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feeling left out
Ok, me and my class are going on a big trip soon. We get to room with people that we want and there is four to a room. My best friend has another friend that never pays any attention to me. That is who we are rooming with. Me, my best friend, her other friend, and another one of our friends. My best friendsother firend acts like i never excsist and when me, her and my bff hang out neither pay any attention to me and i try to be a part of the conversation but they still exclude me. Wehave already tuned in our room papers so i cant change who i room with. I have t be with them both for a week and i dont want to be miserable on a trip that i should have be having fun at. I know that my bff's friend will exclude me and not pay any attention to me and when she does that my bff also does it. I know that they dont realize it but i have already talked to them and nothing about them is going to change. I want to have fun on the trip but i don't want to feel left out. Any suggestions? thanks!
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Hey. Ok I have had a few friends just like this and I know how you feel. It's really not nice at all that they both don't realize what they're doing. Well actually, I bet your best friends best friend does realize what she's doing and she does it on purpose so your best friend will like her better because she's jealous. Your friend probably just goes along and doesn't realize she's hurting you but she is and that's Not a best friend. Before I met my new best friend a few years ago I had some friends who were pretty bad now that I look back. My new best friend is about the nicest person I could have found and I'm so happy I met her. You have to find a really nice best friend like this and for now just ignore your two "friends". They may take more notice to you if you do this believe it or not. I bet your other friend feels the most left out because she thinks you're all best friends so I would try sticking with her on the trip. Who knows? She may become your new best friend. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle<3
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this is so totally like my life. If you're stuck rooming with them, so be it, but if this girl is your bff, she shouldn't ignore you. I've seen that just ignoring her works. Ignore her, and she'll talk to you. Until then, really bond with your other friend. If that still doesn't work, pick a new friend, and get to know them.
I hope this helps!!!
Rosie
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These are your real friends?? They basically tune you out making you the third whell tat is the worst thing you can feel when you call them friends if they were you friends they would have at least tried to acknowledge you thats why when you pick friends you gotta really actually gotta be true to saying best friend because them best friends sometimes can turn into your enemy I think you should tell them to put you in the convo because its not fair to be pushed to the side of the convo and not be talked to
or basically think of something to say and stick to it and then tell them to dont leave you out..
best friends don tdo that
trina<3
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