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umm my mom found some pads in my drawer and now she thinks i got my period. I havent gotten my period yhet and i only had those pads for justincase, but she wont believe me! what do i do?!?!?!
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Just tell her that you really don't have it. Tell her the whole situation makes you feel uncomfortable. I'm sure she'll understand. After all, you are gunna get it someday, and your mom has it too. There isn't a better person in the world to talk about this than your mom. Everything will be fine!

Q: Where can you get the best livejournal ions? Especially of Paris Hilton..because she is my role model..what websites? Or of the movie Mean Girls?
Go to google and type in MSN icons or Paris Hilton MSN icons. That usually works!


Q: If someone smokes pot for about a week straight and stops 4 or 5 days before they are given a dip test for urine testing, will they pass the drug test?
No because Marijuana stays in your system for 30 days.


Q: I'm really scared. I will soon have to have 2 teeth pulled! I was wondering how much it hurts, can you feel them actually pulling the teeth out, and how long it takes for it to stop hurting after you get them pulled. Please help! I'm really scared!!! I rate 5's by the way.
Well, it may hurt after you get them pulled, but it's different for everybody. You judge it on how well you can handle pain. Goo Luck and hope this helps!





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Q: Everytime I fight with someone I start shaking, is this normal?
Yes. It's nerves. Don't worry you just get so worked up, that your nerves start going crazy. Now what do you mean by fight? Physical or mental. I just answered the mental part, but if you were in a physical fight then that was adrenaline. It gets you pumped up and sometimes you can do things that require a GREAT amount of strength that you couldn't do before. Adrenaline isn;t good for you. Your heart beats faster when it should with adrenaline. Well, hope this helps!!





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Q: so I like this guy, he knows that I like him.. but I don't know if he likes me.. but I do know that he has NeVeR made out or anything.. I have never made out or french kissed anyone. I'm going to ask this guy out.. and I'm hoping he will say yes, if I do ever like go to the movies with him.. what do I do, cause you know how people say, that the guy will lead the way? well that won't really work because be have never made out.. so what in the nation am I sopost to do?
thanks!
You don't necessarily have to make out at the movies. You could simply hold hands or cuddle while you watch the movie. If the both of you haven't made out or anything, then maybe you guys aren't really ready. Making out is something that has to be special....and you have to make sure you're completely ready.





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Q: My sterio CD thing wont open. I have a Cd stuck in there and it won't open. i'm worried. Anyone know how i can get it to open? answer QUICKLY!
Well try to stick a pen into the crease to try and get it opened. That always works for my PC. If not then take it somewhere to be fixed. Good Luck!



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Q: iunno why i'm late for most things because i sleep in. i get like 10 hours of sleep a day or i need 10 hours of sleep a day if i dunget 10 hours i sleep in so i get 10 hours. how can i make myself wake up without stalling and needing more sleep?
Try using an alarm clock. You have to make an effort not to hit the snooze button. If you still live with your family, or a room mate and they get up before you have them wake you up.






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Q: ok.. i have some problems with the way i look. i have chubby cheeks and a small mouth so like u can barely tell when i smile.. my skin texture is terrible..ive tried everything but i just have really low confidence and self esteem and i always feel like everyone looks better than me.
The only way to really change your looks is plastic surgery. That's a little over doing it. There is always that special something that makes someone feel good about themselves and that's the key thing. Try makeup, experiment with different kinds. Maybe try a different hairstyle, and go shopping for some new clothes, maybe mix your style up!! Hope this helps!!


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Q: 13/m

hi,


i've taken the whole am-i-fat testing and stuff from different websites, and they all say the same thing, that i don't weight enough. i don't have an eating disorder or anything like that. my doctor i guess knows about this, but hasn't really told me to do anything. so... what can i do? i eat until i'm full, and thats it. please don't say "eat more!". i'll rate you if you give extremely good advice, give extremely funny advice, or give extremely bad advice.

yours,

the thin one
You probably have very fast metabolism. Try eating protein like meat,eggs,peanut butter, fish etc. Don't over eat, because it's unhealthy. Exercise is helpful because it builds up muscle and muscle weighs more than fat. Just contiue to eat right, eat protein, and exercise and you'll do fine. Hope this helps!!





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Q: i just got the snapple lipgloss thats in those little bottle looking things, and i dont know how to use it...Can anyone who knows how tell me plz? thanks
The bottom of the bottle twists to make the lipgloss moves up and down. Make sure you take the cap off first though!!




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Q: The first time I had my period it was from the 19-22 then it became 25-29 then 3-7.Wat is wrong?Is this normal? I need advice and i rate very high.thanx
Nothing is wrong with you hunny. You just got your period, so it's perfectly normal for you to be irregular. It takes about a year for your period to regulate.





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Q: ok so i've started using tampons and sometimes they leak so i take it out but when i do it hurts like i havent left it in long enough.... i dont know what to do get bigger ones or what

pleez help!!!
You probably need a bigger size if you leak. And if it hurts when you take it out, then you probably pushed it in too far.





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Q: I'm looking for some really great teen fictional books. Can anyone recommend some to me, or even if you can't, a great website that has a list of them? I'm looking for a book along the storyline of like love and romance.... but even if you have a book name that's not about that but it's a great book, thats good too! THANKS!!
I think a brilliant teen book is Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson. It's one of my favorites. It's about an teen outcast that overcomes many struggles(I don't want to give the book away). So definately check it out!!



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Q: I have an ipod mini, but it wont turn on. I had it for a while now, and it hasnt been able to turn on since last night. Its not on hold, and i dont know what to do. Please help
You hold the play button down to turn it on. Or if that doesn't work try charging it.



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Q: Okay Im friends with this girl, but not that close. I found out from sombody that she cuts herself and gets abused by her dad. I dont know if i believe this but for a fact she scratches her arm and makes it bleed and seems very proud ( with her nails ). Also her dad is strict with her, with school work and all... but a lot of parents are? Is this a bad sign? Any suggestions? thanks
Well I know you wanna help her, but you're not that close to her. Until you know for sure that she's getting abused and cutting, stay out of it. If you told her about it and it wasn't true, don't you think she'd be offended? If you do find out that it's true, help her out if she wants it, or encourage her to get help from a professional. That's the best you can do. Good Luck with whatever you decide to do.





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Q: My lip is bleeding really bad from being chapped. Is there a way I can stop it? It's a reddish black and I'm about to go to school so it's going to look weird. Any tips?
The best thing for chapped lips is Blistex chapstick. Or just plain old vaseline.



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Q: There aer these two girls in my year, lets call then Kate and Tara. Anyway, they have always been pretty slutty and worn loads of make-up and stuff, so I've never really liked them. But now for the school talent show they are doing pole dancing. Pole dancing! Parents and even grandparents are coming to the show! It really annoys me how they think everyone WANTS to see them writhe about on stage in next-to-nothing, and I am soo angry about it. Do they have absolutely no dignity?
Anyway, I guess my question is this; do I say somethin to them about it (remember, these girls are have lots of 'friends' and won't say no to a fight) or do I just simmer in silence?
And they'e allowing that in school??? That's bullshit. I completely agree. I mean, does the principle know about this?? If he/she doesn't then tell them. If they have permission, then I guess that there is nothing you really can do. I highly doubt that they would allow it though. Well, good luck and hopefully it's not too embarressing.♥



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Q: ok there is this guy he is my friend and he won't stop touching me or saying all this sexual stuff. He's really making me mad i don't know how to tell him because he's my friend, plz help.
Well, if he is your friend, he'd most likely understand.It's sexual harassment, friend or not. If it continues report it because you should never feel uncomfortable especially if he's you friend. Good Luck!! ♥



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Q: what should i say during an akward or scilent moment
Well if if the people you are with have a sense of humor then say something really funny or random. Try to start a conversation. I'm not really sure what else to say or do. Just be yourself!!



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Hey guys! I've been off the site for a while but I'm back! So you can feel free to ask me anything you want. I give the best advice I can to any question asked. I try to answer each question truthfully, honestly, and straight up. My advice can be good or bad, it all depends on how YOU take it. Feedback and ratings from questions answered help me out on how well I'm helping you guys out.♥


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