ask
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My fiance's family is trying to get him to leave me for someone else
Posted Thursday February 20 2014, 7:27 pm
I'm a 19 year old girl and I've been engaged to the love of my life for over a year now. He's 19 as well. Our relationship is great and everything runs smoothly except one thing. He's met all of my family and they love him but I haven't met all of his family yet because they live out of state. The problem is is that some of them have judged me cruely; told my fiancé I wasn't hardworking and wasn't worthy enough to be with him, even though they don't know me. Because of this they've been trying to get him to leave me for a girl that's a family friend down where they live. My fiance's reassured me that their opinion doesn't change how he feels about me and never will and they will have to live with it, but I don't know what to do. Not only w...
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If he loves her, why does he come to me for sex?
Posted Thursday February 20 2014, 12:55 pm
I'm trying to wrap my head around this. I've read why men have affairs, and this man does not fall into any category. He's in his 50's, I'm in my 40's, so it's not like I'm some young, hot, woman. In fact, I am not attractive at all (even worse with out clothes on). He loves his wife, he's told me many times, he would never leave her. I'm not exciting, I am not confident and have very low self-esteem, so, it's not like I bring anything to the table. He and his wife still have an active sex life, she doesn't make him mad, they have two wonderful sons and are the perfect couple. He says he has never cheated on his wife and feels guilty doing it (which I know I'm going to hear in the comments, he's lying, but for sake of argument, assume he is...
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Do I like as a friend or something more?
Posted Thursday February 20 2014, 11:46 am
Alright then, there is a girl that I sit next to on the bus and we're going to prom together. After she gets off the bus some people say that she likes me and "you should go out" and I kinda brushed it off, thinking nothing of it. However a few days ago we met outside school(first time meeting a girl outside of school)
for a movie and a meal but I was really nervous and i couldn't put my finger on why. Anyway after I got home my mum asked me "how was your date?" and i was kinda stunned...the more i thought about it the more i realised i had asked her out on a date. So i gave it some thought and i'm still not sure if i like her more than just a friend or just a friend. I really wanna know so if anyone can help it would be much appreciated.
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HELP ME
Posted Wednesday February 19 2014, 6:39 pm
I was in love with a girl. I do still now. But, i cant feel the same things I felt before. I love her.I need her.not now, but in the future as my wife , coz she loves me then my mother , she cares for me..i can't help it. i want to enjoy my college days like my friends does. I want hangout with them . but I can't..please help me in this regards.
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Adultery Options
Posted Wednesday February 19 2014, 12:59 am
Hi. I am married for more than 15 years. I love my wife. We are having a fantastic life. The one thing missing is physical relationship.For the last couple of years there is none. It is my lack of interest on her physically created this problem. I feel like getting physical with someone else. I know the hurt it will cause her if she comes to know. I don't want to walk away from her for this silly reason. At the same time it hurts me living this way. Any suggestion? Meeting a marriage counselor is ut of question. I don't even want her to know that I feel this way.
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Promiscuous Couple
Posted Tuesday February 18 2014, 4:11 am
I am a 42 yr old male from Asia. Recently i met a woman of my dreams and we've been together for 2 months already. The problem came when she started telling me about her previous sex life before me and she confessed that she loves sex and has slept with over a hundred men (she is 30 by the way) since age 18 (including men she pick at at clubs/bars, strangers, friends, gigolos). While I am no spring chicken myself having bedded more than 150 women in my life, what bothers me was all this happen for me during my younger days and after awake up call, i stopped all my "activities" at 27 while she openly admitted that she cheated on her ex just 2 months before we got together because she wanted to break off with him but yet still had s...
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Does he only want sex?
Posted Tuesday February 18 2014, 2:58 am
We go to the same university (both sophomores). We've known each other for a while, but I was in a failing relationship at the time that we met, so he didn't "try" anything.
He asked me out after my previous relationship ended. We went out for drinks and then I came over to his place. We ended up making out the entire time. He tried to go further, but I stopped him.
Last week, we went out again. He asked me to come over but I declined.
He wanted to see me again, and we made plans to hang out at his apartment for a few hours this weekend(we have pretty cramped schedules and it was the only time that worked for both of us).
Should I be concerned that he's just asked me to...
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I'm so paranoid it's making me sick,How do I over come this?
Posted Monday February 17 2014, 3:58 pm
Okay so, for starters- My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and are very happy together. I'm not normally a jealous person, and I trust my boyfriend very much. There is one girl though, that makes me nervous to the core whenever she comes around.
My boyfriend had dated her a long time ago, when he was 16. (He's 22, I'm 20).
I have been this girls "friend",since then as well. They broke up after a week and it wasn't anything serious.
I had never really hung out with this girl until my boyfriend and I had started dating. What happened was that he was hanging out with another ex of his, we'll call her girl B. Girl B is friends with Girl A. Girl B and I had become good friends and star...
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Boyfriend not making an effort?
Posted Monday February 17 2014, 1:18 pm
Me and boyfriend have been dating for four months today. We are both Jrs in highschool.
Recently I feel unimportant because he has been neglecting to make plans with me or see me. Throughout the relationship, he has avoided being able to come to events that are important to me or to stay a little while after school, telling me he has plans or has to do homework.
Until now I have had no problems with this, I want to give him as much space as possible! :)
But I feel like he just doesn't want to see me? I asked him to make plans on a non-school day, and he says he has homework. I don't know how he could have twelve hours worth of homework, or why he didnt make an effort to have some of it done so that we could hang out. ...
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this guy likes me but i dont like him HELP!!
Posted Sunday February 16 2014, 9:59 pm
Ok,I know what your thinking you just tell him how you feel, but it doesn't work. I have told him like ten times that I don't feel the same way but he keeps insisting and bugging me trying to win me over. He is a real jerk and a big player. While he has been trying to get me to go out with him over the past four months he has had fourteen other girl friends including one of my best friends!! how do I get him to leave me alone?!?!?!
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how to act when someone asks you out
Posted Saturday February 15 2014, 7:28 pm
so theres this guy that i like and it turns out he likes me back and he is supposed to ask me out in person tomorrow morning at church. Hes kind of shy and i want him to feel as comfortable as possible, so i was wondering is there anything i can do to make him feel less nervous and what should i do or say when he asks me out? please help! thanks :)
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need a relationship
Posted Saturday February 15 2014, 8:00 am
Hi I'm just looking for a girlfriend. My name is Kenny I'm a 13 year old boy who is interested in a 13-14 year old Japanese girl. Please help me!
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no longer in love? falling for another man?
Posted Friday February 14 2014, 8:46 pm
I'm 15, female and in highschool.
I've been dating my current boyfriend for a little over 2 months. Before we dated we were best friends. We know everything about each other. I've known him since second grade and started to fall for him in 6th. I finally told him I had feelings for him about a month before we started dating.
Anyways, I was head over heels in love. We're perfect for each other and we understand one another. But recently, everthing he does is getting on my nerves! What I would find cute are now just annoying.
I've been thinking of breaking up because I no longer love him.
I wanted him for 4 plus years and I want to break it off! He's so sweet and nice to me but now he seems like a pest. I avoid hi...
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