Question Posted Saturday January 27 2007, 11:11 am
i think im not interesting,because i can never make ANYONE laugh! and i dont have any inside jokes,and nothing comes to mind when im talking. how can i make my brain make me think of things? wow,thats confusing,but im so blank now adays,how can i get myself out of my "blank" stage? how can i make inside jokes? it just feels like my semi- friends are never going to become my close friends. there never going to love me as a friend,and we're never going to have inside jokes. how can i change all of this? how can i get into convos. and make people like me? and laugh with them? anything,i have like no friends in my town,and i've been here for 2 years. ;[. thanks,and sorry this is long.
chrissabelle37 answered Saturday January 27 2007, 2:19 pm: Hey. Well actually, inside jokes aren't supposed to be thought about. They just happen to come about when you're in a funny situation or just talking about something that turns out to be funny. Don't try to "think" when you're with people. Just be yourself and smile. Be nice and friendly. Show people how much fun you like to have. Think of what an amazing person you are and this will boost your confidence. I really hope t his helped and good luck! =) [ chrissabelle37's advice column | Ask chrissabelle37 A Question ]
twistedsister17 answered Saturday January 27 2007, 12:59 pm: Well, inside jokes have to come from somewhere. They don't just pop into your head. The best way to make inside jokes is to have an actual experience. By this, I mean that you should go places with your friends. Ask them to go to the mall, or the movies. Or something fun like mini golfing! Chances are, that if you go places with your friends, you will create memories together. And from memories, come inside jokes. I was like you a while ago. I never had much to talk about with my friends. But we went to the mall once, and we came back with tons of insiders. For example, my friends and I like to make fun of stuff. So we went into Victoria Secret and made fun of all the underwear in there. Now whenever I see my friends, I sometimes mention, "Remember that time at the mall when we were throwing around Victoria Secret Underwear?"
Basically, just have fun with your friends. Goof off. Don't worry too much about insiders, because if you have fun with your friends and make memories together, the memories will become your insiders. [ twistedsister17's advice column | Ask twistedsister17 A Question ]
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