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I'm GrinningCheshire
I'm gay btw
Anyways I will try to help u with all my might but not with sports,not my fortè.
Location: Quezon City,,Philippines
Age: 16
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I’m a 13 year old girl. I have a crush on one of my friends, not my best friend or anything but we’re still friends. Recently he told me who he had a crush on (one of my other friends😩) which is a big deal for him because he has a hard time trusting people. But he said he trusted me. Lately we’ve been talking more and he invited me to come over to his house. He invited a couple other friends and well but they couldn’t come. He then asked if I wanted to come alone. We’re in band together so he taught me how to play drums a little. We just sat for a little and talked about random stuff but I felt like it was different than when I hang out with my other friends. Am I reading into nothing??? Does this mean he likes me too? Ps I’m not jealous for my other friend. She doesn’t know that he likes her but I know she doesn’t like him. (link)
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Hello,my dear
I understand that you must've been disappointed when you found that he likes someone else and not you,I mean everyone has in one point in their lives.
But perhaps don't read into it too much perhaps on that one instance,I mean it is just that one instance.Have you considered telling him about your feelings though?
It's going to be hard to get lost in the signs you've let yourself be misled by.
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There's this boy in one of my classes that I sorta fancy. We talk occasionally. We aren't that close, but we aren't just aquatinces either. I've had a crush on him for the past year, and now I'm thinking about confessing. I have social anxiety, and I'm scared I'll panic if I tell him in person, so I thought about writing him a letter. I have so many questions about this, like, should I make it sappy to show him how I feel, or should I keep it at a minimum so I don't make him feel guilty if he doesn't like me back? Should I do it on regular lined paper and just fold it in half, or should I make it a bit more pretty by using stationary? Should I put my name, or the the "Secret Admirer" route? I know I have a lot of questions, but I want this to be perfect! Any advice at all would be amazing! (link)
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Hello dear,
This is actually one of the cutest questions actually =)
As for your question,perhaps as a writer (not famous though haha) the only advice I can give you is that if you're gonna write the love letter is that you go write your heart out regardless of rejection
If you want him to know that you wrote it then go and write your name but if you don't want him to know then you can go and take the Secret Admirer route
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so I've started developing feelings for my step bro,our age gap is 6 years and he's in army now while I'm still a student. it all started on a plane flight last year. he sat with me and i was by the windows. i tried leaning against him but he pushed me away however in the middle of the flight, i woke up lying on his chest. moments later, he stood up and went to the washroom but before that he placed a pillow near my head, [ps he didn't actually knew that he woke me up]when he was back. i tried leaning against him again and my hair was all in my face and he gentlyplace it behind my ear.few hours later,i woke up & requested if i could lie on his lap and there was no objection from him and so i. i lied on and tried to shift to a better position however i applied a little too much pressure. soon, he told me to get up as he needs to use the bathroom again. when he was back his hand was blocking his crotch and sat down placing a pillow above it. i was curious but didnt ask much and laid down however it wasn't really comfortable thus i removed the cushion, it might be a little gross to say this but i could actually feel his penis standing upright.just to state that he have no girlfriends before despite living for 18 years.
we reached our destination and we sat beside each other throughout the whole journey, i would say. in one of the days, we were visiting a tourist attraction, i was cold and he offered me his winter jacket. next day, he fell sick. however like i mentioned he sat with me throughout the whole journey, he was so sick that he cuddled himself like a ball sitting beside the window, all of a sudden he just played on my lap and started sleeping. i took out my jacket and placed it over him, he tossed around and he was sooooooo adorable. soon when he recovered, he didn't really lie on my lap however for fun, its my turn... I'm a pretty photogenic person but he's not and he hardly takes pictures and never helps to take pictures even if his biological siblings requested him too however for this time without pleading,he agreed in a second and boast how photogenic he is haha .
however when we were back from our holidays, things get a little different over time, whenever the sisters are around he will not really respond to me however when they are away for something he would answer all my questions that i was curious about...
few weeks later... he's entering army and before he left i reminded him to get a red box from my room, in it , it contains 263 notes for him to read every weekend as he will not be able to bring it into camp. few months later, we are having a family gathering (having bbq) which was held 2 days ago, our cousins were all there and were chatting while eating when he suddenly asked if i want to compete skate boarding with him and of course i agreed. after eating we want up to their houses to chill and we were all discussing about the latest pop drama's main character song joong ki hahaha.. just to say that I've told my cousin's girlfriend who is the same age as him about our issues and she kept it a secret but tried to help, she told me to move in closer to him because there were no more seats and the area was very cramp, i looked into her eyes for a moment and my step bro waved his hand and told me to move in,my friend who was the same age was him showed him some ladies photos, he leaned in towards me with his cap touching my face. However he did not compliment any of them.. sooner or later all our cousins were in a room when we realised that we were the only ones outside the living room with our parents and a few adults. we then moved in and sat down, we were having body contacts and all.. if you are reading this, thanks for spending so much time, please share with me your opinion and it really matters a lot to me. (link)
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Hi honey,
Your story looks like it was taken out of a shoujo manga since I read romantic manga. 😍😍😍
Anyways be careful though because he might just be kind with you so don't get your hopes up or dont pour all of yourself on him.
Studies first dear but if you manage to be a good student then it s okay as long as you dont forget your studies 😆
😸😸😸😸😸😸😸😸
Grinning Cheshire
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I dated a guy for two months. He's 27 and I'm 24. He was really sweet but seemed to think I was a 'goddess' and said he could imagine dating with the intent of marriage. I broke up with him because of the pressure- this is my first relationship and he seems ready for things I'm not ready for. Also I'm in a late bloomer so I'm in college and I have no idea where I'll be in 1 year. It was my birthday and he sent told me he wishes me the best and sent me a long love poem. He also said he knows I made the right decision for myself by breaking up. Is it normal to feel like I want him back even though breaking up seemed healthier? Should I ever contact him again? (link)
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With help from my friend,
Dearest,
NO because honestly since you said the relationship you had with him is unhealthy then why go back?
He did send you his best wishes,right,meaning that you and him are okay already.
XOXO
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I am in amazing relationship, one that I've always wanted and dreamed of. Both of us are in our 30's, were were married before to other people and now both divorced, but head over heels in love with each other. There is one problem, he cannot get over my dating past. Before meeting him, I was in two long term relationships ( marriage and one for 6 yrs) and then became single and dated for two years. I met him before he even had the chance to date again, we hit it off immediately and fell in love over time. He said he loves how sexual I am, but hates my past, his resolution is to 1) swing with him and let him have sex with someone in front of me, or 2) participate in a 3 some and let him do his thing in front of me. This kills me, and I don't want to. I love him sooo much and if I saw this it will hurt so bad. My past means nothing to me, but he doesn't get it, because he didn't get to date after his marriage with his HS sweetheart. Instead he went on a date with me and we have been together for almost a year and we live together. He has given me this ultimatum to continue with our relationship. I don't know if I can do this, I wish I could move out and let him try the single life he says he missed out on, but I am afraid of losing him and I don't want something to happen, but I'm tired of being ridiculed. I want him to see me for who I am today and what I offer, not my past. Please help! Should I put my feelings aside and take the torture of seeing him have sex with someone or should I get out of his life and let him do his thing and pray he wants me back. 30 ish female. (link)
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No please don't it simply means he doesn't love you he just LUSTS for you because if he really love you he should respect your decision.
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I'm so worried about dating. I'm 18 and in university and I haven't dated anyone or even kissed a guy. I do want to eventually settle down and I have had crushed on guys but it's just so hard for me to talk to them and I feel that sometimes it's just not worth the effort. Then there is a the whole virginity thing, in my culture it's expected that I will only lose my virginity after marriage and I want it to be that way, but it seems so unlikely that someone will want to wait that long! I don't know how to find out if they would or not! Even guys from my culture aren't interested as far as I know! I'm not really sure what kind of advice I want but anything would be helpful I guess! Have you experienced anything similar? (link)
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Never give in to what others want for you,you have your own mind and standards so don't lower them.
Only a few girls like you follow that culture.Virginity should be given after marriage.Good for you!
Keep that standard.If you have a boyfriend and he wants you to give your virginity even though you don't want to don't.It just means he doesn't love you.He only LUSTS for you
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I have lied to my boyfriend his car handle fell off so I try to fix it with some super glue he came to my house that evening and asked me if I tried to fix his hand on his car with super glue and I stood in front of him face to face and I said no so he said well I'm going to call my son and see if he done it so you got a hold of his son and his son said no I didn't do it look at the cameras that you have at your house and it will tell who did it. So the next day when he left for work I text him that I did ithe forgive me for that stupid lie but he still broke up with me because I did it face to face if you truly love somebody you shouldn't have to lie to him you should tell them the truth what should I do I asked him for a second chance but he's not listening or even talking to me (link)
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Trust is like glass hard to make easy to brake.
Give him time.
And next time tell the truth because it would be more worse if you hid it.
Ask help from Angel Chamuel
He will help you
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I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now (we're both 16 by the way) but we've not even kissed yet. We see each other at least once a week and get on so well when we're together. We'll hug goodbye but that is pretty much the only deliberate physical contact we have.
I would really love for things to go just slightly further than they have but I can't tell if that's what he wants. I realise that talking to him would be a good idea but whenever I approach the subject he just talks about something else (he's quite a shy/awkward person as am I).
Basically I have no clue what to do.
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Hi
It's either you are just a friend or he isn't ready to commit to a bf gf relationship
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I am so confused. I dont know what to do anymore. I am depressed all the time. To the point where all I want to do is cry and at times it takes all I have not to. I feel so alone. I have been married for 8 years but we never talk and lately he and I have been sleeping in separate rooms. We dont even argue we just dont talk. I know I am not happy anymore and I havent been for a long time. But we have children together and this is the only serious relationship I have ever had. To top it all he is controlling so I have never had a job and I dont know if I can support myself or my kids without him. I dont want to be miserable forever but I am terrified of life without him. I dont know how to survive without him. And I have absolutly no friends not a single one because my high school friends and I have drifted apart and I am not allowed out to have any. And I have no family I grew up in foster homes. So without him I am completely alone. I have no one to turn to. No one to stay with til I get on my feet. Am I being selfish by wanting a life of my own. What do I do? Where do I go from here? (link)
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Come on don't give up and don't lose hope.
Maybe you should try to rekindle that spark with your husband.Like a surprise dinner for two but i that doesn't work then tell me alrigt I will think of another idea.
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I'm Male, 19 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 16 months. We're both virgins. Lately, since I started working, I've had the temptation to just go out and cheat. I'm always super horny and fantasizing about doing stuff with other girls. I love my girlfriend and I feel super guilty for wanting to cheat. We never really do anything besides kiss. I don't want to pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want, and I don't pressure her. But she'll do stuff that hints that she wants to do something, then doesn't do it. Like sometimes we'll be sitting and she'll grab me and/or stroke me for a few seconds then stop. Sometimes she'll put my hand on her crotch so I could rub, but we never go any further. I work at a busy place in nyc, so I'm always seeing and meeting nice attractive girls. I always fantasize on my train commute too. Like everyday. Sometimes I even wonder about calling an escort, but I don't want to mess up. (link)
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I suggest don't cheat because it would break the trust which will break the relationship.And you are a strong couple so don't get little fantasies get in the way of your relationship.
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Jist of what happened in the past
- I liked his best friend, same college
- We met and even though things got messed up ended up liking each other
- Started dating when he passed out (im still doing my undergrad)
- we have been dating a year. I'm 19 he's 22
- our parents know about us and we have met both sides
- we met in college and then he passed out and started giving exams
- he couldn't clear the exams he gave so his parents got paranoid about him going on the wrong path or getting distracted because of me
- he promised his mom hed clear the last exam for us to prove to her he can do something
- he started working with this ngo in town so we would see each very often
- our friends knew and he even told his best buds that he'd marry me if we continue dating for a while
- we never had any problems even though he is a bit flirtatious with other women he was loyal to me
- Had a few fights because of the guys friends I had but it was all sorted out
A week back since I'm on vacation across the country he texted me saying that his result came out and he didn't clear it so he had to break up to concentrate on his career
He said he still loved me but he had to let this go since we were mad about each other. He said he hoped we got back together but couldn't promise anything for the future and didn't want to give me false hopes.
He said I was the best thing that happened to him. He also said his parents raised him and he needs to make them proud by achieving something in life and hence he needs to give up all the distractions in his life.
Its been a week and he wouldn't answer any of my calls or messages and has completely cut off. He told his friends he called it off and didn't give a reason and he wouldn't reply back to my friends at all.
I don't know what to do. I want him back because I love him even if it involves waiting but I don't know what is going on in his mind. I am also scared out of stupidity hed go any do something really reckless to get over me.
I don't know what to say to him when we meet when I get back but I am willing to do anything to rectify this. Do you have any advice as to why this happened and it could truly get him back? Or am I living in a dream world where fairytales exist and he is truly over me? (link)
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Friend
I think you should both give him some time off I know it hurts but accept it with your heart.He has an acceptable reason he needs to ace that test for the future.Besides you will be part of that future.He is doing this for the future where both of you may or may not get marrried (Sorry for the last part.)But if you ever get married it would be hard if one of you did not have a job right?
Hope this helped.
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I've been in a relationship with a girl from overseas for almost two years. I'm a 26 y/o guy, and she's 24. She came with me here about a year and a half ago. I treat her well, romance her, buy her roses, bake her cakes, take her out when I have time, tell her that she's beautiful, help her look for work, and a lot with English.
Last year she started acting funny and talking about a guy, and I found out she cheated on me by looking at her phone, and reading her emails (Not saying this was right, just that I did it). I confronted her, but I never really felt she thought what she did was wrong. I promised not to look at her stuff again.
For the half year since then she's been using her phone a ton, and hiding it from me. Lately she has been getting calls and messages from the guy she cheated with on me again, so often that even though she doesn't want me to know, it's inevitable that I would see at some point. She gets pissed off over trivial things, she's stuck to her phone 24/7, we hardly ever have sex anymore, and sometimes I don't feel like she even wants to be here.
So I gave her time, and everything just felt kind of wrong. I broke my promise and checked up on her. She's still cheating on me, and things never really stopped. She tells me she's faithful, nothing has happened, and she loves me, but I know she's lying.
Recently she got offered her dream job in my country, and the contract process is happening fairly quickly. She's staying here on a Partner visa with me, and we live together. If I break up with her, she either has to leave within a month, or become illegal. Apart from that, it will obviously make my life more hellish for that month than it already is living with a person who you know is lying to you with a straight face, while making out with another guy. I know that she is planning to stay with me for the two years it will take for her to gain permanent residence, and then leave me for the guy she is cheating on me with.
In my country, you can only ever sponsor two people to be partners, and if your first partner is granted PR, the length your second one has to wait grows to 5 years, rather than just 2.
I don't know how to handle breaking up with her, and what to say to who, when. I don't want to be taken advantage of, or have my name smeared by this. Breaking up with her before she gets PR will pretty much destroy her whole life as she knows it. She quit her job to come here with me, which is kind of a black spot on her employment history in her home country. I feel angry and upset about what she has done to our relationship, but I'm still battling feelings of love for her, and I don't want to see her broken. I wish everything I know about what's happened could be a lie, but I know it's not, so I have to deal with it.
To complicate things, accepting the job involves costly medical and security checks for her, and may mean we consider moving. I'm at university, and I only just found this out, right before the exam period. I really don't want to think about this before exams, and I definitely don't want to break up with her just before my first exam, so I am putting it off, but I feel so guilty for "supporting" her through the process of getting checks and references for this job that I know will be difficult if not impossible for her to keep.
What would you do?
What should I tell her? The truth? Or that I've fallen out of love, but don't know why? Or that one of her friends told me the truth?
How do I deal with the stress of living together with this oblivious lying girl who tells me she loves me?
What should I do to handle the resistance that I'm likely to have to breaking up with her? She won't want to break up with me, because she wants PR.
Can you tell me some steps and the order in which I might do them?
Any other general advice about the situation that I haven't asked a specific question about is more than welcome.
Thanks in advance.
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Dude she is such a user.
Break up with her
Don't ever go back with her even though she pleads
And next time know who your dates are before you even enter a relationship.
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Im Jade and im 14 and ive been dating my boyfriend Nick, 17, for almost more than a year. I feel like he tends to be overprotective and won't ever let me be around other people unless im next to him or whatever and it annoys me.And if we're out in public or with friends he can get a bit touchy feely, and I get embarrassed, and he does this mostly when we're around his friends. He'll grab my butt in front of them or smack it and its just so annoying cuz he thinks its funny and if I try and tell him to stop but he just tells me to shut up or he'll kiss me so I can shut up. I dont know why he does this and it really gets to me. There was an incident where we were at his friends house and he just shoved his hands down my pants without asking or telling me, and I told him to stop because his friend was watching and he gave me this death stare and told me to just go with it and I didn't want to, and he just leaned and kissed me so that I couldn't say anything else. Why does he do these things to me, I feel like he disregards my feelings when it comes to stuff like that. How do I tell him not to do this, I really dont want this to happen anymore. (link)
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May I just call you friend even though we are not that close?
Anyway,just tell him that his overprotectiveness will just kill your relationship slowly and try to understand his POV point of view besides he might have had some history of being too lenient in a relationship
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So i met this guy a few months back. (Im 19 and hes 21) To be specific we met mid April, we have been talking non stop every single day since then. Hes my best friends cousin so she was always trying to build things up between us when we met. Thing is, I got out of a relationship 3 months before I met him, so when we met it was really difficult for me to believe in anyone or anything for a while, I was devastated and it was a terrible time for me. When I met him, he really liked me.. he asked my friend for my number and asked to see me all the time, he was such a gentleman and was such a sweetheart. At first, he told me he liked me and I told him that i thought it was too early to talk about it because what comes easily breaks easily and he was iffy about it but I think he agreed. I thought to myself, well if this kid really likes me then he'll wait until the time is right between us and thats what I thought before he started pulling what hes pulling right now (Ill talk about that in a bit) Anyhow, we went on vacation together for 2 weeks..me, him, my best friend and their whole family. He would always ask my best friend to take pictures of us, everytime I was sitting down he'd rub my lower back very softly (not sexually at all) he was great and I started to really like him, I felt like things were really starting to build up between us and i could finally see us being together after feeling like I was not at all in the right state to be in a relationship, we came back from the vacation and he was the same..sweet all the time, texting me and calling me. till just last week when he stopped. He doesnt call me at all anymore unless I call..he barely texts, so im like okay this kid probably lost interest right? Then he texts me going, I dont know why you havent written me lately.. i kind of felt like he was trying to turn tables on me because he knows that I was upset with him for not coming to see me the day he said he would, so i told him that I always write him but hes the one being weird and distant and hes like No im not but I really liked that you called me previously to go out and see me, I apppreciated your effort" and im like okay well great if you appreciate my effort and write me and get annoyed that I dont write you, then why are you being weird and distant and not writing me at all or calling or being half as sweet as you used to be ? I didnt literrally say that but thats what i was thinkig. Before our vacation and even a few days after, he would call me sweet thigs like "Love, babe " Now, nothig at all. What happend? Did he randomly lose interest?? What do i do. should i just forget him? To be honest its all making me feel terrible about myself, I feel like my self esteem is so low and I keep thinking its somethig I did. I showed him I liked him A LOT after our vacation, even if I didnt say it im positive he knew because Id say things like "Im telling you this because your special to me, your the only guy I really care about" and I swear I meant it all. Im just confused now. Any advice would be helpful, thank you! (link)
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Sorry to offend you if I will but I think what you both had was only Mutual Understanding I don't really know about it that much.But this may help understand it
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Mutual+Understanding
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my name is Rachel and I am a 25 year old female and almost a year ago I was dating this guy named Aaron who went to my church and he was very involved in the church and all my family and friends told me that he was a good guy so I didn't have to worry about him doing anything to intentionally hurt me in any way and I also assumed that since he went to church that he was a good guy and that I could trust him but both my family , friends, and I were wrong because he did hurt me and it wasn't by accident either . lets just say after 3 months into our relationship we had sex which it was my first time having sex with anybody I was virgin until him and it was the biggest mistake of my life losing my virginity to a jerk like Aaron and I regret it because I know that I can never get it back again . I know having sex that early in a relationship was to soon and that was my mistake. After we had sex he told me that he wanted me to tell my family and friends that I cheated on him if I were to end up pregnant because he didn't want anyone one to know that he had sex outside of marriage and when I told him that I wasn't going to do that he broke up with me and will not speak to me or even look at me anymore. I don't understand why he would do to me ? I don't understand what I did to deserve the pure hell and torment that he is putting me through . It's been a year now since it's happened and I am still not over him last night was far the worst melt down I've ever had . I was getting ready for church and I knew he was going to be there because he always is and I couldn't even get dressed by myself my cousin had to help me because I was sweating and shaking so bad my dad had to help me with my hair . I am just so embarrassed that when I am writing this I feel like crying . I ended up staying home from church yester because my cousin told me I didn't need to go if it was going to upset me that badly . I couldn't sleep at all last night . I didn't go to bed until midnight and woke up at 3:30 in the morning and my cousin had to lay down with me just so I could get back to sleep . she told me if I ever needed someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on she was there and if it wasn't for her last night I couldn't have made it through it by myself .why do I still love him after what he put me through? my cousin told me it was probably because he was the guy that I lost my virginity to and I will get over him eventually but it just takes some time please help me . (link)
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I am pretty sure that the scar in your heart hurts a lot since the first cuts are the most painful ones.He is not a man more or less because he can not take responsibility for what he had done.If ever he got you pregnant he should be responsible for it it's his fault(most of it) and friend please never let your guard down on guys especially if he is the sweet kind and handsome type.
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I have a problem finding a boyfriend and I think it may be because of my appearance. I am 162cm tall,weigh about 65kg,I have long blonde hair,blue eyes and I dress nice. I am told by many people that I am actually beautiful but I have trouble believing it because it is really hard for me to find a boyfriend. I do take care of my looks but I'm no supermodel. My good friends and family told me they think I'm having difficulties with this because I don't want to go for just a one night stand,I want a serious relationship with a normal guy. But I feel like nobody will even try to get to know me because there are so many prettier girls than me out there. Pretty face will be gone,but a good woman will always be a good woman. So is appearance really the main factor for a guy who is choosing a possible girlfriend? Just thinking about it makes me stop pursuing anyone ever again.
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Do you know Ugly Betty or I Love Betty La Fea in spanish then she was loved by the gut not because of her looks but because of her good heart and some movies have that concept.
Never ever think that everything beautiful is nice because it is like a mask that hides the true face of a person.
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Okay, so here it is. I have a crush on this guy since I graduated from highschool and I'm in college now, so that's like, two years. The crazy thing is he does not have any idea I have a crush on him. We haven't even exchanged few words from each other. I mean, how did I even have a crush on him? Anyway, I still stalk him on Facebook. I know, I'm such a creep. I want to somehow let him know, you know, about how I feel. I am planning of sending him a message on Facebook. But, I don't know. Should I send him or should I not? I really need an advice. Please.
I am 18 and I'm female. (link)
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First I think you should hang out for a while then after friendship
Tell him how you feel however be always prepared of what he may say after
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I am from Nepal a 20 years girl.My bf says me that I am characterless.He fought with me and we broke up.I haven't done anything like characterless.He used vulgur words and bit me hardly.I still love him.I can't live without him.I wanna die Days are very difficult to live.Nights are diffucult to dream..What should I do?I am completely broken. (link)
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Don't let his words affect you because they are just words they can be empty.Get over him he isn't worthy for a girl like you.
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i use to date this guy named alex a month ago. he's a freshman in college and im a senior in high school.i can say that I was really in love with him enough to lose my virginity to him and he's one those guys that doesn't show his feelings and he hasn't been in many real relationships and I know what we had was real. we broke up because he never made time for me when he came into town for the weekend and we never really had the typical relationship regular people had. all we did was txt and occasionally oovoo. I wanted him to do the simplest things to show he cared and he never did. I cant really explain all the wrong things because no one gets it but me. and I just really got fed up with it all and ended it. and right after I started talking to this guy named allah. he's perfect and he does everything that alex never did and I really like him. the problem is that its hard to let him in because of past things with alex. I told alex everything , our connection was different than ive had with anyone. I cant open up or let myself love anyone else. im even scared to have sex with him because I don't feel right having sex with someone else. if im being honest I still have feelings for alex and I haven't let go of him hurting me so much. I literally just found the guy I want but still stuck on feelings for alex. he was really something special to me and idk how to move on. allah understands it all but why cant I just let go of alex (link)
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Just remember that love has some scars that can be healed only by either love itself or time
Try to not see him often but talk at least once in a while and tell your friends to try not to bring upp your past relationship with Alex
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A few days ago I realized I like a guy from college. Who happens to be one of my best friends. Today we had an awkward situation where I nearly toppled over him. I was extremely embarrased and I realized I am like that because I like him. I don't get embarrased easily unless it's a crush. The thing is,I had a bad break up recently and I don't want a rejection to make it any worse. Any ideas to get my mind off of him? I wanna stay his friend,I just don't wanna like him anymore. (link)
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You know this guy might be the one for you,give it and maybe you might have your happily ever after
But...
If you really don't like him and just wanna be friends with him,then let it be it will pass.
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