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About my crush.
Okay, so here it is. I have a crush on this guy since I graduated from highschool and I'm in college now, so that's like, two years. The crazy thing is he does not have any idea I have a crush on him. We haven't even exchanged few words from each other. I mean, how did I even have a crush on him? Anyway, I still stalk him on Facebook. I know, I'm such a creep. I want to somehow let him know, you know, about how I feel. I am planning of sending him a message on Facebook. But, I don't know. Should I send him or should I not? I really need an advice. Please.
I am 18 and I'm female.
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First I think you should hang out for a while then after friendship
Tell him how you feel however be always prepared of what he may say after
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I think that you should talk to him in person if you go to the same college, like a quick flirty smile in the halls or a hey. If your in the same classes then you could even ask him on facebook about homework. Just remember to always be relaxed, and confident in who you are! :) If your not in the same school then if you message him, message him when he is online of course, and message him only once. If he doesn't reply unless it's a good reason, then don't message again. if he takes a long time to message you back, take that time and divide it by two to write back.
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I think you should send him a message. It can just be a hi how are you kind of message and see where that goes.
I think taking chances is a good idea. You never know unless you try.
Even if it doesn't turn out to be something more, like maybe he's not exactly what you're looking for or something, he might end up being a good friend.
So just take a chance and start off as friends and see if it goes anywhere. I think it might be worth it.
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Hi,
YES! You should send him a message on facebook!
If you still have a crush on this guy and you have not communicated sufficiently with him, then how can you expect him to reciprocate your crush? Please send him a message and have an actual conversation with him to really see if you two connect. Of course he doesn't know that you are crushing on him because you have barely spoken to him! When you put yourself out there and become friends with him, he will most likely have a crush on you too and you could possibly start dating.
Seriously, how can you expect him to even know who you are if you haven't spoken to him enough?!
Anyway, good luck ^-^, and do not feel like a creep for "stalking" his social media. Seriously, almost everyone does it. EVERYONE.
You should know if you want something and it doesn't make the first move, then you should.
Seriously, he can't say no to just speaking to you. And if he says no to dating you, that's the worse thing that can happen and it really isn't that bad. It's his loss... ;).
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz
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