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can you tell me something to tell her .or should i tell her
well i have a best friend you can call her marie. we went walking one day and she is young but,her x saw her and walked with us they started flirting i dont mind that but then he told us he was going to show us his old hang out it was a old shed he started telling her to give him a lap dance and she did well then i walked off because i got scared she would go to far i did not know what to do .so i went back 2 the shed and they were laying by an old boat with her shirt off.i had a cell phone with me so did she i tryed to call her and tell her i was going to leave her but he took her phone out of her pocket.the only good thing was he brought protection.
also she almost did it with her boy friend to night.please tell me something i can tell her or,should i tell an adult??
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Talk to her about to her about how you feel. Tell that she should be careful, if she continues she could get in a situation that she won't know how to get out of. Tell her you'll aways be her friend and to be there for her when she needs you but you don't approve.
I would advise against telling a adult, you may lose your friendship.
If your really worried than tell her mother, and just say that your worried about your friend and you don't want her to be mad at you and never be friends but you want to help her.
Even if her parents do get involved, she'll still have sex if she wants to and doesn't want anyone telling her what to do. You can't stop her from doing what she wants, all you can do is let her know that you disaprove but you'll be there for her. Thats most important.
Good Luck
AG
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Well hunni as much as you disagree with what she's doing and you are so right to disagree, in the end it is her choice as it is her body and her life. Tell her how you feel about this, about how it is wrong and all the consequences it can have ie. she should could become pregnant, catch an STI, etc. Remind her that theres a lot more ways that her and her boyfriends can do that are a lot safer but just as much fun like kissing and hugging.
Hopefully she will listen to you and stop it, but if she doesn't at least make sure she knows enough about it to keep herself safe. There are plenty of websites that will be able to get information about sex such as www.likeitis.org.
At the end of the day, you are the more sensible one. Whatever you do, don't let her pressurise you into doing something that you don't want to do. Then at least you'll have the comfort of knowing that when she does realise how stupid she's being, you'll be there to help pick up the pieces.
Stay strong
Claire xx
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Tell her, if she's ready for the consequences of what she's doing then that's the only time she can go on. What if she'll get pregnant accidentally because of passion, they forgot to use protection? tell her these consequences and if she'll not listen to you then it's past your hands. As a friend, you have done your responsibility.
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Well i think you should talk it out with her.. telling an adult would make matters worse.. and they w*ouldnt do anything. Tell her this isnt really appropriate even though it isnt my buisness i just want to protect you and look out for you.. if she gets offended then give it time and she will have to learn it the harder way
♥ Michelle
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