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at summer camp
at summer camp my friend was the most popular one in our cabin i didnt know how she did it she is ssssssssssssoooooooooooooooooo tom boyish i dont know why she was so popular yes she is one of my best friends i just want to know how she was so popular so i can be like her next year
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Hey! Generally, you can't just make yourself bepopular or well liked by. BUT you (and anyone really) can do some things to improve the way others see you. For example, the first step to being well liked is being nice. Everyone likes people who are nice, and you can never say anything bad about them. I'm sure you already are, but these are just general tips. Secondly, laugh a lot. People love other people who laugh at their jokes, or let them know that you think they're funny. Go along with others and don't be disagreable. People like others who are easy-going. Lastly, I'm sure people have said this one over a thousand times but it's true. Be yourslef. Laugh, and go along, but don't be a follower. Have your own ideas. When the girls.. or guys, are showing other girls attention, go along. It makes you more likeable. If you be yourself you'll be the next one they'll be putting in the spotlight. Next year, if you follow these simple steps you and your friend will both be well liked. Who knows, maybe your friend thought the same about you ;].
I really hope this helped :].
Chrissabelle<3.
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Popularity isn't something you can copy.
Tomboys are often popular with guys, and when girls and guys hang out together, they are seen as a good part of the group. However, trying to imitate her, by being tomboyish isn't going to help you much. If you're a girly-girl, and you like yourself for who you are, just be a little more confident and outgoing. The one place you could go wrong is by being whiny or clingy. Its not attractive.
So here's my Summer Camp Checklist:
1. Be Confident.
as Marilyn Monroe said, "The sexiest thing you can wear is confidence."
2. Be outgoing.
We all learned a lesson from "Confessions of a Wallflower" right?
3. Be yourself.
Because nobody wants a obviously fake friend, the same way nobody wants an obviously fake Prada.
4. Don't cling.
Clinging isn't always attractive in clothes either... Friendship has the same tendency. Only the healthiest friendships allow for some clinging.
5. Don't whine.
Unless you're over 21 and have a bunch of cheese around, don't whine. ;)
Kidding! But it is a pretty bad idea. Whiners aren't going to be part of the group... at least not at summer camp.
Rose
(How do I know? Honey, I work at one.)
(send me a private question... I don't want to reveal my location to the whole question answering group)
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She was herself. You should be too.
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