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I don't want to like him.
20,f
A few days ago I realized I like a guy from college. Who happens to be one of my best friends. Today we had an awkward situation where I nearly toppled over him. I was extremely embarrased and I realized I am like that because I like him. I don't get embarrased easily unless it's a crush. The thing is,I had a bad break up recently and I don't want a rejection to make it any worse. Any ideas to get my mind off of him? I wanna stay his friend,I just don't wanna like him anymore.
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I understand not wanting to be with someone because of a bad break up. But maybe give it some time and he might be a good guy for you?
In the mean time, if you really would like to move on. Then give yourself some time away from him. Don't hang out with him too often and go out and meet new guys. Eventually, if you let yourself, you'll move on.
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You know this guy might be the one for you,give it and maybe you might have your happily ever after
But...
If you really don't like him and just wanna be friends with him,then let it be it will pass.
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Why deny yourself something that in your gut feels incredibly right? Yes, you were hurt recently and before but this guy ain't like the last guy. Do yourself a favor if you like him go for it otherwise you'll be miserable for not taking the chance.
It seems you are really close and he wouldn't say no but if he did... If you have been friends for a long time it wouldn't affect anything. If you like someone so bad you can't get your mind off that person and shouldn't. I wouldn't deny how you feel or try to hide it. That's not healthy. Best to get it out there and try.
Rejection may sting but what's worse the not knowing and the intense feelings being hidden or taking a gamble that could pay off into a really solid foundation for a relationship that could really blossom?
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