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Im always here to help You! Thanks to all you guys who have helped me already!
My boyfriend and I have been togeter since Feburary 2nd,2004! We are still great, and going strong!! :)
That car to the side is a 1999 Honda Prelude in pearl white! My favorite car!! :)
I have had a bunch of friends that have had wierd problems, and I Have always experienced a lot.
I babysit a lot, so if you have questions about that, Ask away!
I love fashion questions and Questions about clothing and what looks good with what and where to find cheep stuff.
I love make-up questions and most hair questions!
Although I do answer them, I hate sex questions.
I am good at the whole "being a girl" thing, like shaving and periods. Ask me those, I'd love to help!
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Mackenzie She is amazing! :) She is REALLY amazing!!!
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and I'll be adding more soon! Could it be you? :)
I would love to and gladly accept any questions on anything, it does not have to be anything above.
Favorite Books:
*Go Ask Alice
*Annie's Baby
*It Happened To Nancy
*Teen Idol
*All-American Girl
*The 1-800-Where-R-You Series
*The Mediator Series
*The Body Of Christopher Creed
*Freaky Green Eyes
*Of Mice and Men
*The Wattsons Go To Bermingham
*To Kill A Mockingbird
*The Earth, My But, and Other Big Round Things
* The Secret Life Of Beez
*Where the heart is
Favorite Movies:
*Now and then
*where the hear is
*Honey
*Save The Last Dance
*Love Don't Cost A Thing
*Kate and Leapold
*Miss Congeanility 1 and 2
*Beauty Shop
*A Cinderella Story
*Confessions Of A Teenage Drama Queen
*Raise Your Voice
*Drumline
*The Notebook
*Coyote Ugly
*Sisterhood Of The Traveling Pants
*Hitch
*Where The Heart Is
*Now And Then
*10 Things I Hate About You
*Drop Dead Goregous
*The Wedding Planner
*Uptown Girls
*Finding Forrester
*Greese
*Leagly Blonde 1 And 2
*Sweet Home Alabama
*What Women Want
*Napolean Dynomite
*Shrek 1 And 2
*Finding Nemo
*Pirates Of The Carriebean
*Pay It Foward
*Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
*Maid In Manhatten
*Charlie and The Chocolate Factory
*The Unfinished Life
Music:
*ALL COUNTRY!!!!
*Usher
*The All American Rejects
*New Found Glory
*My Chemical Romance
*Sugar Cult
*Black Eyed Peas
*Switchfood
*John Mayer
*Gavin DeGraw
*Trapt
*Ashlee Simpsion
*COHEED AND CAMBRIA
*Lonestar
*Fall Out Boy
*Hilary Duff
*311
*Systen Of a Down
*Chronic Future
* The Gorillaz
* My Chemical Romance
*Fall Out Boy
*Embodyment
*Boxcar racer
* Alien Ant Farm
Songs:
*Kyrie- By Mr. Mister
*We Danced Anyway- Deana Carter
*Breathless- The Corrs*
And Much More!!
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Feel free to ask me anything! :)I try to help as best I can! :)
*You get what you give, & everything you do comes back to you*
One night, the moon said to me " If he makes you cry, why don't you leave him?" I looked upto the moon and said, "Moon, would you ever leave the sky?"
I know there's something in the wake of your smile. I get a notion from the look in your eyes. You've built a love, but that love falls apart. Your little piece of heaven, turns to dark.Sometimes you wonder if this fight is worthwhile, the precous moments are all lost in the tide. They're swept alway, and nothing is what it seems, the feeling of belonging to your dreams.AND THERE ARE VOICES THAT WANT TO BE HEARD,so much to mention, but you can't find the words. The scent of magic, that's the beauty that's been, when love was wilder than the wind.
♥ -Kelsey- ♥
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So theres this girl i was friends wid last yr n like she totally ruined r friendship n a friendship i had wid some1 elz...n she saiys shes changed n shit so i said ok i guess we cn give it another try bc i didnt want to be mean but everytime i see her in da hallwayz its just like i cant even make eyecontact wid her n stuff n she thinks we're friends altho she only talks to me online n neva at skewl so like what should i do...bc i just cant stand her n i dont no if she fo real o not ya know?
well, maybe you can talk to her at school. I am sorry that your friendship with her was ruined. However, it seems to me that she regrets her mistakes, and wishes to be friends again. Maybe because you don't make eyecontact with her in the halls, she thinks that you don't see her, so she doesn't talk to you, then. Maybe if you two do make eye-contact, then you will strick up a convorsation in the hallway.
If you want more help or anything at all, just leave one in my inbox!!!
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-Kels-
What would you do if you hated life but then all of a sudden your "friends" decided to hate you. ALL OF THEM?
boost my self confidence, find new REAL friends, go shopping, get a manicure/pedicure, listen to music, and do things that make you happy.
I like to shop, and paint my nails, and make new friends, and go to amusement parks and movies! :)
-Kellzie
Me and my best friend had a stupid argument. What shall I do, I was alittle harsh on her, but I didnt want to stop being friends what can
i do?
appolagize. say that you are sorry and that you know that you were a little harsh, but it was a silly argument,and you dont want it to ruin your friendship. I know that you dont want to say that because you dont want to look stupid, or feel nervuos, but it is always the best thing to do!
I hope I Helped!
If you ever need anything else, please ask!
-Kelsey-
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I have a friend who is verbally and physically abusive. She called me and my other friend a**holes for stupid reasons, and she just us both (hard!). She's been doing little things like that forever, like calling me an idiot or stupid, and maybe hitting me a few times. I could deal with that, but now she's gone way too far. I know that's not how a friend is supposed to act. She doesn't seem to know that her behavior is mean and immature.
I'm avoiding her, but I know I can't do that forever. What should I do?
I had a friend like that too, and i did it back to her, and then she backed off of me, and she told everyone how much she hated me, and made up stuff, and streatched the truth, and long story short, she lost just about all of her friends, and they knew that i was nicer.
im not saying go all out, but if she hits you, hit her back, dont stand tehre and take it! that tells her she can do it, and you dont care, but you do!
try to get your other friends to do this with you, there is power in numbers!
if you need anything else? just ask!
_KAS_
hi i am about 2 years older than most of my friends cuz i got left back and i go to a private school so theres not much people there well none of my friends want to like go anywhere or do anything is that going to change when they get older or some thing and i would find new friends but like private school not much people only about 10 people in a class room how do i have my friends going places without there parents always coming with us and but i dont want to sound like i am to old for them i just want some thing to fall into place like idk get lost or some thing
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you could just say "hey maybe we could go and hang at the mall or something like that sometime" or "wanna go catch a movie on thursday?" if their parents go with you guys one time, then maybe say, "how about next time its just us gils, and maybe do something with our moms too another time"
well, just be friendly. Talk to everyone. You can talk about a recent test, quiz, homework assignment, or what was for lunch. If you need a partner for an assignment, or if your teacher says that you can work in a group, ask a new person if they want to work with you. Its always fun to have a lot of friends. maybe dont just stick with finding one best friend, but instead try to find alot of friends. Its not too hard, but its hard to get started. When you go out, like to the mall or to a skating rink, or something, be sweet and kind to everyone. If you school has clubs or activites, then maybe try to join one of those. Or you can go and watch your schools sporting events, and then maybe try to talk to people there. Thats what I would do anyways.! I have to go now, someone else needs the computer!
if you want more to this answer then please feel free to leave one in my in my inbox! I'd be more than happy to help or if you have any other questions!!
-Kelsey-
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I hope I helped!!
Okay, My name is melissa, and i'm fifteen. Theres this guy at my school who keeps calling me fat. He says that i'm obese and that i should just stop eating!!! The problem is, that i'm 5,4 and i'm 105 pounds. I dont think that's fat, and all my friends say i'm stick thin....but, i dont know. If he calls me that, do other people think that? And...if not, how do i get him to stop?
Please help! I rate high!
~Melissa~
yah, you are skinny, and definately NOT fat! you should ignor him. if you say something back ro show a reaction, then he is getting what he wants, he is getting a rise out of you,and that is his satisfaction, so dont do that. if you dont do anything, then he will most likely get bored and move on!
anything else? just ask!
Im always willig to help!
-Kelsey-
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I am having a new friend over today, and I would like some ideas on what we can do. I have DDR so that is one thing, but besides that all I can really think of is tv. I am a female/16 if it helps! Thanks!
baking is fun! cookies, cake, brownies, ect.
watch movies!
have a pig fest
jump on a trampoline or swim in a pool.
take a walk around the neighborhood
make ice cream sundaes
go to the mall or a shopping center
make a picnic
give manacures and pedicures
give make-overs (good ones and funny, crazy ones)
give hair-do's (good ones, and funny, Crazy ones)
Try on lots of clothes, and do mini fashion shows!!
please let me know if these help!
I really hope that i did help!
have fun!!
anything else? always feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Kelsey-
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My friend has an awful case of acne and blackheads,We tried all kinds of brands to get rid of them,they dont work. Do you know anything to get rid of them for her?
clean and clear blackhead scrub. try a facemask made espically for blackheads! check your local grocery or drug store for many options!
Happy Ridding of Blackheads!
-Kelsee-
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Ok I have this friend who is always calling me names like stupid and if I say something to her like o thats real smart(jokeing) shell hit me.I know she is kidding but everytime I tell her to stop she never does.How can I get her to stop calling me names and hitting me?
i had an abusive friend like that, and i never could get her to stop, i would fake a stumach ache, or something like that, to go home. or if she left the room, then i would call my mom and tell her to call me back and say I had to go home. I couldnt take it, and it never ended either, she was verbally and physically abusive, the only reason it isnt a problem now is because she moved. try to just get away from her when she starts acting like that. and tell her that you dont do that to her, and that when she does that, she is not the kind of friend that you want to have, so please stop. tell her fermly, and look her in the eye.
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-SLeK-
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I am having some friends over today and there gonna be over for like 5 hours before our cheer practice and I have no idea what we can do I don't have a pool just a trampoline I mean I live in a place where we can go for walks and stuff but thats boring anty ideas on what we can do? I'll rate high
you could make cookies or pizza or brownies. watch a movie, record your own movie, play in the sprinklers, play on the trampoline, take a walk, like you sugested. do your nails and toes, do wacky hair and make-up, then do good hair and make-up. take pictures. those will be good memories. play a game like monopoly, pictionary, yahtzee, scrabble or life. :)
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-SLeK-
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I'm at a friends house and the two friends that i'm here with are mad at each other!! My friend, lets call her Anne, thought that my other friend, ummm..lets call her Haile...anyway! She Anne thought that Haile like did stuff with Anne's boyfriend, but haile didnt, but anne is convinced she did!! I wanna help I really do, but I just dont know what to do anymore! I really dont want to get stuck in it, but I cant enjoy myself with all the tension whirling around....please help!
~Melissa~
get the boyfriend on the phone!!! for=real! he is the only one that can talk anne out of it!:)
-KelLz-
I have a bunch of friends at school, but none of them have called me over this summer! I've invited a few over and we'll have a blast but they never invite me anywhere. I feel so left out, what do I do ?
well, you've gotta be the "inviter" ask then over alot, youve already said you have a blast. keep askin 'em over! then maybe theyll invite you! thats what i did! :)
-KelLz-
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hello yall uhh i recently just foudn out that this saturday there is a cheerleading stunt clinic thing it helps you with your stunt groups and everything and it suppose to be really good my coaches daughter does it and she is like a really good cheerleader from it but my friends party is on the same day and at the same time and there is no way i could go to both and the cheerleading clinic is only one day and so isnt my friends party l;ike its not a sleepover or anything so i couldnt go after or the morning everyone wakes up i dont know what to do i love my friend but i love cheerleading and my friend will get mad please help i will rate 5
i say go to the cheer thing! there will be more parties, but this cheer thing is rare, and the cheer thing will help you in the long run, and the party wont. even if people say stuff coz u didnt go, those people wont matter later in life.
if you ever need anything else, please feel free, and dont hesitate to leave one in my inbox!
-KelLz-
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Ok, i'm going to a soccer camp, and it allows u an hour ansd a half for free time. since were not allowed to bring electronicts, i'm going to be so bored. I'm new on the soccer team that's hosting the camp, so what should i bring or do that can include some of the girls at the camp?
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Bring a deck of cards! :) or something like that! a game,maybe scrabble, or monopoly! or yhatzee. :) HAVE FUN! AND SOCCER RULES! :)
-cross words
-word finds
-nail polish and all those "suplies"
-scrap booking supplies
-paper for letters
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i hope that helps!!!!
-KelLz-
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I have a friend named Rob who I've known all my life and he tells me everything. We both made friends with a new younger girl named Lena (we're in eighth grade and she's in seventh) and we have a great time together. Rob is a really nice guy, and I think that Lena is mistaking that for him liking her, and she's starting to like him. For example, whenever we are doing something, like bouncing on the trampoline, and Lena falls over, he's over there helping her up again, and she's mistaking that for him liking her. Rob has told me himself that he doesn't like Lena as more than a friend, but I don't want Lena to ask him out and break her heart. What do I do?
well, as a girl myself, girls always think that if a guy is nice to them, that they like them, believe me, me and tuns of my friends have felt that same way! :) and shes glad that he is an older guy too! just have him say that he doesnt want a girl friend now and he is sorry if he hurt her, and he didnt mean to, and that he wants to remin being one of her friends!
thanks for letting me help you, and i hope that i did help!
best of luck!
always-
kels
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I think i'm in love with my friends sister, shes nine months older than me, and I just have been crazy about her for months! I want to be around her all the time, but the thing is there is no way that she could feel anything other than an okay friendship towards me, Its really frustrating... Any suggestions on trying to get her to like me back?
well, for one, just be yourself! and tell her how you feel! and then go with whatever she says, if she says yes, dont get tooo excited, it may freak her out! and if she says no, go with it, and be cool with it, and then just keep going on being yourself, and acting normal, and then maybe a few months later, ask her if she wnats to go out for ice cream or something!
hope I helped!!!
-KeLs-
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do you have AIM or yahoo? maybe we could talk sometime.
no sorrY! :/
you said you had a long question for me, just put it in my column and i'll reply!!
xoxo Julie
eh, i already asked it to the whole site. sorry! :(
yay! thanks so much for putting me and one of your favorites! I'll help you out more than other people. hehe :)
xoxo Julie
awe, you're so welcome! I'd be happy to help you out with any questions, too. are you on this site right now? if so, drop one in my inbox coz i have a really long question for you.
thanks! :)
he doesnt like to be hug or w.e...whenever i try he backs away..and i would really like to be in his arms...he would make me happy..i was thinking of talking to him about it in december...but my plan didnt work well..and i havent seen him since january..and that was nothing..it was only for 30 mins..and we were inorging each other then..and i was trying not to make eye contact bc i was mad at him and we got into a fight mid-december and yeah...i do miss him and want to see him soon..just our schedule's are so booked that we cant see each other till prob the summer...-hopefully- and its driving me insane that i havent seen him in so long!!! urghhh...X3
awe, i am so sorry! I hope things work out this summer! keep me posted!! good luck!
*Kelsa*