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Playing hard to get
how exactly do you do that? i dont want to play TOO hard to get incase the guy gives up but i dont wanna be so easy that he loses interest
-15/f
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There are alot of different ways to do it. But here is the best way: You want to make the guy stay interested in you, but know that he can't play with your emotions. You can let him know by, not waiting around for him in the hallways, not waiting for him to call, etc. Go out with your friends and have a life! You don't want him to think that all you're doing is waiting around to see him or talk to him. Also, DON'T talk to him for 3 hours on Instant Messenger/Email/Phone OR in person. If he IMs you or calls you, talk to him for 10 minutes or so and then make up some excuse like, "Well I gotta go. I'm going out with my friends tonight." That way, he knows that you have a life, and that he's not your number one priority.
To make sure he knows that you ARE interested, flash him a flirty smile in the hall. Also, try to be mysterious to him. Guys like that. Don't feel like you have to answer all of his questions. Answer some of them, but to other questions, simply respond with a mysterious smile. If he asks you things like, "So what are you doing?" give short answers like, "Things.." It's also okay to answer questions with a "Maybe" or a "Who knows.." But by saying it in a flirty voice, he'll know that you're interested.
The most important thing is to act confident of yourself at all times. Don't come out and tell him you like him first. Wait until he fesses up. =]
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Ok so heres what you do...when he is around your friends and his ignore him a little then if he says HI say,,"oh hi" in a cute voice..then take things from there.
Goodluck
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there is no real way to play hard to get. it varies from person to person. all you have to do is flirt, but don't give in. make him want you, but don't over do it to where he thinks you aren't in his reach. don't just fall into his arms. guys liek a challenge. you're a smart girl. you will think of something
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Your exactly right! You don't want the guy to give up or lose intrest.
Make him come to you, but it never hurts to give him your phone number, or if you have a myspace casually drop him a comment saying hello and that you were thinking about him.
As things progress it'll be clearer and clearer the way he feels about you.
Good luck!
<3 Katie
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