Question Posted Saturday January 27 2007, 11:09 am
There`s this kid and I'm not sure if I should tell him I like him or not. I think he MIGHT like me, at least a little, but I dont know if he'd go out with me. I also dont want to ruin the friendship if he doesnt feel the same. I would seriously be suprised if he didn't feel the same though, because I flirt with him all the time, and he definately flirts back. We have a pretty close bond already I think. I have his number, but have never called him yet. I'm thinking that maybe next weekend I will call him and talk to him about it, but I'm not sure. Could someone please help me out? Thanks.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? christina answered Saturday January 27 2007, 1:22 pm: I would call him now. Don't wait so long to call him. When you do call him, just talk to him like you normally would. You don't have to tell him you like him until you're ready. But I'd tell him soon because there are other girls out there who could just as easily tell him that they like him & then date him. You'd miss out. If he doesn't feel the same, that's fine. It won't ruin the friendship, but it'll be awkward for a while. Make a pact that no matter what happens, you'll always be friends. Also, just call him and ask him to a movie. See how things go through the movie, and after it. If things go well, I'd ask him out. =) Let me know how things turn out.
varsity_prep_xo answered Saturday January 27 2007, 1:03 pm: i would call him just to say hello, or maybe you could use some excuse like you need the homework or something. flirt with him on two different occasions, and then playfully make fun of him... but still be nice the next day. don't be too easy and call him all the time, wait for him to call you at least once after you call him before calling him back. best of luck to you! [ varsity_prep_xo's advice column | Ask varsity_prep_xo A Question ]
askkatie answered Saturday January 27 2007, 12:54 pm: Call him just to say hello and let him know you were thinking about him. Suggest going to see a movie or something.
But don't call too often or get upset if he can't hang out; he'll think your obsessive! Play hard to get, that's always good =]
And if you start getting the feeling that he likes you, then tell him you like him.
Just hope for the best, but expect the worst! Just don't get your hopes up too high. That's the way to guard your heart so you don't get hurt.
I wish you the best of luck!
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