Hey my names Chrissabelle and I love giving advice. I always have. Most of my friends call me Chrissie but really like to be called anything. Well... :p I really would like to be a psycologist when I get older. I love listening to other people, I've always been a good listener and I love to help people to the best of my abilities. I love being with family, hanging out with friends, ice skating, and tennis. I also love to laugh and have fun. Who doesn't? Honestly I just am a really happy person although I can come off really serious to people who don't know me which really sucks. I haven't been answering advice for a few weeks because of numerous reasons but now I'm back and so glad to be able to help everyone again. I really hope I can guys =) That's about it so ask me anything, anytime you need advice and I'll try to help you as best I can!
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at summer camp my friend was the most popular one in our cabin i didnt know how she did it she is ssssssssssssoooooooooooooooooo tom boyish i dont know why she was so popular yes she is one of my best friends i just want to know how she was so popular so i can be like her next year (link)
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Hey! Generally, you can't just make yourself bepopular or well liked by. BUT you (and anyone really) can do some things to improve the way others see you. For example, the first step to being well liked is being nice. Everyone likes people who are nice, and you can never say anything bad about them. I'm sure you already are, but these are just general tips. Secondly, laugh a lot. People love other people who laugh at their jokes, or let them know that you think they're funny. Go along with others and don't be disagreable. People like others who are easy-going. Lastly, I'm sure people have said this one over a thousand times but it's true. Be yourslef. Laugh, and go along, but don't be a follower. Have your own ideas. When the girls.. or guys, are showing other girls attention, go along. It makes you more likeable. If you be yourself you'll be the next one they'll be putting in the spotlight. Next year, if you follow these simple steps you and your friend will both be well liked. Who knows, maybe your friend thought the same about you ;].
I really hope this helped :].
Chrissabelle
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ughh okay i absolutly hate my friend
okay so me and her have been friends for about 3 years..and not only friends BEST FRIENDS...we tell each other everything...we can be on the phone do absolutly nothing and stil have fun...but lately she's been acting very gay/stupid/retarded..like i'll tell her something and she'll just nod her head...it's soooo annoying...UGHHHH so annoying i can't stand it!!
like and i've tried talking to her but that's all she'll do
and so i stoped talking to her b/c i got tired of it
and then one day she texted me and was like are you mad at me?..wat did i do??
but i did'nt text back..and it's not like i can avoid her b/c i have 3 periods with her...and i used to walk with her between them
it's been about 1 month that we have'nt been talking
and it's really awkward b/c we have the same friends
and i have 3 periods with her
and she's my only friend in that class
i don't know wat to do
b/c i'm sick and tired of dealing with her crap!!
and if you can give me any other advice besides making up with her that would help
b/c i doubt i will ever make up with her (link)
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Hey! I've seen this happen so many times and have been through it myself. First of all, it sounds like you guys used to be really close. I'm pretty sure that you guys got too close which happens in so many friendships. You can love someone to death but if you get too close you start to find annoying little flaws about this person and they start to get on your nerves more and more. Eventually every little annoying thing they do builds up. Also, it seems that what annoys you most about your friend is the fact that she acts like she doesn't care when you tell her something that you find interesting or important, which is annoying since she's supposed to be your best friend. This can get really annoying. She probably doesn't even realize that she's annoying you by not listening and doesn't even understand why you've been so distant lately. What I would do is take a break from this friend. You don't have to stop being her friend completely but just take a break for however long you feel you need it. Whether it be a month, or a couple months. You may not think so now but after a while you'll start to look back at all the good times you had together and will begin to forget her annoying flaws. Maybe before you take that break you should text her (so it will be less awkward) and explain to her the reasons you feel she hasn't been acting like a friend. After a while of seperation she may start to miss your friendship too and will be more considerate. Since you've already not been talking for a month, this may be what you need to do so she at least knows why your not speaking to her. She may still seem really annoying to you now, but I think that after a while, even if not best friends, you can be friends again. I know you said you don't want to be friends with her again but please try this first. If after a really really long time you still feel this way, just send the text anyway but stay distanced and eventually you'll just have to start hanging out with your friends seperately.
Hope this helped :].
Chrissabelle
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13/f
(the first part is background that i think could relate. the second is my actual problem) sorry for the length...
PART 1
ok well this girl elizabeth i had been friends with her since like 2nd grade im in 8th now with fights and temporary splits here and there....but one time on this one chat site she called me a B**** for no reason and then just left and kept doing it if i asked for an explanation. the next day at school during lunch she said she didn't eman it and WAS JUST JOKEING. i mean COME ON. i didnt forgive her because i don't take stuff liek that as a joke, so after a day or so she comes to my house in tears with a card tat says SORRY and a small present. i forgave her.....grudgeingly. ok well then we got along ok but then...
PART TWO
ok well i was at another friends house and i was really mad for some reason or another and i called elizabeth fat. she isn't really fat just a little....well porportioned. so this oher friend told her later ( ididn't mean for her to) and elizabeth got all mad. WELL she got all mad and she understands that i didn't mean it.....i relaly truely didn't....and now she doesn't want to be friends anymore and won't forgive me which i don't think is fair because she really hurt my feelings with the part 1 thing....but i didn't have to forgive her, but i did. and there were other things she did that i didn't want to forgive her for doing.
what should i do? she has made it very clear via myspcae that she doesn't want to be friends. yes she told me.. i don't think its fair. do you think it is?
sorry for the length.....
thanks in advance! (link)
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Hey. I had a really similair situation once. My friend did a lot of little things like the part 1 thing and finally I just got really mad. No, it's not really fair because she pretty much did the same thing to you in a different version and you forgave her. It also sounds like she's done other things like that so maybe you should be the one who's mad if this is true. Your friend sounds like she is really sensative so she probably gets upset a lot easier which is why she started crying when you were mad and her and got really upset when she found out about what you said. I wouldn't try to end the friendship over things like this but if she constantly does little things like this to you then you might want to take a break from eachother. It may work out for the better and eventually I'm sure she'll come around because time heals all wounds. Then, if you feel like you still want to be friends you can talk to her about how you felt also, and make up. The relationship doesn't have to be as close but at least you guys can be cordial. OR if you're really upset right now and want to tell her how you feel you can write back to her over the computer and tell her what you told advicenators. How she's done similair things to you and you always apologized right away and you're just tired of these little episodes. You don't have to say it mean or anything but it will get your point accross. But anyways, in final answer to your original question, no I agree with you, it's not fair. I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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any tips on dealing with an annoying friend who talks, no brags, waaay too much, but who you cant really be mean to because shes really nice, but she just cant take a hint when to shut up? plz, any advice is welcome! (link)
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Hey. I had an extremely similair situation. So that it doesn't come off mean but you're still getting your point accross maybe you can say something like you're so funny. It's so cute how proud of yourself you get. Believe it or not she may get the hint if you put it that way and at least it's not coming off mean. I've actually tried this tactive and it really worked. OR if you might want something more effective you can say ______ you're so funny, I find it so cute how you're so high on yourself but say it laughing so you don't come off like you're being mean. Eventually if you continue to say things like this I'm pretty sure she'll get the hint and calm down her bragging habbits. I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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well my best friend just got a boyfriend .. and he's cute and nice and i really am very happy for her. i've never had a boyfriend (we are 15) and i want one .. so i always feel jealous when friends get boyfriends. and like i am soooo happy for them .. but i wish i had one too. how can i get over that feeling of jealousy? (link)
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Hey. Jealousy is a completely normal emotion for all human beings. Some girls just go for it more than others and that's why they get boyfriends. I mean that's really good for them but not everyone's into that. If you really want a boyfriend you have to be like this and work for it. I know that sounds funny but that's really how it works. As for overcoming jealousy I don't think that can ever work for it's a common human emotion. Just try to be friendly and outgoing and flirt a lot. Guys will really like this and you and your friends can all go out together. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle
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I dont want to go to this concert with my friends tonight.
Well, I kind of do, but I don't know if my dad will let me.
What are some excuses to tell my friends (NOT my dad won't let me--I use that too much)
OR
what are some ways to persuade my dad to let me go?
I already told my friend I'd ask.... (link)
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Well you can show your dad how safe it will be and explain all the details so he'll be able to trust you. You can tell him what time you'll be back, who's going etc. This way he'll be more likely to say yes. If you Really don't want to ask you can tell your friends you have already promised to do something with your, dad, sister, brother, other friend, cousin (whoever). You can tell them that you have to go somewhere (if they don't live close enough to you to know you're lying) but I really don't know if lying is the option. I would just try to talk to your dad or just tell your friends you can't go. Don't even explain why. If they ask just say you have to do stuff. I would deffinitely ask your dad though because hey, the worst he could say is no. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle
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It seems like in my new town,[well,i've lived here since i was in 6th grade,now in 8th...13 yrs old.] i dont have any close friends!! No one ever want to hang out with me. i have a lot of school friends,but they never seem to want to hang out. i know im not interesting,how can i be? i don't know how to get close to anyone or let them in! i feel like im uptight,or quiet,but if they really knew me,im not! they always seem to have fun,but not outside school? i dont get it. how can i be closer to them? & dont says things like join a activitie,its almost the end of the year...kinda. no activities. and no "join a new group of friends" - every time i do that,the same thing happens. i feel so left out. they never want to make plans with me. what do i do? (link)
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Hey. I completely understand where you're coming from. Sometimes it's really hard to fit into a new town even if it's been a few years. A lot of people already have their set groups and they feel like a new person would just ruin it which if they got to know you, they'd see was untrue. A lot of times people think I come off really serious but it sucks because if they knew what I was like around people I'm comfortable around I would seem extremely outgoing and stuff. Anyways, I recently realized that I can't be shy any more or act serious around people I don't know very well because I could be passing up the oppurtunity for a new friend. I know you said you've known these people for a while now but it's never too late to become more outgoing. You just have to start off slow so it doesn't look wierd but make cool interesting conversation or come up with something you can laugh about. The more you do this the greater your friendship will become. Don't become discouraged because you've never hung out with any of them because it takes a while for new friendships to develope. Believe it or not even years. So just be yourself and realize how great and fun you can be, and show it to them =). I really hope this helped! =)
Chrissabelle
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Well, so there's this guy and we are best friends, i think. it's really confusing we've been best freinds for a year now and he has these mood swings like a woman. So anyways i just went up north for 5 days and he tells me when i get back that he dosnt miss me. but now my other best friend says that while i was gone he said this really mean stuff about me. Now just this wendesday which was the day i got back my best friend goes away. then she tells me that he sent her a text saying. - hey are you having fun yet I MISS YOU- it hasnt even been a day yet. now these guys have dated before and they found that it was a bad idea. so they dont like each other anymore. O and when we talk hes always bragging about how hes talked to her more and she blah blah with her more. It makes me so mad please help me understnad whats going on with him i feel like we are like an never ending rollar coaster. (link)
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Hey. Sometimes people find one person to pick on because it makes them feel better about themselves. I know you said you feel like he's your best friend but if he told you he didn't miss you when you came back home than that is NOT a best friend. Your other friend may have made up the part about him saying mean things about you to cause trouble but he very well could have. If he constantly has mood swings where sometimes he's mean, sometimes he's nice than he's putting you in a miserable situation and making you upset because of his faults. Also, if he's always complementing your other friend and not you than he is hurting you in that way too. I would ignore him and just act like everythings o.k. but be casual friends or just say hi to him whenever you see him but I deffinitely wouldn't hang out with him anymore. And if you're other friend is mean to you about it than that's not a friend. But if she doesn't care or doesn't mention it than that's great. It might be hard at first but eventually he may get the hint and ask you what's wrong. That is the time when you can tell him. I've had a friend just like this but it was a girl and I finally ended the friendship. It wasn't until months later that she apologized, admitted she was wrong, and told me how much she missed me. I would either end the friendship or at least take a break from him. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle
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Ok, me and my class are going on a big trip soon. We get to room with people that we want and there is four to a room. My best friend has another friend that never pays any attention to me. That is who we are rooming with. Me, my best friend, her other friend, and another one of our friends. My best friendsother firend acts like i never excsist and when me, her and my bff hang out neither pay any attention to me and i try to be a part of the conversation but they still exclude me. Wehave already tuned in our room papers so i cant change who i room with. I have t be with them both for a week and i dont want to be miserable on a trip that i should have be having fun at. I know that my bff's friend will exclude me and not pay any attention to me and when she does that my bff also does it. I know that they dont realize it but i have already talked to them and nothing about them is going to change. I want to have fun on the trip but i don't want to feel left out. Any suggestions? thanks! (link)
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Hey. Ok I have had a few friends just like this and I know how you feel. It's really not nice at all that they both don't realize what they're doing. Well actually, I bet your best friends best friend does realize what she's doing and she does it on purpose so your best friend will like her better because she's jealous. Your friend probably just goes along and doesn't realize she's hurting you but she is and that's Not a best friend. Before I met my new best friend a few years ago I had some friends who were pretty bad now that I look back. My new best friend is about the nicest person I could have found and I'm so happy I met her. You have to find a really nice best friend like this and for now just ignore your two "friends". They may take more notice to you if you do this believe it or not. I bet your other friend feels the most left out because she thinks you're all best friends so I would try sticking with her on the trip. Who knows? She may become your new best friend. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle
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I have 2 best friends. One of them has been getting on my last nerve constantly lately. She always thinks she is right, and she is kinda over weight a lot, and she wears tight jeans and low cut shirts, and she's like.. "my boobs are so big, those guys keep looking at them" no they arent that big, its that she's kinda a lot fat. I dont mean to be mean, but she's fat, and very much overweight, and my other friend and I are just sick of her bragging all the time that she thinks guys are checking her out, when really the way she is dressing is drawing attention to her fat... and thats all.
what do i do? (link)
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Hey. I had a friend who sounds a lot like this girl. She probably is wearing the tight clothes because she is really insecure. It makes her feel better to think that she looks good in such a small size and she says that she has big boobs because this really makes her feel better about herself. She just doesn't want to admit this to herself so she covers things up by acting this way. As for the bragging this is just another way to cover up her insecurities but I'm sure everyone knows how she looks so I wouldn't say anything because she'll just feel silly in the long run. Or you can tell her how you feel but because she's so insecure she may get really upset and be mean to you which wouldn't be good either. Also, you and your other friend can slowly distance yourselves from her if she is really getting on your nerves to the point you really just don't like her anymore. But if this is just her main flaws, you may like her for other things and can keep her as a casual friend or however you feel about her she can be "that friend". I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle
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hi~~ i got a friend we been best friend for almost 6 years we both know we always will got each other back! but the thing is she like some one i knew that is a dumb ass and totally horriable~~~ i know that he tread her nice just because he want some thing from her. i done ever thing i could to explain to her how relistic is it but she seems to ignore all my opionin and still like him!! i asked her why she like him she told me everthing but he is shorter than her and he got physical abnormal problems i just dont konw what can i do to let her relizes this like is not truethful and she desirve so much better????? pllzzz help me i need her back to normal!!! (link)
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Hey. Well it sounds like you really don't kike his physical appearance. He could be the nicest guy inside and you might never know. But, if you know he's mean to you this may be because you both prejudged eachother. He could be the nicest guy to your best friend. Your best friend isn't going to listen to you keep urging her to stop going out with him. She's just going to think you're jealous and this will make her want to go out with him more. You just have to talk to her and tell her that you're sorry for telling her to stop going out with someone because he could be the nicest guy. Just tell her that since she's your best friend you got worried for her but it was a pre-judgement. Then tell her that if he ever tries to do something with her you'll always have her back but you understand that he may be the nicest guy. If you know he's not just tell her that you were hurt because of some things he said to you and you just wanted what was best for her but you understand and will respect her opinion. This way, if you tell her this she won't think you're jealous and she'll be happy that you respect her decision. This way she can figure out how this guy is on her own which will work out good for you too. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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This is gonna be long. Sorry. =[
Thanks in advance, though.
Mk, I have been BEST friends with this girl, Madison since I was eight. We're in eighth grade now and I seriously can't take her much longer. SHE GETS MAD OVER EVERY SINGLE THING! Anytime I get mad about something, she turns the whole thing around and starts cussing at me. She didn't do it this time but, she invited like eight girls over right in front of my face and didn't even invite me. Obviously, that pissed me off so I just hung out with my other friends the rest of the day cause every time I went over near her she'd start talking about Friday and what she's doing with everyone but me. Whenever I came home from school she IMed me and was like, "are you mad at me?" and then obviously she was talking about me cause some girl who I never even see at school was like, "are you mad at madison?" i just said sort of and then they were like, "oh, well it seemed like it." and then I told them why and Madison got all pissed off at me. She was saying, "I DON'T HAVE TO DO EVERY SINGLE THING WITH YOU! YOU INVITE YOURSELF OVER EVERY SINGLE DAY!" First of all, I know that. She doesn't have to invite people over in front of my face...I don't ever do that to her. Second of all, what the heck? NO I DON'T. She invites me over AND it isn't every day. It's like once a week. The only time I do is cause my dad is abusive and she the only one who I've told -- I only do that about once a month though. Then today I was talking to her about my profile on IM and she's like, "Well, you practically copied mine. I mean all the screen names are bolded and it's in black and white. So thanks?" I wanted to say, "OKAY! WHAT THE CRAP!? Every single person bolds the screen name like that or the name if they have conversations in their profile. Second of all, you copied Jordan's(This other girl who she acts like it's her best friend and then she tells me that she's a bitch. She's not a bitch. At least she doesn't get mad for no reason). Third of all, mine are ALWAYS black and white. I wasn't even trying to copy you. Why are you even making such a big deal about it!? It's a freaking profile." But instead I just said, "Oh sorry, I didn't mean to." and she didn't say anything. For about two weeks, anytime I say anything when she's around someone she just glares at me and says something rude or sarcastic back. I've become really good friends with some of the people who she says are her friends, so I don't know if she's just jealous about that or what. Gah, what should I do? If I talk to her about it, she'll freak out. (link)
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Hey. Wow, this sounds very similair to a situation I've been in. It sounds like you guys have just gotten waay to close. Now you're getting on each others nerves really badly no matter whose fault it is. When people get too close (they could be the nicest person ever or have some slight annoyances) this always happens.
You discover the slightest annoyances a person may have and they just keep building on and on until you feel as if you're gonna blow. Now don't think I'm blaming you or anything =) because Madison sounds like a real pain. She's definitely Not a best friend if she invited 8 whole girls over in front of you and not her own best friend. Especially the fact that she did it in front of you shows that she did it to purposely hurt you which is not a friend, especially a best friend. For people to come up and ask you if you're mad at her it sounds as if she's been telling them things about you that are untrue which is a horrible friend.
Also, with the copy cat thing she seems like she just wants to start trouble with you now. I would stay far away from her for a really long time so she will see how much she needs you and how mean she was. If you stay away without saying anything to her it will show that you're the mature one. It may be hard at first since you guys have been so close (or maybe not hard at all) but you said you have other friends so hang out with them in the meantime.
Invite them over. I'm sure they're a lot nicer and you will realize what a true best friend really is. Not someone who invites people over in front of your face to hurt you. Don't even talk about her just forget about her and if she starts trouble just be the mature one and people will realize who's really nice. She sounds like she likes to start trouble too. Maybe in time she'll realize what a great friend she lost because you sound like you've put up with a lot. I really hope this helped and good luck! I completely understand where you're coming from =)
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okay so my old friends are stupid so im making a new clique or a new group of friends. but what is IT that people like about the LEADER of the clique?
when i talk about the LEADER of the clique i mean like the head person. the person everyone wants to be around. how do you become that person?
i need the most help i can get. please help meeeee. thanks in advance :) (link)
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Hey. To be the leader of a group you have to have confidence. But you can't just get confidence you sort of just have it. You sound like you do and if not just think of what an amazing person you are and what an amazing life you've had. Also, you have to be friendly. Being friendly is about the key thing because everyone appreciates someone who talks to everyone, not just their select group. Lastly, and most importantly, you have to be nice. Being nice is about the one key thing to make any group work out and not end in the way your old group did =(. By the way I wouldn't feel bad because these things happen to almost everyone at least once in their lives (as I'm sure you know). Anyways, just be nice, friendly, and have confidence and everyone will really like you. You won't even have to declare yourself as leader with these qualities. I really hope this helped you and good luck! =)
No totally I understand you left =) thanks for the feedback!
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Ok I need advice to give to my friend Betty on how NOT to feel this way. It only happens when she works (which is Monday thru Friday). She feels as if she is leading two lives. She says she gets up goes to work (being the first life), comes home (this being the second life), then does the same thing all over again the next day. BUT she ISNT in a rut. She says she has been feeling this way since her dad died 19 years ago. MY QUESTION: What can I do to help her.
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Hey. When a loved one passes away you sometimes feel dead yourself and get into this routine of doing the Same thing every day. You have to influence her that her dad wouldn't want her to be feeling this way. He would want her to have fun and a new adventure each day. Try making plans with her after she gets home from work to do something fun. If she protests and says she's tired, beg her and continue this. Try to think of things she would like to do so it will be worth her while. She will really appreciate that she has such a good friend and it will get her back up on her feet again. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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I have known this girl for quite sometime now and we are best friends and we've been best friends for a while now. I really feel like I am truly in love with her. I would do any thing for her and any thing to be with her. She means more to me than anything in the world. I would die for her. I feel like shes the only one in the world who understands me and the only one who I am ment for. But the thing is that we are just friends. I've never done the slightest thing with her. I've liked her since I became friends with her. I don't know what to do. She's all I ever think about. And the worst part is I know for a fact that she doesn't want to be with me because she doesn't want to lose such a good friendship. Shes the only person on the planet that I've never gotten into a fight with. I want to be with her so bad what do I do?
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Hey. Well if you tell your friend this right away she will probably be really shocked at first and she may be so shocked that she will turn you down. Not your fault. Also, if you have this great relationship she may feel the same way about you too and you'd never know it. I just read a poem about this on this internet and they both never told eachother that they felt the same way about each other. Start off slowly. First maybe ask her if she wants to go to the movies or something and then maybe give her a kiss to see her reaction. If she objects tell her how you feel and that you think you're meant for each other. Tell her you can start off slow if she wants and this may make her more comfortable and will make her feel it won't ruin your friendship. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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Ok so i told my best friend that if she starts "talking" or going back out with a guy named Jay that i wouldnt talk to her anymore.
And the reason i told her that is because for one, he is rude to me and is an asshole to me.
2nd reason is when jay and my best friend went out they fought almost EVERY day and when i tried to have a conversation with her, ALL SHE WOULD TALK ABOUT WAS THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AGAIN.. about how they fight abt the same thing. and i got sick of it.
Third reason is that he changed her attitude towards me and more importantly her parents.. he would get mad that she couldnt hang out like everyday (because she has strict parents) and so like he would make her go ask her parents then she would just end up gettin in a fight with her parents bcause she wanted to hang out with him. (and this happen almost every day too)
4th reason, they only knew each other like a week or two and he kept tryin to do stuff with her and she wouldnt.. and he WOULD get soo mad and start a fight about it almost every time they hung out bcause she wouldnt ever mess around.
anyways i confronted her about all this and finally i sayd well if you want to go back out with him then DONT TALK ABOUT HIM AROUND ME... and seriously i dont want her goin back out with him because i know its goin to end up the same way.. but i want to know if i am doing the right thing and if i am not.. then what should i do and what should i tell her? (link)
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Hey. This guy sounds like a complete jerk and I completely agree with you first of all. You're being a nice friend for caring about her this much. Rather than tell her "I'm not going to talk to you if you go out with this guy" explain to her the reasons that you told Advicenators rather than acting angry about it. This way she won't think you're jealous or something or she may go out with him on purpose if you act like you're restricting her. Tell her that you really think this guy is hurting her relationship with her parents and her friends (you). Also tell her that this guy is hurting her too for making her do things she doesn't want to do. Just tell her that you're really looking out for her and that if this is what it takes you'll find her a really nice new guy to go out with. This way she will feel less paranoid all the time about hanging out with you and being with her family. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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I have two best friends and now everything is changing between us. We all three have boyfriends. Amy is always like her boyfriend and I never get to hang out with her anymore and when we actually do get to talk it's always about her boyfriend. Andrea, my other best friend is not as bad its just I dont want to lose them. My boyfriend seems to be not interested in me or something. He never calls me to hang out and then always has an excuse. He would rather play videeo games, or cheat on me I guess. (he is known for cheating). But I dont know what to do because if I break up with him then I will be by myself at school with no one to talk to because my friends will be with there boyfriends. (link)
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Hey. If your boyfriend never wants to hang out with you and is always cheating on you he is a jerk that you don't deserve. He's probably making you even more depressed that your friends have good relationships with their boyfriends and yours is a jerk. I'm sure you can do much better then him and I would definitely break up with him. Find a nice guy that treats you right this way you'll have someone to brag about to your friends too. Just kidding. =). Anyways, right now your friends are probably so happy to have boyfriends (like you were at first) that this is why it's all they ever talk about. Give it time and this will wear off. I mean of course they'll still talk about them but probably not as much as they do now. Please find a guy that will treat you right too! I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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hey people, i bought 3 frames to put pictures of me and my best friend in them for her bday (tomorrow) but i cant get ANY pictures of us! Not here, not at her place, no where! So the question is, WHAT CAN I DO WITH THREE FRAMES when there's no picture? (link)
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I think it would be great if you made her something to put in the frame. Maybe a picture or a note saying what a great friend she is. Put this in the first one. Then maybe another with another cute saying, and the last saying now let's have some fun and take pictures. When I usually give my friend a frame for their b-day or Christmas I leave it blank and tell them that I figured we can take some pictures of ourselves that day. Or at the next big event you're going to. Maybe if you feel wierd giving three empty frames keep one for yourself so you'll both have the same. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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i think im not interesting,because i can never make ANYONE laugh! and i dont have any inside jokes,and nothing comes to mind when im talking. how can i make my brain make me think of things? wow,thats confusing,but im so blank now adays,how can i get myself out of my "blank" stage? how can i make inside jokes? it just feels like my semi- friends are never going to become my close friends. there never going to love me as a friend,and we're never going to have inside jokes. how can i change all of this? how can i get into convos. and make people like me? and laugh with them? anything,i have like no friends in my town,and i've been here for 2 years. ;[. thanks,and sorry this is long. (link)
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Hey. Well actually, inside jokes aren't supposed to be thought about. They just happen to come about when you're in a funny situation or just talking about something that turns out to be funny. Don't try to "think" when you're with people. Just be yourself and smile. Be nice and friendly. Show people how much fun you like to have. Think of what an amazing person you are and this will boost your confidence. I really hope t his helped and good luck! =)
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There is this Boy Called Tom*
WE started walking down from school together as he lives up the road. we really got to know each other and talked on msn everynight . one night he asked me to come up the street with him , i did and everything went ok... untill we met people from our school he is a year older than me so the boys were all older. being boys they stated saying stuff etc The day after Tom told a friend that we went up the street , his friend started this rumour about us and Tom started not talking to me as if he did someone would say something. the only problem is i really like Tom and cant stop thinking about him ! I told him i didnt like him though to stop all the rumours now he doesnt like me ! he is kind of a "freak" to all of my friends so telling them is a no do .
Please help !! i know this sounds stupid and its a long message but i do need help ! any will do !! (link)
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Hey. Well he probably got really hurt when you told him you didn't like him and figured that if you don't even like him why go through all this trouble. He was probably mad that all of these rumors started about him over someone who doesn't even like him. I would tell him how you really feel about him and tell him what happened. Say you were really hurt too that this happened to you guys and how much you like him. All the rumors should stop once they see what a great couple the two of you might be. Remember, people who start rumors are really insecure about themselves and want to turn the blame towards someone else. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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