I think i'm in love with my friends sister, shes nine months older than me, and I just have been crazy about her for months! I want to be around her all the time, but the thing is there is no way that she could feel anything other than an okay friendship towards me, Its really frustrating... Any suggestions on trying to get her to like me back?
Additional info, added Saturday June 11 2005, 11:33 pm: edit: I have now procured that she wouldnt mind being my girlfriend, but her family is into courtship, so what do I do, I want to be with her, but I have no clue what "courtship" even is!
Any help?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? mauigirl answered Saturday May 28 2005, 8:37 pm: does your friend know? because that's the most important thing. maybe your friends sister is a bad kisser, or turns out to be really boring or something. see, what i'm saying is that friends are always there for you, while bf/gf's don't last forever. so just check w/ your friend before you start planning how to get this girl. [ mauigirl's advice column | Ask mauigirl A Question ]
K2204 answered Friday May 27 2005, 11:43 am: well, for one, just be yourself! and tell her how you feel! and then go with whatever she says, if she says yes, dont get tooo excited, it may freak her out! and if she says no, go with it, and be cool with it, and then just keep going on being yourself, and acting normal, and then maybe a few months later, ask her if she wnats to go out for ice cream or something!
orphans answered Friday May 27 2005, 10:08 am: just flurt with her a lot. complement her and make eye contact with her. be really nice to her and smile a lot,and maybe she'll start to like you! but be yourself, and don't try to act like something your not, or she won't like you. hope it works out! good luck! [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
artistegirly answered Friday May 27 2005, 6:45 am: Hmm...you could be more flirtatious but if you already said there ws no way she'll like you as anthing else just accept that you two are just friends. It's a crush..it'll pass. [ artistegirly's advice column | Ask artistegirly A Question ]
tonyroxursox answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:28 am: Try doing the usual flirting, talking, eye contact, having fun, be funny, be sweet, complement her, act cute! and number 1 thing smile u never know when she might fall in love with that smile of yours!!! :) Hope I helped! From ToNy! ;) [ tonyroxursox's advice column | Ask tonyroxursox A Question ]
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