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i'm going to scream next time...
This is gonna be long. Sorry. =[
Thanks in advance, though.
Mk, I have been BEST friends with this girl, Madison since I was eight. We're in eighth grade now and I seriously can't take her much longer. SHE GETS MAD OVER EVERY SINGLE THING! Anytime I get mad about something, she turns the whole thing around and starts cussing at me. She didn't do it this time but, she invited like eight girls over right in front of my face and didn't even invite me. Obviously, that pissed me off so I just hung out with my other friends the rest of the day cause every time I went over near her she'd start talking about Friday and what she's doing with everyone but me. Whenever I came home from school she IMed me and was like, "are you mad at me?" and then obviously she was talking about me cause some girl who I never even see at school was like, "are you mad at madison?" i just said sort of and then they were like, "oh, well it seemed like it." and then I told them why and Madison got all pissed off at me. She was saying, "I DON'T HAVE TO DO EVERY SINGLE THING WITH YOU! YOU INVITE YOURSELF OVER EVERY SINGLE DAY!" First of all, I know that. She doesn't have to invite people over in front of my face...I don't ever do that to her. Second of all, what the heck? NO I DON'T. She invites me over AND it isn't every day. It's like once a week. The only time I do is cause my dad is abusive and she the only one who I've told -- I only do that about once a month though. Then today I was talking to her about my profile on IM and she's like, "Well, you practically copied mine. I mean all the screen names are bolded and it's in black and white. So thanks?" I wanted to say, "OKAY! WHAT THE CRAP!? Every single person bolds the screen name like that or the name if they have conversations in their profile. Second of all, you copied Jordan's(This other girl who she acts like it's her best friend and then she tells me that she's a bitch. She's not a bitch. At least she doesn't get mad for no reason). Third of all, mine are ALWAYS black and white. I wasn't even trying to copy you. Why are you even making such a big deal about it!? It's a freaking profile." But instead I just said, "Oh sorry, I didn't mean to." and she didn't say anything. For about two weeks, anytime I say anything when she's around someone she just glares at me and says something rude or sarcastic back. I've become really good friends with some of the people who she says are her friends, so I don't know if she's just jealous about that or what. Gah, what should I do? If I talk to her about it, she'll freak out.
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i would just give her time to cool off then get one of the girls you say she is frinds with and so are you to go and tell her that you talk to them about not knowing why you hate her so much and that all you ever did was try to be her friend.then she will feel sorry that she did that to you and she wont have a reason to yell at you because you should tell your friend to add that she wasnt supposed to tell her but she thought it was very important.hope this works:)
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Hey. Wow, this sounds very similair to a situation I've been in. It sounds like you guys have just gotten waay to close. Now you're getting on each others nerves really badly no matter whose fault it is. When people get too close (they could be the nicest person ever or have some slight annoyances) this always happens.
You discover the slightest annoyances a person may have and they just keep building on and on until you feel as if you're gonna blow. Now don't think I'm blaming you or anything =) because Madison sounds like a real pain. She's definitely Not a best friend if she invited 8 whole girls over in front of you and not her own best friend. Especially the fact that she did it in front of you shows that she did it to purposely hurt you which is not a friend, especially a best friend. For people to come up and ask you if you're mad at her it sounds as if she's been telling them things about you that are untrue which is a horrible friend.
Also, with the copy cat thing she seems like she just wants to start trouble with you now. I would stay far away from her for a really long time so she will see how much she needs you and how mean she was. If you stay away without saying anything to her it will show that you're the mature one. It may be hard at first since you guys have been so close (or maybe not hard at all) but you said you have other friends so hang out with them in the meantime.
Invite them over. I'm sure they're a lot nicer and you will realize what a true best friend really is. Not someone who invites people over in front of your face to hurt you. Don't even talk about her just forget about her and if she starts trouble just be the mature one and people will realize who's really nice. She sounds like she likes to start trouble too. Maybe in time she'll realize what a great friend she lost because you sound like you've put up with a lot. I really hope this helped and good luck! I completely understand where you're coming from =)
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The weird thing is that I was thinking about one of my friends the entire time I read this. This sounds EXACTLY like her. It's creepy..lol. Anyway. You should tell her how you feel. Like what you wanted to tell her about your profile. Don't be mean about it but you should really tell her. Before you say anything tell her you don't want to fight you just wanted to tell her this and ask her not stay calm and just listen. And tell her how she's making you feel and how she's being rude. I she doesn't listen and she freaks out then she's not worth your friendship. I know it's hard but she's either your friend or she's not. And from what i hear she doesn't seem like a good friend. Hope i helped =D
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ok well basically, most girls suck and are overly dramatic so that's just something you'll have to deal with in life. but about your frined, just wait til she's in a calm mood, and just talk to her about it. and if she flips, then you gotta think; am i better with her, or without her? personally, it sounds like a little of both. i mean you've trusted her with some serious information.. but if she's being dumb all the time, then she's not worth your time. just try talking to her. and if she doesn't listen, you can always make new frineds. i know that losing friends is a very hard thing to do, but just remember.. what doesn't kill you, will only make you stronger. and you're probably better off without her anyway =] ♥ GOOOODD LUUCCKKKKK!!!!
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ok well i kind of sort of used to be in that situation.
what you have to do is decide if your friendship is worht it.
if it isnt just drift slowly apart, at the rate ur going it shudnt be hard...
if it is then send her email tellling her u value her friendship, but you would appreciate if she didnt....
emails are easier 2 explain things with because no one can inturupt you....
that way its her decision to make, not yours.
and ask your other friends (who arent good friends with her) what they think of the situation.
hope i helped!
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