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friends suck>>form a clique
okay so my old friends are stupid so im making a new clique or a new group of friends. but what is IT that people like about the LEADER of the clique?
when i talk about the LEADER of the clique i mean like the head person. the person everyone wants to be around. how do you become that person?
i need the most help i can get. please help meeeee. thanks in advance :)
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I understand this may be exactly what you dont wanna hear but what i've learn is that cliques are the stupiest things and all they cause are fights. plus wanting to be the leader makes you act like your better then everyone even if you dont mean it. friendship isn't about whos the coolest or most popular you should just be friends and try to work things out with your old friends. there are more important thing to focose on then being cool.
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Hey. To be the leader of a group you have to have confidence. But you can't just get confidence you sort of just have it. You sound like you do and if not just think of what an amazing person you are and what an amazing life you've had. Also, you have to be friendly. Being friendly is about the key thing because everyone appreciates someone who talks to everyone, not just their select group. Lastly, and most importantly, you have to be nice. Being nice is about the one key thing to make any group work out and not end in the way your old group did =(. By the way I wouldn't feel bad because these things happen to almost everyone at least once in their lives (as I'm sure you know). Anyways, just be nice, friendly, and have confidence and everyone will really like you. You won't even have to declare yourself as leader with these qualities. I really hope this helped you and good luck! =)
No totally I understand you left =) thanks for the feedback!
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My suggestion is not making a clique, but to be friends with everyone, its so much more fun because you have all these friends and you dont get into many fights. and if your are in a fight with someone you will always have another friend. i know thats not what you wanted to hear, but i think its a good idea becaue thats what i did and im much happier now.
hope i helped some
--natalie
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