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In need of relationship advice
I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now (we're both 16 by the way) but we've not even kissed yet. We see each other at least once a week and get on so well when we're together. We'll hug goodbye but that is pretty much the only deliberate physical contact we have.
I would really love for things to go just slightly further than they have but I can't tell if that's what he wants. I realise that talking to him would be a good idea but whenever I approach the subject he just talks about something else (he's quite a shy/awkward person as am I).
Basically I have no clue what to do.
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It's either you are just a friend or he isn't ready to commit to a bf gf relationship
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If its not shyness and just a fact that he sees you as a best friend but there's no spark on his part, then you both will know with the kiss. Since he is not willing to talk about it, but he does want to remain your boyfriend, then I see no other choice than you making the first move.
When both are shy, it takes one making the first move. If you over-think it, you will never act upon it to make the first move. The longer you think about it, the more nervous and anxious and maybe fearful you will become of his reaction or whatever. So next time the mood hits, just go for it. Even some experienced older men will be polite and leave it up to the woman to make the first move for first kiss and sex, not because they lack any desire, but they want the woman to either signal when she's ready for it or just make the first move. My 2nd husband is not a shy man. But he was like that with the 1st kiss and with sex, i had to make the first move, but once I did, I could tell it was very welcome.
Let me know how it works out.
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Next time you're closing in for that goodbye hug, look him square in the eyes,flash him your biggest, brightest and sexiest smile and ask him "Isn't it about time I got a proper kiss?". Tilt your head a little to one side, move your face towards his. Enjoy! XX
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