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Betty
Ok I need advice to give to my friend Betty on how NOT to feel this way. It only happens when she works (which is Monday thru Friday). She feels as if she is leading two lives. She says she gets up goes to work (being the first life), comes home (this being the second life), then does the same thing all over again the next day. BUT she ISNT in a rut. She says she has been feeling this way since her dad died 19 years ago. MY QUESTION: What can I do to help her.
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Hey. When a loved one passes away you sometimes feel dead yourself and get into this routine of doing the Same thing every day. You have to influence her that her dad wouldn't want her to be feeling this way. He would want her to have fun and a new adventure each day. Try making plans with her after she gets home from work to do something fun. If she protests and says she's tired, beg her and continue this. Try to think of things she would like to do so it will be worth her while. She will really appreciate that she has such a good friend and it will get her back up on her feet again. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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hey, it seems to me like her schedule is too much. in order to avoid feeling this way she will need to go out with her friends a lot. have a girls night out.
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Maybe you could pick one night a week when you are both free and go out and do something. It would get you both away from work and home once a week, and it would also give you both some good friend time.
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