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Is their a perfect ten girl?


Question Posted Saturday February 22 2014, 6:45 pm

Why do people say there is no perfect ten person. I know a lot of guys who say that Im a perfect ten behind my back. And these guys are not at all alike. Its really weird because I don't that much effort in my appearance. So is their a perfect ten guy or girl society holds to that status?

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rschulz1 answered Friday April 18 2014, 3:34 am:
A "perfect 10" is an opinion. One may see you as a "perfect 10" and possibly the next guy/girl don't see you as a "perfect 10". It's all judgmental. Focus on improving yourself because there's always room for improvement because there is no "perfect person" and do not take what other people may say to heart because you're the only one that matters in that, seeing as you're the only one that can change yourself. For me at the end of any given day it is not what others think of me but what I think of myself.

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Pittguy answered Sunday February 23 2014, 11:37 am:
The short answer is, there is no prefect person. And that being the case, there cannot be a "Perfect 10." In order for there to be such a thing, everyone, everywhere would have to agree that that person is the ideal. And that will never happen nor should it.

The ideal girl or guy varies from person to person and thus is subjective. What I may see as my ideal or "10" if you will could be someone else's "4."

And even when people do this, it doesn't always come down to just appearance but can factor in personality, style, intelligence and other things.

In all reality, it's just sort of a simple and rather unimportant way to trying to classify someone when it is too hard to do so in another way.

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Dragonflymagic answered Sunday February 23 2014, 3:20 am:
As has been explained, due to peoples personal preferences, both men and women will each give different examples of what is a perfect mate, but it will be based on their own criteria.
However, beyond personal likes, there is one thing in women that ALL men find attractive and sexy in a women and it has nothing to do with looks because it is Confidence, a good strong self image and as far as looks, all that is really impressive is a big smile and holding eye contact with a guy. I watch lots of relationship coaches telling men or women what to do. What I just shared comes straight from the mouths of men ages early twenties up into 50's who state this is so in video's.
So I suppose you could say that no matter what race, body build, age, social or economic status, one thing all men agree upon that makes a women "Perfect" is Confidence.

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lightoftruth answered Sunday February 23 2014, 12:24 am:
In reality, no.

I mean if people really wanna rate each other by numbers, then it could mean different things. Like looks, personality, ect.

Why do people say there is no perfect ten person? Well because there really isn't. Everybody's taste is different. Some guys like skinny girls, some guys like bigger girls, some like brunettes, some like blondes, some like tall, some like short. Some people can be pretty on the outside, but not so pretty on the inside.

Then of course the tastes are different in personalities, lifestyle, ect. So there is no perfect ten person. There might be one to a certain person that fits every description of their "perfect" person but even then, doubt it. Everybody has flaws.

Society is just stupid and likes to rate people.

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karenR answered Saturday February 22 2014, 10:52 pm:
I suppose there could be people who are a perfect 10 at some things. I doubt that any person is a perfect 10 if that perfect 10 pertained to everything. If that makes sense.

A person can be beautiful and be a 10 as far as how they look goes. That same person could be bad at sports. So they wouldn't be a 10 if all things were taken into account. Just one example but I'm thinking nobody could be a PERFECT 10. :)

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